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Is sexual liberation a fantasy for the majority of people?

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I would have thought that london would have been one of the most active scenes, simply because of the number of people who live here. But Im having real trouble finding any socials or munches.
It might just be the inexperience in that i just dont know where to be looking for them. Ive read about clubs like "our place for fun", but as a student, the prices for single men are prohibitive. Its just a shame that men are horny bastards. lol.
Is sexual liberation a fantasy for the majority of those to whom it appeals, simply because of the relative numbers of men and women?
Also If I do find a way to make it to a munch, then is it going to be a large group of men jostling for the attention of a single couple or female? thats doesnt sound relaxed or fun.
I came to the swinging scene with my head held high, and great hope in my heart, but now I'm left feeling lost and insignificant.
Is my dream of having a close group of similarly minded friends simply a dream that will never come true?.
If you got through all of that, well done you! Its a little depressing. lol.
Chin up Anoush, Soldier on.
I lived down south for a while and always thought it seemed quieter on the socials front too, to be honest. I mostly went Dogging down there by way of 'keeping my hand' in (so to speak).
You'll find 'word of mouth' is probably your best marketing tool. Maybe you and brucie could take on the single female population of Greater London together, or he could share some with you as he seems to have lawyers, porn stars and women queuing up to shag him innocent
I think you're hot and could gladly see me throwing you around the bedroom all night until your teeth chattered.. oh, and welcome to the Forum wink
x
yeah, no that makes sense.
How often do socials happen? I'd be quite happy to set one up, but Im pretty sure that it would be a terrible idea, considering that Ive never even *been* to one, never mind organised one. lol.
i know nothing of the amount of socials aor munches down in London. Certainly in midlands we get our share. What I would say is at munches and socials....you do not get groups of single men vying for the attention of ladies and couples. They are purely a social event, and so is just a way for like minded people to have a drink and a dance and a chat together. The munches and socials are quite explict that it is a non play arena. So therefore it is very much, a non pressured environment for all concerned.
Ha! Cheers BIoke. ill keep it in mind just in case smile
thats really good to know Dean. It would just be great to be in the presence of other people who think in a similar way, boys, girls couples smile just to have friends who are more liberated to talk about sex would be amazing.
Ive set up a london group. Pretty broad description. No one yet, but hopefully in time. smile
Edit: also, has anyone even been chatting to someone, getting on really well, swapping pics and videos, and then just had them dissappear completely? Was it something I said? lol. Im just a little concerned that something has happened to her. :/
Quote by flower411
We`ve been to a couple of London socials in the past ...
Keep watching the Lets meet up forum and the club meets ....for some strange reason some of the socials get moved in there.

Sorry for the hijack but just had to ask.
Flower what's with the new avatar?
It looks like a fairy with a halo on rolleyes
So does that mean you are a good fairy
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theladyisaminx, you avatar is the cutest thing I have ever seen! Look at his little tummy!
re-hijack.
I started a london group and it got a swinging couple! yay! Ive already said hi and asked them to bear with the group till it grows. lol smile
As they said in Field of Dreams: "build it and they will come..."
Good luck setting up the group - maybe from that you could arrange to meet up for drinks and then arrange a site social when a few more folk know you. You may find that people are just waiting for someone to throw their hat in and organise something.
There have been London socials in the past, so as others say keep an eye out in Let's Meet Up and Club Meets forums.
Good luck!
Nola x
Quote by noladreams
As they said in Field of Dreams: "build it and they will come..."...

Yes - but if I licked his arse and filled him with meat he'd probably cum too with a whole lot less effort on his part :shock: lol
wink x
Quote by BIoke
As they said in Field of Dreams: "build it and they will come..."...

Yes - but if I licked his arse and filled him with meat he'd probably cum too with a whole lot less effort on his part :shock: lol
wink x
rotflmao Filth!
Quote by Theladyisaminx
We`ve been to a couple of London socials in the past ...
Keep watching the Lets meet up forum and the club meets ....for some strange reason some of the socials get moved in there.

Sorry for the hijack but just had to ask.
Flower what's with the new avatar?
It looks like a fairy with a halo on rolleyes
So does that mean you are a good fairy
<<<<<<<<<<<< rotflmao
Getting in touch with his feminine side.
lol
Quote by BIoke
As they said in Field of Dreams: "build it and they will come..."...

Yes - but if I licked his arse and filled him with meat he'd probably cum too with a whole lot less effort on his part :shock: lol
wink x
HaHa! I feel a little giggly. lol.
Quote by Anoush
As they said in Field of Dreams: "build it and they will come..."...

Yes - but if I licked his arse and filled him with meat he'd probably cum too with a whole lot less effort on his part :shock: lol
wink x
HaHa! I feel a little giggly. lol.
His arse-licking has that effect... that and the wide-eyed gasping :rascal:
Quote by Anoush
As they said in Field of Dreams: "build it and they will come..."...

Yes - but if I licked his arse and filled him with meat he'd probably cum too with a whole lot less effort on his part :shock: lol
wink x
HaHa! I feel a little giggly. lol.
Thats called nervous wink
Quote by Anoush
As they said in Field of Dreams: "build it and they will come..."...

Yes - but if I licked his arse and filled him with meat he'd probably cum too with a whole lot less effort on his part :shock: lol
wink x
HaHa! I feel a little giggly. lol.
Its OK to feel giggly but don't forget to hold your breath hold onto something and brace :shock:
biggrin
Quote by flower411
We`ve been to a couple of London socials in the past ...
Keep watching the Lets meet up forum and the club meets ....for some strange reason some of the socials get moved in there.

Sorry for the hijack but just had to ask.
Flower what's with the new avatar?
It looks like a fairy with a halo on rolleyes
So does that mean you are a good fairy
<<<<<<<<<<<< rotflmao
It`s an angel wiv a halo ! :P
Cos I`m a little angel lol
u fallen yet? lol :angel: :angel: :angel: :angel: :angel: