I would have thought that london would have been one of the most active scenes, simply because of the number of people who live here. But Im having real trouble finding any socials or munches.
It might just be the inexperience in that i just dont know where to be looking for them. Ive read about clubs like "our place for fun", but as a student, the prices for single men are prohibitive. Its just a shame that men are horny bastards. lol.
Is sexual liberation a fantasy for the majority of those to whom it appeals, simply because of the relative numbers of men and women?
Also If I do find a way to make it to a munch, then is it going to be a large group of men jostling for the attention of a single couple or female? thats doesnt sound relaxed or fun.
I came to the swinging scene with my head held high, and great hope in my heart, but now I'm left feeling lost and insignificant.
Is my dream of having a close group of similarly minded friends simply a dream that will never come true?.
If you got through all of that, well done you! Its a little depressing. lol.
Chin up Anoush, Soldier on.
yeah, no that makes sense.
How often do socials happen? I'd be quite happy to set one up, but Im pretty sure that it would be a terrible idea, considering that Ive never even *been* to one, never mind organised one. lol.
i know nothing of the amount of socials aor munches down in London. Certainly in midlands we get our share. What I would say is at munches and socials....you do not get groups of single men vying for the attention of ladies and couples. They are purely a social event, and so is just a way for like minded people to have a drink and a dance and a chat together. The munches and socials are quite explict that it is a non play arena. So therefore it is very much, a non pressured environment for all concerned.
As they said in Field of Dreams: "build it and they will come..."
Good luck setting up the group - maybe from that you could arrange to meet up for drinks and then arrange a site social when a few more folk know you. You may find that people are just waiting for someone to throw their hat in and organise something.
There have been London socials in the past, so as others say keep an eye out in Let's Meet Up and Club Meets forums.
Good luck!
Nola x