We have only met up with a couple of people but I already feel that now this little pandora's box would be very hard to close so the question is;
Is swinging addictive?
yes it is addictive and it comes with the side effects one gets when they can't get a fix,(fix in this case being a "meet").
i dont know if its addictive as such,
i know when im horny its like a drug, often dont think straight, if i crave a certain thing no amount of porn or playing alone will satisfy the craving.
I have been swinging alot of years, thats not to say ive slept with thousands of people, ive been fortunate that ive found over the years a few good FWB.
swinging isnt as such something i do, its more im a swinger, just as im bi etc.
i do often wonder if i met a vanilla could i give this up, and in truth no i couldnt as that then wouldnt be me. If however i met a swinger( and we were in a relationship outside of swinging) and they decided they no longer wanted to do it i would respect that but i would stay here to talk to like minded people and feel at home.
am i addicted yeah sod it ok i am lol
xxx fem xxx