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for single guys it appears not to be the case, this should make an interesting discusion.
Lets see what single guys think
dunno
Er, Its late & i'm tired- but I can't see it making more sense in the morning either!
Mabe you could phrase your question a little less ambiguously Scorpio.
:thumbup:
Quote by scorpio1950
for single guys it appears not to be the case, this should make an interesting discusion.
Lets see what single guys think

You've asked this question before, in a slightly different guise (do single guys get a look in with couples, do any other guys have problems getting a meet). You should know how couples feel anyway, as you've stated in previous posts that you have a gifrlfriend. You know what you think about this. Other single guys will be split between those who don't moan about it and those who do; the respective responses from them will be predictable. They always are.
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dunno
Er, Its late & i'm tired- but I can't see it making more sense in the morning either!
Mabe you could phrase your question a little less ambiguously Scorpio.
:thumbup:

What he means is, that the single guys appear to have some competition.
Of course it's not a level playing field, but then neither is life biggrin
Some guys will always be more attractive because of their cock size/ personality/ age/ colour/ location/ build, or any one of a hundred things that people find important.
Every guy has a cock. To stand a chance you need more than just that!
Of course it's not a level playing field. :doh:
to start with the women are outnumbered by single blokes by 20-1 or something silly, then you have to consider that lots of these blokes are less than polite/educated/socially skilled etc. then there's the factor of personal tastes from age to race to cock size. most of the forum users only meet people they know from here or have met at munches for several reasons but mainly down to personal connection and safety. I don't even need to explain the time/distance/baby sitter problems that can crop up.
Couples is going to be worse as you have to fit the criteria of two people.
So yes, women and couples do have all the power and there's bugger all you can do about it.
So i guess you want to know if single blokes ever get a meet on here?
well you could try answering every ad on the site on the off chance you might get lucky rolleyes
or get posting in the forum so people know who you are and what you're like. :thumbup:
and the answer to your question is..........yes wink, and you might even end up with some good friends as an added bonus biggrin
Quote by Lissa
Of course it's not a level playing field, but then neither is life biggrin
Some guys will always be more attractive because of their cock size/ personality/ age/ colour/ location/ build, or any one of a hundred things that people find important.
Every guy has a cock. To stand a chance you need more than just that!

A Harley maybe lol
Quote by Phoenix
Of course it's not a level playing field, but then neither is life biggrin
Some guys will always be more attractive because of their cock size/ personality/ age/ colour/ location/ build, or any one of a hundred things that people find important.
Every guy has a cock. To stand a chance you need more than just that!

A Harley maybe lol
WASH YOUR MOUTH OUT WITH SOAP :shock:
You used the 'H' word!
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Quote by Lissa
Of course it's not a level playing field, but then neither is life biggrin
Some guys will always be more attractive because of their cock size/ personality/ age/ colour/ location/ build, or any one of a hundred things that people find important.
Every guy has a cock. To stand a chance you need more than just that!

A Harley maybe lol
WASH YOUR MOUTH OUT WITH SOAP :shock:
You used the 'H' word!
:D :D :D :D :D
I like Harleys.... Potato, Potato. Last machine was a Yamaha TR1.
On to the subject of an even playing field, even with a good pitch, it depends on which way the ball bounces confused
of course its an even playing field lol I think your just looking for it to be a bit more even for you :lol:
No it's not a level playing field. It annoys me that some single guys blame the 'tar us all with the same brush' reason for a good moan here. Some single guys are lovely people, some I've met with, some I wouldn't touch with someone else's barge pole. Equally there are some couples that are lovely and some single women but there are some who aren't. You can't say that all single guys are bad and all couples and single women are great because it's simply not true.
Some ads do say 'no single guys', which is fair enough. It's a choice thing. I don't go through the couples seeking men ads and get upset that they're not looking for women. Face facts, there is a much larger number of single men on here than couples and women, so no it's not a level playing field. I've just spent the evening in chat reading a lot of very crude and unnecassary remarks, most of them were made by single men. You can stand out by being a nice person, by being respectful and by not tarring yourself with the single male stigma.
H.x
Wouldn’t life be boring if every thing was easy.
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you get out of swinging what you put into it, if you want to meet genuine swingers you have to get yourself know, many many single guys will not entertain going to a social/munch or meeting you just for a drink because they are just after sex, but its a fact that going to a munch could get you several meets in the future cause if a woman or couple want a single guy they are more likely to pick one they have met and chatted to then a total stranger out the chat room who they don't even know will turn up.
Quote by scorpio1950
for single guys it appears not to be the case, this should make an interesting discusion.
Lets see what single guys think

In the Forums No mad :x
Single males IMO get worse responce to their questions/ads etc in the forums than a Single female would rolleyes
BUT
There's some great cpls/fems to be found here you just have to be patient wink
as already been said, you have already raised this discussion before, so no need to raise it again so soon.
Locked.
Mal
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