Is the temptation the unforbidden fruit?

30 Aug 2009

I have often thought what turns me on being here on sh.
We are married and I am the female of the couple, and I have the constent of my hubby to have sex with other guys if and when I want to.
We havent met many but one of the things that turns me on is the fact that if I chat to a guy that attracts me I know I can have if I want sex with him.
There is a guy I have been talking to that we share all our fantasies together, hubby knows we talk and have been for about two years now. But me and this guy want to meet but have decided never to but find each other such a turn on.
We have decided the reason for this we believe it could ruin the friendship we have formed, we see each other as the unbidden fruit never to touch but wanting to, so it has kept the friendship going over the years.
Have others felt this way, as I do find the wanting but not having such a frill, although at times so frustrating too, but I think thats why its still exciting too and we havent got bored of each other.
Hubby is very much part of this fantasy and he enjoys the fact I want this guy so much and him me. He said if we ever all met it would be mind blowing, But we have all decided to keep it the way it is and enjoy it for what it is.
So is it sometimes the frill of the unforbidden fruit thats arousing?

30 Aug 2009

I think so Minx. In a similar way, I use fantasies occasionally when orgasm is eluding me. But if I voice, or try to re-enact said fantasy, it doesn't work anymore. That said, some of my fantasies are memories which I have elaborated. I have several friends on here, with whom I have bantered about what we'd do to each other if we found ourselves in the same room. I have a feeling, that if it were to happen, it would either not live up to my expectations, or would change our relationship to the detriment. As you have said, Minx, I think it is the thrill of the chase, rather than the satisfaction of the catch, that makes these mind games so arousing.

30 Aug 2009

I think if you've both thought about it and come to the mutual decision that to meet would risk what you have and really enjoy in cyber space would be a waste, and your happy with how you carry on at the moment. Fuck it stay the way you are.

30 Aug 2009

On re-reading the title to this thread I reckon most fruit is unforbidden confused

In matter of fact theres not a fruit I think im not allowed biggrin