Is there anyway back from Swinging..

14 Apr 2008

We took a long time deciding to swing and when we did we had massive conversational marathons about how & what happened and when. I'm glad we made the decision to go with 'it' as for us it has been liberating sexy as hell and to be honest other than one or two :shock: type glitches its been a really positive thing so far. Saying that it is only 2.5 years along the road.
If however one of us decided that it wasn't the way to go........could we go back? I don't know, I really don't. We have learned and experienced so much, as well as being able to communicate at a different level, going back to the way it was would be so difficult.
Such things as, me being a bloke and now knowing that Mrs Lost might like the attentions of another fem or maybe more than one person at a time. Not saying that the case of course innocent

but you get my drift? Going back to sex with just one person, the same person for ever more etc. well I could see that as a possible stress factor at the least.
I personally hope that we swing for a long time more and hopefully can't see why we shouldn't. But these are just bijou thoughtettes flying around my mind at this point on a Monday night brought on by thinking about the swingers we haven't seen or heard from in the chat rooms for a long time and wonder where they got to etc.

14 Apr 2008

i havent swang long enough to have a comment but am enjoying what am doing at the moment...oh what is , two and half years or two years and 5 months

14 Apr 2008

Quote by Phuckers
i havent swang long enough to have a comment but am enjoying what am doing at the moment...oh what is , two and half years or two years and 5 months

whats a month between friends lol

14 Apr 2008

have you tried sat nav................. rolleyes

14 Apr 2008

ha ha ha mark and hellnheaven,you guys are making my evening,who cares whats happening in cams on a monday nite...

15 Apr 2008

we started swinging nearly 30 years ago with just 1 couple and 9 or 10 years ago got more into it with introduction of "the internet" and 8 years ago visited our 1st swinging club,and since then it's been a roller coaster ride full of highs but also lows,swinging can become a "drug" ie/ you can get addicted to it and when work allowed we visited clubs every day of the week,taking holidays from work to go too 've met some great people over that time and become really good friends with as we getting older we've slowed down a little (having said that we've visited 5 clubs in last 5 days). were on a high after a great week yet days can go by without even 1 genuine meet. its a great roller coaster ride and we're glad we joined it.

15 Apr 2008

our advice is keep trying "whips" you will find your own way of determining whos gen etc. and eventually you will get a meet thats so good will get you on a high and keep continuing on the scene. however just because peeps are on swingers sites dont make them all good "players". in with other couples and us girls pass on "good performers" names.