We have been to a couple of clubs in the last few weeks and have noticed that some (note we have said some) males seem to have a total lack of respect for females, One club we were at and playing in a pool on our own when a male came behind female and proceeded to try to penetrate her from behind when he was not asked to join in and with out even asking, needless to say we lost it with him and spoke to management, who took the view to with draw his membership and throw him out. On the last occasion we were playing with people when a male came over and decide to try once again to penetrate female with no invite or asking, Is it getting to the stage where males think just because they have payed an entrance fee that any female when she is playing is there for them to relieve there sexual frustration out on and what is worse not to use a condom.
Is it just us being fussy or is it an unacceptable tend with some single males having no respect for females.
B n H
whenever i read threads like this It always makes me cringe that single guys always come under attack....
the reason is i have seen some couples act really poorly in clubs yet they always seem to get a free pass....
yes we have all seen some people take the attitude that if they have paid their money where is the "meat" so to speak and yes it is frustrating....... i have seen that attitude in single men.. single women.. and couples..
Like Fabio we have also seen couples acting poorly towards people and having been going to clubs for over 3 years have seen a lot happening , but on these two nights we did not give any signals in any form that we wanted these two males to play let alone penetrate the female and yes we have had males and couples follow us around all night wanting to play which is very annoying, but some thing we accept that does happen in clubs.
B n H
having been to a few of the North West clubs both as a single and as part of a couple with different ladies i have to say that ettiquete and rules are something that are learned from/shown by other guests and not something that people naturally may be aware of.
ive yet to see a printed list or hear of specific rules announced in any way.I think that i learnt the ropes through reading this forum and going to clubs with so-called regulars, thereby having an insight into what is, afterall,one of the most open environments there is.... where one would expect there to be little by way of barriers put in the way of sexual contact.....unless you knew better.
i therefore think that its a matter of ignorance when people "mis-behave" although in the cited example you would have thought that the culprits should have known better.
i mean...... fancy interrupting someone taking a shot at pool... how very rude :shock:
To be honest i know a few women who go to clubs who like men just joining in i think it depends what your into or maybe the mood your in, personally if i'm in the mood for a group session and go into a open room i almost expect men to just join in, of course if i dont like them i'll say no but in a way i think it spoils the mood if you have to keep stopping looking round and asking men if they want to join you, but then i have always worked on the basis men who just stand watching are there cause they want to just watch and if they wanted to join in they would try so i wouldnt personally ask a guy who was watching if he wanted to play anyway cause the chances are he wont, i find it quite funny when i read these threads because i have so many times played in a open room at clubs wanting people to join and they hardly ever do then those who dont want people to join in moan cause they always do lol but i think everyone be them male or female need to knows other peoples bounderies b4 making a move, if your in a room where others are joining and it seems to be accepted then i guess its ok to just join in other wise its only polite to find out where you stand b4 you upset others.
Lol, were you at a club sunday night naughtynymphos,
B n H
Northwest-cpl you got your finger on the button :giggle:
We enjoy playing in open rooms and normally have no problems as often like others to join in but was just the way it was done.
B n H
some clubs r out to rob single guys and some charge
£100 / £120 for a single guy.
so the guy thinks that the girls have been invited just for them.
we went to a club like it once, and when we found out what they paid we just walked away.
some couples like to play, but others like to watch.
so yes its hard for couples n singles to know whos / who............so just say hi and if they shun u then move on............
:giggle: :giggle: northwest-cpl
We been in clubs playing in open rooms when males have pulled out there cock and stood there trying to get fem to bj them when she was notinterested in them by sticking it in her face anywhere from chin to eyes and get real jarred of when they get ignored ot told to go away and play in loo,lol.
But got to say we always seem to have fun when we go to clubs and enjoy meeting people there. In the norm most people respect others there and most seem to get a message across about playing or joining in.
B n H
some clubs r out to rob single guys and some charge
£100 / £120 for a single guy.
so the guy thinks that the girls have been invited just for them.
we went to a club like it once, and when we found out what they paid we just walked away.
some couples like to play, but others like to watch.
so yes its hard for couples n singles to know whos / who............so just say hi and if they shun u then move on............
being single myself i get to see the problems us guys face.
its one thing or another, people on sites (and it doesnt matter which) tend to blame the single guy for everything.
more guys are looking than women or couples, and most couples are looking for a bi-female so the single guys will always it will always be that way.
But what this guy did in my book is one has the right to just jump in and play with someone unless approached first.I always let the women make the first move as its the only way of telling without the old slap in the face.
In the chatrooms i do understand how some guys behave and speak to female members and some of that i do not agree because she is on an adult site does not mean she is up for anything straight away or is a piece of meat.
And the same goes for adult venues or clubs.
Because of what a guy does please dont think we are all the same because i can assure you we are not.
some clubs r out to rob single guys and some charge
£100 / £120 for a single guy.
so the guy thinks that the girls have been invited just for them.
we went to a club like it once, and when we found out what they paid we just walked away.
some couples like to play, but others like to watch.
so yes its hard for couples n singles to know whos / who............so just say hi and if they shun u then move on............
We have only rarely been on the receiving end (no pun intended) of unwanted advances. Maybe its the Geordie accent, does "oh yes, your welcome" sound like "feck orf" to Southerners?
John & Shel
And trying to shove a cock in unasked is the height of bad manners.
