Is this Normal?

6 Dec 2004

Hi Guys,
Just looking for some opinions really.
For the past 8 years i have been meeting my first love once or twice a year, we meet up go out have a nice meal catch up generally have a great evening. We then have the most fantastic intense sex biggrin

:D

We allways stay in touch inbetween, she has a partner and so do I. We met at uni and had a great relationship which only ended as i moved to cornwall for work and she wanted to do the London thing sad

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I often wonder if I should have made more of a go of things but thats in the past now, i've never spoken to anyone else about this but feel you guys may have some thoughts you could share with me, does anyonr else have a relationship like this?
I feel better now with a little unburdonning.
Thanks.
Northcoastboy. wink

6 Dec 2004

No idea but I do screw my ex husband once in a while, although it tends to remind me that I'm better off without him lol

:lol:

6 Dec 2004

Quote by northcoastboy
Hi Guys,
Just looking for some opinions really.
For the past 8 years i have been meeting my first love once or twice a year, we meet up go out have a nice meal catch up generally have a great evening. We then have the most fantastic intense sex :D
We allways stay in touch inbetween, she has a partner and so do I. We met at uni and had a great relationship which only ended as i moved to cornwall for work and she wanted to do the London thing .
I often wonder if I should have made more of a go of things but thats in the past now, i've never spoken to anyone else about this but feel you guys may have some thoughts you could share with me, does anyonr else have a relationship like this?
I feel better now with a little unburdonning.
Thanks.
Northcoastboy.

If it works for you, it works for you - doesn't matter what anyone else is doing confused

Have I missed something??? :?

6 Dec 2004

One of our society's biggest faults is a ridiculous belief that sex always "means something". Get over it!

6 Dec 2004

I know sex doesn't allways mean anything I was just wondering if anyone else had experianced this kind of thing. We both cant work out why we do it maybe its best just to enjoy it and not worry.
Northcoastboy confused

6 Dec 2004

Quote by northcoastboy
I know sex doesn't allways mean anything I was just wondering if anyone else had experianced this kind of thing.

Well, considering this whole site is devoted to this kind of thing, I certainly hope so! :P

Quote by northcoastboy
We both cant work out why we do it

Maybe because it's fun? wink

Quote by northcoastboy
maybe its best just to enjoy it and not worry.

Good plan!

6 Dec 2004

Stop worrying about what could have been and just make the most of what you have with her......perhaps it better this way because it is this way!

6 Dec 2004

You know, when they say.. "Can we just be friends?" You wanna say "Friends that Fuck?"
Am sure this approach will work, some time soon. biggrin

6 Dec 2004

Quote by Mister_Discreet
One of our society's biggest faults is a ridiculous belief that sex always "means something". Get over it!

Now I would totally agree with that. It stems from some misguided opinion that sex is for married couples only I think.