I had to smile when I read on another thread that people swinging shouldn't expect a relationship. It could be argued that it depends on what you call a "relationship".
When I was involved, many many moons ago, there were couples who were good friends and kept their exchanges within a close group of say three or four, or even just two couples - they would perhaps hire a nice country house for a weeks holiday and things like that, doing normal things, sightseeing and such like in the daytime.
Does this still go on today, or am I just reminiscing about the good old days?
Plim
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Is this swinging?
Sex God
Keys bowl, pampas grassm and lots of pubic hair 
Mind you we did get invited to a party where they were seriously going to put keys in a bowl :shock:
I guess swinging is what you want to make of it really Plim. I guess some would say swinging with just one other person/couple is swinging whilst others would say lots of people lots of different times.
Of course I still maintain singlkes aint swingers they just faciltate swinging couples/groups. :D
Mind you we did get invited to a party where they were seriously going to put keys in a bowl :shock: I guess swinging is what you want to make of it really Plim. I guess some would say swinging with just one other person/couple is swinging whilst others would say lots of people lots of different times.
Of course I still maintain singlkes aint swingers they just faciltate swinging couples/groups. :D
i dont know about the good ole days im fairly new but i can relate to what your saying plim
i tend to think about 'swinging' (in my single world) as having the freedom of having sex with more than just one person, but i like to develop friendships along the way, and meet the same people, be that males or couples, whilst the meets tend to be sex orientated there is a social element to them too, and ive had social meets with no sex at all,
ive also met some people ive never had sex with but who have become friends
no doubt there will be a description of swinging in the dictionary but i guess we will all have our own interpretation and do our own thing
with regards to nsa, this does tend to be the case for me but people need to be clear about what they want or expect
i tend to think about 'swinging' (in my single world) as having the freedom of having sex with more than just one person, but i like to develop friendships along the way, and meet the same people, be that males or couples, whilst the meets tend to be sex orientated there is a social element to them too, and ive had social meets with no sex at all,
ive also met some people ive never had sex with but who have become friends
no doubt there will be a description of swinging in the dictionary but i guess we will all have our own interpretation and do our own thing
with regards to nsa, this does tend to be the case for me but people need to be clear about what they want or expect
Sexlightened
I guess you can also argue that as soon as you interact with someone,on any level, you have a "relationship". All that remains is to define the parameters of said relationship. I guess what people mean sometimes is not wanting to get emotionally involved, keeping it about the sex as it were....
just my two cents worth
just my two cents worth
Sex God
Swinging is fucking, lots of people. Well more than your life partner. Sometimes you ....aaa...fuck and go. Sometimes you get to know the other person/people. Those rules are the same as any other, it is down to the people in the relationship. The rules change with each person/group.
Sometimes the whole thing is out in the open, but things bring what they are it is mostly hidden.
In other words; swinging is what you make it.
I think others have said that better already.
Travis
Sometimes the whole thing is out in the open, but things bring what they are it is mostly hidden.
In other words; swinging is what you make it.
I think others have said that better already.
Travis
Sex God
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There was a guy who wanted a fuck
Joined a swinger site, what luck
found a woman hard to get
and really began to fret
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Lucksuckmuckchuckruckfuckpuckbuckduck
There was a guy who wanted a fuck
Joined a swinger site, what luck
found a woman hard to get
and really began to fret
so settled for a bi guy and a suck
To the (a)rousing tune of Jerusalem:-
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Quote by Lost
Fuck fuck fuckity fuck. Now the lets playt spot the fuck
Lucksuckmuckchuckruckfuckpuckbuckduck
There was a guy who wanted a fuck
Joined a swinger site, what luck
found a woman hard to get
and really began to fret
so settled for a bi guy and a suck
To the (a)rousing tune of Jerusalem:-
Fuck fuck fuck fuuuuuck fuck fuck fu-uk fuck
fuckfuckfuckfuckfuck fuuuck fuuuuuck fuck
and fuck fuck fuuuuuuuuck fuckfuuck fuuuck
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spit it out Losty...just what are you trying to say man?!?!
Sex God
Quote by Lost
Keys bowl, pampas grassm and lots of pubic hair
I guess swinging is what you want to make of it really Plim. I guess some would say swinging with just one other person/couple is swinging whilst others would say lots of people lots of different times.
Of course I still maintain singlkes aint swingers they just faciltate swinging couples/groups. :D
:thumbup: well said!!
