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I haven't seen anyone say that in the main forum dunno
If someone has pm'd you and said that perhaps it would be right to forward the pm to a mod to deal with as its abuse... :-)
Quote by sparky33
...that a lot of people think I'm a negative twat, also, that because I'm a single male, I'm a twat by default, I assure you I'm not, I'm just not frightened to voice my genuine opinions and comment on what I see.
I'm up for a laugh as much as anyone, and I treat as I'm treated, and kick back if I'm kicked.
I'm on here for fun and to possibly make a few friends, and don't set out to offend nor upset anyone, but my opinions are just that, my opinions.

You do come across about a negative person. All you seem to do is moan.
Perhaps you'd be more successful if you just bit the bullet and got on with it?!
P.S. Making general comments about 'all single guys' isn't doing you any favours cos we know in here, and you should know by know as you've posted enough, that not all single guys have it hard. wink
Quote by Bbw4umen
not all single guys have it hard. wink

Well, thats my illusions shattered :twisted:
Quote by Naughty Wigan Couple
not all single guys have it hard. wink

Well, thats my illusions shattered :twisted:
:giggle:
Perhaps 'hard' was the wrong word... or the right one in different circumstances :twisted:
i hope when you put such a thread you expect honest truth,i havent encountered you much but have just taken my time to read your 'no reply message'thread and i think you are negative,low esteem single guy who need to cheer up a little....am single with a slight touch of arrogance and self pride but very postive in life.
have enjoyed this site now am single than when i was part of a couple,so spark33 look on the bright side buddy
Quote by sparky33
I should also point out, that most of what I say, should be taken firmly with your tongue in your cheek, it's just not always so obvious, do to the lack of emaotion in the unspoken word and the fact that you add your own tone to what you read.
Rememebr, the tone in which words are "spoken" can totally alter their intended reception.

That's true. But I do think a lot of people try to compensate with exageration or you could use the emotions here :P
Like this.... this could be interpreted many ways:
Lighten up! mad
Lighten up! kiss
Lighten up! rolleyes
can you tell i like them?
Quote by sparky33
...that a lot of people think I'm a negative twat, also, that because I'm a single male, I'm a twat by default, I assure you I'm not, I'm just not frightened to voice my genuine opinions and comment on what I see.
I'm up for a laugh as much as anyone, and I treat as I'm treated, and kick back if I'm kicked.
I'm on here for fun and to possibly make a few friends, and don't set out to offend nor upset anyone, but my opinions are just that, my opinions.I'm open to and appreciate genuine comment and pointers from those with experience of the scene, as it's the only way I can learn the do's and dont's, I've tried my best to create a profile that is genuine and to the point, and I also make a point of reading profiles to establish what people are looking for before I even consider replying to ads or profiles.
So if anyone has been offended by anything I've said, I apologise, as it wasn't intentional.
Now come on, please use and abuse my body. (not to heavy on the abuse though). lol :lol: :lol:

Everybody has a right to an opinion! If you check MY signature you will see that is what I have written.
There are people on here and other forums tbh that don't like people to have strong opinions. dunno They say they are " outspoken". :shock: I have made it quite clear I am not a lover of leftie Guardian readers. :lol:
Let me say this, I have strong opinions which I know others do not like but do I care? As long as I or anybody else stays within the AUP, and does not target people with nasty comments then where is the problem?
You have strong opinions and I feel that is what makes the world tick. If people just sat by and said nothing or was not prepared to stand their ground, the world would still be living in caveman times. Have your opinion and if it is strong good on ya, but remember with strong opinions you will upset people, that is just the way it is. cool
Welcome to the obnoxious outspoken club! :lol: :lol:
Quote by flower411
...that a lot of people think I'm a negative twat, also, that because I'm a single male, I'm a twat by default, I assure you I'm not, I'm just not frightened to voice my genuine opinions and comment on what I see.
I'm up for a laugh as much as anyone, and I treat as I'm treated, and kick back if I'm kicked.
I'm on here for fun and to possibly make a few friends, and don't set out to offend nor upset anyone, but my opinions are just that, my opinions.I'm open to and appreciate genuine comment and pointers from those with experience of the scene, as it's the only way I can learn the do's and dont's, I've tried my best to create a profile that is genuine and to the point, and I also make a point of reading profiles to establish what people are looking for before I even consider replying to ads or profiles.
So if anyone has been offended by anything I've said, I apologise, as it wasn't intentional.
Now come on, please use and abuse my body. (not to heavy on the abuse though). lol :lol: :lol:

Everybody has a right to an opinion! If you check MY signature you will see that is what I have written.
There are people on here and other forums tbh that don't like people to have strong opinions. dunno They say they are " outspoken". :shock:
Let me say this, I have strong opinions which I know others do not like but do I care? As long as I or anybody else stays within the AUP, and does not target people with nasty comments then where is the problem?
You have strong opinions and I feel that is what makes the world tick. If people just sat by and said nothing or was not prepared to stand their ground, the world would still be living in caveman times. Have your opinion and if it is strong good on ya, but remember with strong opinions you will upset people, that is just the way it is. cool
Welcome to the obnoxious outspoken club! :lol: :lol:
But I`m sweetness and light to everybody !!!
I still upset most of em !! :cry: :cry:
You want to join the obnoxious club as well flower?
:lol:
It's free to join but you must be a Gaunty listener and buy the Mail. pmsl
Quote by sparky33
...that a lot of people think I'm a negative twat, also, that because I'm a single male, I'm a twat by default, I assure you I'm not, I'm just not frightened to voice my genuine opinions and comment on what I see.
I'm up for a laugh as much as anyone, and I treat as I'm treated, and kick back if I'm kicked.
I'm on here for fun and to possibly make a few friends, and don't set out to offend nor upset anyone, but my opinions are just that, my opinions.
I'm open to and appreciate genuine comment and pointers from those with experience of the scene, as it's the only way I can learn the do's and dont's, I've tried my best to create a profile that is genuine and to the point, and I also make a point of reading profiles to establish what people are looking for before I even consider replying to ads or profiles.
So if anyone has been offended by anything I've said, I apologise, as it wasn't intentional.
Now come on, please use and abuse my body. (not to heavy on the abuse though). lol :lol: :lol:

Love to.... but im a fatty rolleyes
:lol:
I can assure you, I don't think you're a twat because you're a single male.
Quote by winchwench
I can assure you, I don't think you're a twat because you're a single male.

no... you have to put in the effort like yours truely before Winchie truely thinks of you as a twat
lp
Quote by sparky33
I can assure you, I don't think you're a twat because you're a single male.

What I have (rightly or wrongly) assumed she is saying there is "I think you are a twat, but not just cause you are a single male"!
sad
wink
I've just had a coffee meets screen moment :shock:
Quote by sparky33
Seems no damage was done surprised

LOL It would take a lot more than that to destroy this laptop ..... redface it's kind of used to it :twisted:
Quote by Lilmiss
Love to.... but im a fatty rolleyes
lol

Does he not like fatties? Where does it say that on his profile? :roll:
Oh have I gone completely nuts
Quote by Bbw4umen

Love to.... but im a fatty rolleyes
lol

Does he not like fatties? Where does it say that on his profile? :roll:
Oh have I gone completely nuts
http://www.swingingheaven.co.uk/swingers-forum/viewtopic/284660.html
:lol:
Quote by sparky33
Lilmiss, you seem to have a chip on your shoulder

Far from... i was jokin.. thats why there was a - lol
rolleyes
Quote by sparky33
Lilmiss, you seem to have a chip on your shoulder

Don't be daft. She'll have eaten it by now. wink
Quote by winchwench
Lilmiss, you seem to have a chip on your shoulder

Don't be daft. She'll have eaten it by now. wink
I cannot decide which way to take that!! But yeh... it was quite nice... loads of vinegar :wink:
lol
Quote by Lilmiss
Lilmiss, you seem to have a chip on your shoulder

Don't be daft. She'll have eaten it by now. wink
I cannot decide which way to take that!! But yeh... it was quite nice... loads of vinegar :wink:
lol
Gal after my own heart- Vinegar :lickface:
ewwwwwww no no NO....chip au naturelle...nowt on em whatsoever!!
Quote by Bonedigger
ewwwwwww no no NO....chip au naturelle...nowt on em whatsoever!!

ewwww gravy and vinegar and a pickled onion on the side
:smile2:
MAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAYO
MA AAA AA III YO
H.x
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MAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAYO
MA AAA AA III YO
H.x

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MAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAYO
MA AAA AA III YO
H.x

Daylight come and de chip still on de shoulder! wink
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MAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAYO
MA AAA AA III YO
H.x

AAhhhh yes but I prefer KFC Chicken strips and Mayo.
*No chips were harmed in the making of this hijack.
But a small jar of Helmans* was caused some distress.
H.x

* Other brands avaialable
Quote by winchwench
*No chips were harmed in the making of this hijack.

Unless im eating them wink
lol
Quote by Lilmiss
*No chips were harmed in the making of this hijack.

Unless im eating them wink
lol
I ate all mine earlier .... so they weren't part of making this hijack!
Got a craving for doritos and mayo now though :twisted: