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Is it just me but all the most attractive, fun, lively, intelligent woman so far away from where I live?
Do you woman find the same thing with men?
Am I paranoid?
Or is there some strange link between distance from you and your attraction?
Same here....
A lot of the men on here I feel drawn to.. I check their profile and they're usually over 100 miles away
or 107 miles away
That's why I'm signed up to the munches so I can meet a lot of people and have a drinkie too. A good way to break the ice I think and if I click with anyone there, then I know the travelling will be worth it wink
the further away those women live from me the better lol means i got more chance with the locals lol
closer distances do make things easier, but then i do get tired of people presuming distance is the qualifying factor in getting a shag opps i mean meet.
maybe once a connection has been established distance can make thing easier in some swinging relationships.
after all some of the fun is in the planning and anticipation of a date set, leave me free to get on with the boring day to day life tasks and set aside special times for fun.
xxx fem xxx
You just have to work a bit harder when there is a distance.
Or meet half way and make good use of hotels etc!! that is why socials and munches are good, as a lot of people stay over in hotels! lol
If you think that someone is worth it then the distance shouldn't be a problem.
The bloke that I'm seeing is 200 miles away and we see each other almost every other weekend, or when we can.
Yes it was hard arranging it initially, I'm just thankful that he loves to drive lol
Would flying not be cheaper?? lol
And I agree, people are put off by distance and think that you're talking shite if you want to arrange a meet.
But if you never take that chance, who knows what you could be missing out on...
was chatting to a guy in chat last night and he said he had just got back from a meet, he went abroad.
now to be fair i am in cornwall so he might just have ment he went over to plymouth lol
xx fem xx
If I want to meet someone (whether it's just for a coffee or for a shag) then I do my best to meet them regardless of the distance. My pocket being the limiting factor. If I have the money available for a 300 mile round trip for a coffee then I'll do it. If I don't have the money available then I'll just get pissed off at not being able to do it. Alternatively I just won't make arrangements to meet. I don't want to get my hopes up or theirs.
TBH though, a nice drive is part of the day out for me.
Mine lives bloody ,miles away and so does all the other ladies I seem to have a connection with so your not the only one.
Quote by Ukwineman
Mine lives bloody ,miles away and so does all the other ladies I seem to have a connection with so your not the only one.

I think it must be Sod's law in action as the same thing happens to me too sad
I wouldn't say all the nice ladies live miles away but the ones I would really like to meet do :-(
It's a well known fact that South Wales is the swinging desert for single bi fems so any encounters with ladies I've had have been from too far away to be regular.
As for guys, I've been incredibly lucky to find my fwb and he's only living 10 minutes away from me :twisted:
Onanism... always close at hand.
lp
As ever I didn't explain myself well.
I find that I get chatting with someone. Generally I don't look at their profile first. And then at some stage when some kind of attraction is there I look and...
bingo
238 miles from you
Yep I find that too.
But it's one of the nice things about this place is that I don't look on every one as a potential fb but as a friend and If I never get to meet them then I'm ok with that but I hope that we/they have clicked with some sort of friendship.
Quote by keeno
As ever I didn't explain myself well.
I find that I get chatting with someone. Generally I don't look at their profile first. And then at some stage when some kind of attraction is there I look and...
bingo
238 miles from you

:confused2: i dont understand??? i just checked your profile and it doesnt say your 238 miles from me.
:doh: it wasnt me was it ? lol
xxx fem xxx
forever hopefull, often disapointed lol
redface redface
Sorry fem our secret is out. I just made up that number to protect your reputation biggrin
You must find everyone a long way from Cornwall. Even Devon.
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