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I love reading the postings here and have noticed a lot about the difficulties single guys have. I do sympathise and won't suggest for a minute that we single women have the same problems but.....
I put up an ad quite a few weeks ago which hasn't yet borne fruit. I got plenty of responses offering wonderful 1-to-1 fun. Which is great if you're in the 1-to-1 section. But I'm in the Women seeking Groups section. And most of the rest offering a group thing gradually evolved through email chat into 'but we should really get together 1-to-1'.
I felt I couldn't take up the 'I can give you 9 wet inches and oh, by the way, I've got a mate who can come along too' ones as I felt that as a 'newbie' I might need a little more subtle guidance! Some were just too far away geographically to be sensible. (I'm in Norwich.)
Sometimes I would think I was getting close - pics exchanged, dates discussed and then the mails would simply dry up. I've spent such a lot of time at this - which I've mostly enjoyed - but seem to be the victim of Multiple Coitus Interruptus. It's so-o-o-o frustrating. But I'm sure some day my princes will come (so to speak).
In the meantime I'm grateful to the site for introducing me to the Gotan Project (Sexy Music thread). Fantastique.
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Hi Jezzay,
I just wanted to re-assure that what you seek is out there - though there are time wasters on both sides... It often happens as you say ... everything going well until it gets close to a date and emails start drying up and txts don't get returned etc. Feck (Sorry... Father Ted kicking in)
Myself and my partner in crime have MMF with a number of females in our area - but I fear we are little too far south for you but stick to your guns and keep the faith.
Tang confused
PS Oh and the other chap can probably muster 9 wet inches if required :P biggrin
I know exactly what you mean. I posted an ad in women looking for women, and got lots of couples replying (my partner will just watch, maybe join in). That isnt what i wanted and i said so Ive given up on the ads now, most of the "women" looking for women are couples, and if pressed further i'm sure they too would end up as men with a full 9"inches but not a woman in sight.
So i'll just keep plodding away in the forum and hopefully will meet somebody soon! biggrin
Good luck to you in your hunt
I can sympathise totally. I'm quite a voyeur, and when I advertise with the aim of watching some man on man I get all sorts of stupid responses, mainly from straight guys who think they can change my mind... rolleyes
The world is full of chancers mad
Good luck - it will happen, it just takes time and patience, oh and lots of reading through annoying emails :roll: