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Quote by Buxom-Minx
Well... regardless what everyone else's opinions are.. I think by doing what she's doing so publicly, she's probably saved thousands of lives by hi-lighting it this way. Maybe even a member of your family's or a close friend! So she may have helped alot of you personally in the future so you don't lose your loved one's.

and that for me is the main point of all....like it or not this type of thing and doing it so publicly can and does save lives in the long run...
look at Kylie Minogue as an example.... when she had her scare with Breast Cancer...screening rates in both the UK and Australia shot up! How many people do you think that gave the jolt to to get it sorted... or to even get screened in the first place....
if it saves just one life... then I am absolutely all for the publicity
how many lives do you reckon that may have saved?
I don't care or have an interest why she's doing it (not up to date with it all anyway). Just hope its a quick, pain free death as possible and her family manage to spend time with her, saying goodbye in the way they/she wants to.
I would wish the same for others no matter who they are...
Quote by jaymar
Mar........as someone who constantly get bolloxed on here for MY opinions, why should anyone else be different?
If someone makes a statement or an opinion, then why should others not be able to challenge their opinions?
Most things written on here are just opinions.
I will continue to challenge and disagree with others opinions, just as others will do with mine. That is what the forum is all about.

And don't we know that innocent
The point I'm making is that Mr P is being 'challenged' for his thinking, not by one but by a few people. He's stated his reasons, he's explained his reasons and it should be left at that.
Now Mr Kent.. have you come in to comment on the content of the thread or to cause trouble?? bolt
Seeing as that is your opinion Mar, and you do not like people critisising opinions, I will refrain from answering that one.
Well it's only right....isn't it? dunno
Quote by kentswingers777
Mar........as someone who constantly get bolloxed on here for MY opinions, why should anyone else be different?
If someone makes a statement or an opinion, then why should others not be able to challenge their opinions?
Most things written on here are just opinions.
I will continue to challenge and disagree with others opinions, just as others will do with mine. That is what the forum is all about.

And don't we know that innocent
The point I'm making is that Mr P is being 'challenged' for his thinking, not by one but by a few people. He's stated his reasons, he's explained his reasons and it should be left at that.
Now Mr Kent.. have you come in to comment on the content of the thread or to cause trouble?? bolt
Seeing as that is your opinion Mar, and you do not like people critisising opinions, I will refrain from answering that one.
Well it's only right....isn't it? dunno
She asked a question - the right thing would be to answer it, I would have thought :dunno:
Quote by jaymar
I don't know her,she's not part of my life...i feel nothing for her!

Such a heartless nasty thought to be honest.
I thought better of you than that if honest.
Blimey I thought I was " hard faced ".
what...so i feel nothing for her...why so wrong with that...she don't know me,i don't know her...
its called empathy for another human being!!!!
well i'm all out of empathy.
some don't have it to begin with.
So???
Not that I agree with his statement, but it is Mr Powers' opinion, just like everyone else's.
Please let everyone have their say on this thread whether or not you agree with what they have to say.
Jay I was making a point that some don't have it, it is not something you run out of I don't believe.
My friends son has autism he doesnt have it.
I do think it is funny you jumped on my back as I feel I am one of the few people here that never picks people up for their views or attacks anyone for theirs.
I just state my own and leave others to do the same wink
Quote by Freckledbird
Mar........as someone who constantly get bolloxed on here for MY opinions, why should anyone else be different?
If someone makes a statement or an opinion, then why should others not be able to challenge their opinions?
Most things written on here are just opinions.
I will continue to challenge and disagree with others opinions, just as others will do with mine. That is what the forum is all about.

And don't we know that innocent
The point I'm making is that Mr P is being 'challenged' for his thinking, not by one but by a few people. He's stated his reasons, he's explained his reasons and it should be left at that.
Now Mr Kent.. have you come in to comment on the content of the thread or to cause trouble?? bolt
Seeing as that is your opinion Mar, and you do not like people critisising opinions, I will refrain from answering that one.
Well it's only right....isn't it? dunno
She asked a question - the right thing would be to answer it, I would have thought :dunno:
You should know what thought did FB. surprised
Maybe the intention there was to goad me into "causing trouble"?
Whatever the reason I chose not to respond to a comment that had no substance. Cannot see why you had to get involved if honest. :dunno: Or was you trying to " cause trouble "? wink
FB shakes her head, shrugs and walks away
Quote by Theladyisaminx
I don't know her,she's not part of my life...i feel nothing for her!

Such a heartless nasty thought to be honest.
I thought better of you than that if honest.
Blimey I thought I was " hard faced ".
what...so i feel nothing for her...why so wrong with that...she don't know me,i don't know her...
its called empathy for another human being!!!!
well i'm all out of empathy.
some don't have it to begin with.
So???
Not that I agree with his statement, but it is Mr Powers' opinion, just like everyone else's.
Please let everyone have their say on this thread whether or not you agree with what they have to say.
Jay I was making a point that some don't have it, it is not something you run out of I don't believe.
My friends son has autism he doesnt have it.
I do think it is funny you jumped on my back as I feel I am one of the few people here that never picks people up for their views or attacks anyone for theirs.
I just state my own and leave others to do the same wink
ffs, I wasn't referring to you.
Quote by Freckledbird
FB shakes her head, shrugs and walks away

snap rolleyes
Quote by jaymar
I don't know her,she's not part of my life...i feel nothing for her!

Such a heartless nasty thought to be honest.
I thought better of you than that if honest.
Blimey I thought I was " hard faced ".
what...so i feel nothing for her...why so wrong with that...she don't know me,i don't know her...
its called empathy for another human being!!!!
well i'm all out of empathy.
some don't have it to begin with.
So???
Not that I agree with his statement, but it is Mr Powers' opinion, just like everyone else's.
Please let everyone have their say on this thread whether or not you agree with what they have to say.
Jay I was making a point that some don't have it, it is not something you run out of I don't believe.
My friends son has autism he doesnt have it.
I do think it is funny you jumped on my back as I feel I am one of the few people here that never picks people up for their views or attacks anyone for theirs.
I just state my own and leave others to do the same wink
ffs, I wasn't referring to you.
But you quoted me and said "so" etc
It just looked that way to me.
Quote by Theladyisaminx
I don't know her,she's not part of my life...i feel nothing for her!

Such a heartless nasty thought to be honest.
I thought better of you than that if honest.
Blimey I thought I was " hard faced ".
what...so i feel nothing for her...why so wrong with that...she don't know me,i don't know her...
its called empathy for another human being!!!!
well i'm all out of empathy.
some don't have it to begin with.
So???
Not that I agree with his statement, but it is Mr Powers' opinion, just like everyone else's.
Please let everyone have their say on this thread whether or not you agree with what they have to say.
Jay I was making a point that some don't have it, it is not something you run out of I don't believe.
My friends son has autism he doesnt have it.
I do think it is funny you jumped on my back as I feel I am one of the few people here that never picks people up for their views or attacks anyone for theirs.
I just state my own and leave others to do the same wink
ffs, I wasn't referring to you.
But you quoted me and said "so" etc
It just looked that way to me.
Yep, quoted you for saying 'so' - spot on.
But not for attacking Mr.P.
Quite frankly, I'm saying no more, the schoolground gates are shut :wink:
Is that your final opinion? wink
What makes me laugh is how a year ago no a single person had a good word to say about her, the papers hated her and took every chance they could get to pull her down pysically and mentally, the public didnt like her, noone i knew ever said oh i saw that jade in the papers today nice woman lol.....she was loud mouthed, arrogant and self opinionated to the point of being offensive, now all of a sudden its poor jade, brave jade.....and this is from the people who only months ago wouldnt have stamped on her if she was on fire, she still the same person why does having cancer all of a sudden make you likable? if i had to be dying before anyone had a good word to say about me i'd sooner them keep their pity thanx smile
Quote by naughtynymphos1
What makes me laugh is how a year ago no a single person had a good word to say about her, the papers hated her and took every chance they could get to pull her down pysically and mentally, the public didnt like her, noone i knew ever said oh i saw that jade in the papers today nice woman lol.....she was loud mouthed, arrogant and self opinionated to the point of being offensive, now all of a sudden its poor jade, brave jade.....and this is from the people who only months ago wouldnt have stamped on her if she was on fire, she still the same person why does having cancer all of a sudden make you likable? if i had to be dying before anyone had a good word to say about me i'd sooner them keep their pity thanx smile

The lone voice of reason once again naughtynymphos1. I've kept out of this because I agree totally with what you've just said, but didn't want to say anything because I didn't want to be treated like the spawn of the devil as I have been in the past.
So thank you naughtynymphos1 for making an extremely valid point.
Quote by Theladyisaminx
Just because we suffer doesnt mean everyone has to.

I'm not sure if you mean that to me or are just having a dig at Mr Powers, if it's me then I'd like you to PM me.
Quote by Calista

Just because we suffer doesnt mean everyone has to.

I'm not sure if you mean that to me or are just having a dig at Mr Powers, if it's me then I'd like you to PM me.
I did not mean it to anyone I meant that is how I would see it
Quote by varca

Just because we suffer doesnt mean everyone has to.

I'm not sure if you mean that to me or are just having a dig at Mr Powers, if it's me then I'd like you to PM me.
I don't think Minxy was having a go at anyone. My perception of what she said is that even in her own darkest hour she found the strength to give comfort to a friend who was feeling guilty because sbe had a healthy baby whereas Minxy had very sadly lost hers.
And I for one think that was a very wonderful thing to do kiss
The implication in these posts is that because one particular person can do something, it's a measure that everyone should be able too!
Have we lost the way so much that we can not have genuine care and concern for a fellow human being, who ever they are, when facing such a challenging time in their life?
Some of these posts have frankly amazed me!
We may all well of had friends and family members who have had or are dealing with cancer now (I have), I personally would of thought that would give us a genuine understanding of the pain that Jade is going though, and to have more empathy towards her, and what ever she is doing in the public eye, and not to judge her so harshly.
Quote by varca

Just because we suffer doesnt mean everyone has to.

I'm not sure if you mean that to me or are just having a dig at Mr Powers, if it's me then I'd like you to PM me.
I don't think Minxy was having a go at anyone. My perception of what she said is that even in her own darkest hour she found the strength to give comfort to a friend who was feeling guilty because sbe had a healthy baby whereas Minxy had very sadly lost hers.
And I for one think that was a very wonderful thing to do kiss
The implication in these posts is that because one particular person can do something, it's a measure that everyone should be able too!
No-one is implying that everyone 'should be able to' at all.
So why comment or call someone heartless when someone says they feel nothing?
Some people don't have the strength to carry anything other than their own personal feelings!
Quote by varca

Just because we suffer doesnt mean everyone has to.

I'm not sure if you mean that to me or are just having a dig at Mr Powers, if it's me then I'd like you to PM me.
I don't think Minxy was having a go at anyone. My perception of what she said is that even in her own darkest hour she found the strength to give comfort to a friend who was feeling guilty because sbe had a healthy baby whereas Minxy had very sadly lost hers.
And I for one think that was a very wonderful thing to do kiss
The implication in these posts is that because one particular person can do something, it's a measure that everyone should be able too!
No-one is implying that everyone 'should be able to' at all.
So why comment or call someone heartless when someone says they feel nothing?
Some people don't have the strength to carry anything other than their own personal feelings!
I didn't, I was saying that I thoughtit was wonderful that Minxy was able to find the strength to be able to do so in her own time of need. Does not in any way mean that I think that everyone is capable of that smile
I never said you did, but Minxy and others have!
Quote by Calista

Just because we suffer doesnt mean everyone has to.

I'm not sure if you mean that to me or are just having a dig at Mr Powers, if it's me then I'd like you to PM me.
I don't think Minxy was having a go at anyone. My perception of what she said is that even in her own darkest hour she found the strength to give comfort to a friend who was feeling guilty because sbe had a healthy baby whereas Minxy had very sadly lost hers.
And I for one think that was a very wonderful thing to do kiss
The implication in these posts is that because one particular person can do something, it's a measure that everyone should be able too!
You have to read my whole post there to take it into perspective that part is just the end to the rest.
I don’t think through any of my threads or posts you will see I have implied anything, I have always written about my own experiences for others to read. I know in that way I bare myself, something I am not afraid in doing, I have also admitted in threads my thoughts are unjust or wrong but I don’t see right or wrong.
I think some people could read anything into what we write, finding implication where there is none
Bottom line and cutting out all the crap, she is only 27 with two young kids.
She must be going through a nightmare situation, where the end result will be an untimely death. Leaving behind the two kids she obviously adores.
If anyone cannot show a bit of compassion for that awful situation, whether you know that person or not, is quite frankly, a very poor show.
I have come across all kinds of attitudes and opinions on this forum, but none have made me feel more angry and saddened, by the fact that seeing a person going through this, cannot show an ounce of compassion or sympathy.
I am amazed at that to be honest.
I dont care about this person any more or less than the 56 million people who died yesterday, many of whose stories were, equally if not more horrific.
Quote by Calista

Just because we suffer doesnt mean everyone has to.

I'm not sure if you mean that to me or are just having a dig at Mr Powers, if it's me then I'd like you to PM me.
I don't think Minxy was having a go at anyone. My perception of what she said is that even in her own darkest hour she found the strength to give comfort to a friend who was feeling guilty because sbe had a healthy baby whereas Minxy had very sadly lost hers.
And I for one think that was a very wonderful thing to do kiss
The implication in these posts is that because one particular person can do something, it's a measure that everyone should be able too!
No-one is implying that everyone 'should be able to' at all.
So why comment or call someone heartless when someone says they feel nothing?
Some people don't have the strength to carry anything other than their own personal feelings!
I didn't, I was saying that I thoughtit was wonderful that Minxy was able to find the strength to be able to do so in her own time of need. Does not in any way mean that I think that everyone is capable of that smile
I never said you did, but Minxy and others have!
I have never called anyone heartless, least of all people I do not know.
oh ffs you lot life is too short to keep jumpin on each other for opinions or comments
i agree with naughtynympho just because she is ill/dying i am not gonna be two faced and pretend to have a liking for her i never have had never will have
awfull wat she is going through but not enough to make me want to row with you lot on how it makes me feel or how it makes you feel
we all have our own opinions and i respect everyones even mr powers and actually admire him for feeling confident enough to put it out there even though i'm certain he knew you lot would kick his butt for it
too many peeps die daily from awfull things and i do shed many a tear when i hear about it on the news and i can't lie i have shed a tear when i have seen pics of jades kids just lately but it still does not make me want to sudenly like the woman
*bends over n presents arse for kickin i am about to get*
Quote by bouncy332
oh ffs you lot life is too short to keep jumpin on each other for opinions or comments
i agree with naughtynympho just because she is ill/dying i am not gonna be two faced and pretend to have a liking for her i never have had never will have
awfull wat she is going through but not enough to make me want to row with you lot on how it makes me feel or how it makes you feel
we all have our own opinions and i respect everyones even mr powers and actually admire him for feeling confident enough to put it out there even though i'm certain he knew you lot would kick his butt for it
too many peeps die daily from awfull things and i do shed many a tear when i hear about it on the news and i can't lie i have shed a tear when i have seen pics of jades kids just lately but it still does not make me want to sudenly like the woman
*bends over n presents arse for kickin i am about to get*

:thumbup:
Quote by bouncy332
oh ffs you lot life is too short to keep jumpin on each other for opinions or comments
i agree with naughtynympho just because she is ill/dying i am not gonna be two faced and pretend to have a liking for her i never have had never will have
awfull wat she is going through but not enough to make me want to row with you lot on how it makes me feel or how it makes you feel
we all have our own opinions and i respect everyones even mr powers and actually admire him for feeling confident enough to put it out there even though i'm certain he knew you lot would kick his butt for it
too many peeps die daily from awfull things and i do shed many a tear when i hear about it on the news and i can't lie i have shed a tear when i have seen pics of jades kids just lately but it still does not make me want to sudenly like the woman
*bends over n presents arse for kickin i am about to get*

What a lot of naughty thoughts I am now having. wink
Quote by Dirtygirly
oh ffs you lot life is too short to keep jumpin on each other for opinions or comments
i agree with naughtynympho just because she is ill/dying i am not gonna be two faced and pretend to have a liking for her i never have had never will have
awfull wat she is going through but not enough to make me want to row with you lot on how it makes me feel or how it makes you feel
we all have our own opinions and i respect everyones even mr powers and actually admire him for feeling confident enough to put it out there even though i'm certain he knew you lot would kick his butt for it
too many peeps die daily from awfull things and i do shed many a tear when i hear about it on the news and i can't lie i have shed a tear when i have seen pics of jades kids just lately but it still does not make me want to sudenly like the woman
*bends over n presents arse for kickin i am about to get*

:thumbup:
x 2 biggrin
:thumbup: :thumbup:
Common sense at the schoolgates at last! wink
Quote by kentswingers777
oh ffs you lot life is too short to keep jumpin on each other for opinions or comments
i agree with naughtynympho just because she is ill/dying i am not gonna be two faced and pretend to have a liking for her i never have had never will have
awfull wat she is going through but not enough to make me want to row with you lot on how it makes me feel or how it makes you feel
we all have our own opinions and i respect everyones even mr powers and actually admire him for feeling confident enough to put it out there even though i'm certain he knew you lot would kick his butt for it
too many peeps die daily from awfull things and i do shed many a tear when i hear about it on the news and i can't lie i have shed a tear when i have seen pics of jades kids just lately but it still does not make me want to sudenly like the woman
*bends over n presents arse for kickin i am about to get*

What a lot of naughty thoughts I am now having. wink rotflmao :rascal:
Quote by jaymar
oh ffs you lot life is too short to keep jumpin on each other for opinions or comments
i agree with naughtynympho just because she is ill/dying i am not gonna be two faced and pretend to have a liking for her i never have had never will have
awfull wat she is going through but not enough to make me want to row with you lot on how it makes me feel or how it makes you feel
we all have our own opinions and i respect everyones even mr powers and actually admire him for feeling confident enough to put it out there even though i'm certain he knew you lot would kick his butt for it
too many peeps die daily from awfull things and i do shed many a tear when i hear about it on the news and i can't lie i have shed a tear when i have seen pics of jades kids just lately but it still does not make me want to sudenly like the woman
*bends over n presents arse for kickin i am about to get*

:thumbup:
x 2 biggrin
:thumbup: :thumbup:
Common sense at the schoolgates at last! wink
oh phew thought i would b black n blue when i came to look again glad i can make sense occasionally rotflmao