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Quote by kentswingers777
Bottom line and cutting out all the crap, she is only 27 with two young kids.
She must be going through a nightmare situation, where the end result will be an untimely death. Leaving behind the two kids she obviously adores.
If anyone cannot show a bit of compassion for that awful situation, whether you know that person or not, is quite frankly, a very poor show.
I have come across all kinds of attitudes and opinions on this forum, but none have made me feel more angry and saddened, by the fact that seeing a person going through this, cannot show an ounce of compassion or sympathy.
I am amazed at that to be honest.
yep and i totally agree with that but even below that bottom line is that fact she was told to go back for re testing over 3 years ago after a smear because they found abnormal cells, had she gone back straight away the chances they would have sorted the cells before they got to the cancer stage and she wouldnt be a 27 year old woman leaving two kids behind you, knowing that fact i can not feel sorry for her, im sorry but i can't, how can a mother ignor such a thing? why bother going for the smear in the first place if your just going to ignor the results? .....im sorry if this offens everyone but don't sit there crying cause you don't want to leave your kids when the fact your in this situtation in the first place is because you put yourself there, of course noone can help getting cancer but if you get a letter saying theres a chance you have, you don't ignor it ffs other wise you have noone to blame but yourself
Sex God
Yup... regardless of feelings towards Jade, that's why the publicity is a good thing. One of my roomies at work yesterday made an appointment to have a smear test done after she told us she'd not been for 14 years. :shock:
To me, that's just stupidity. When there are tests out there to make sure you're okay then you should take them and not ignore the results.
To me, that's just stupidity. When there are tests out there to make sure you're okay then you should take them and not ignore the results.
Sex God
Quote by naughtynymphos1
Bottom line and cutting out all the crap, she is only 27 with two young kids.
She must be going through a nightmare situation, where the end result will be an untimely death. Leaving behind the two kids she obviously adores.
If anyone cannot show a bit of compassion for that awful situation, whether you know that person or not, is quite frankly, a very poor show.
I have come across all kinds of attitudes and opinions on this forum, but none have made me feel more angry and saddened, by the fact that seeing a person going through this, cannot show an ounce of compassion or sympathy.
I am amazed at that to be honest.
yep and i totally agree with that but even below that bottom line is that fact she was told to go back for re testing over 3 years ago after a smear because they found abnormal cells, had she gone back straight away the chances they would have sorted the cells before they got to the cancer stage and she wouldnt be a 27 year old woman leaving two kids behind you, knowing that fact i can not feel sorry for her, im sorry but i can't, how can a mother ignor such a thing? why bother going for the smear in the first place if your just going to ignor the results? .....im sorry if this offens everyone but don't sit there crying cause you don't want to leave your kids when the fact your in this situtation in the first place is because you put yourself there, of course noone can help getting cancer but if you get a letter saying theres a chance you have, you don't ignor it ffs other wise you have noone to blame but yourself
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We all feel for Jade and anyone in her situation. But its not just her is it? the latter part of her life has been a media mechanism at work. Like many other celebrities she has come to depend on it for a variety of things. So naturally she sought out their 'help'.
I find myself reminded of celebrities by the media. Its all part of the machine. If she hadn't come into our lives by the media we would have been none the wiser.
She could have stayed out of the limelight if she chose to, but it must have the strongest influence over her even now. If its the comfort she needs then its hers to have.
I find myself reminded of celebrities by the media. Its all part of the machine. If she hadn't come into our lives by the media we would have been none the wiser.
She could have stayed out of the limelight if she chose to, but it must have the strongest influence over her even now. If its the comfort she needs then its hers to have.
weather we feel sadness at Jades situation is not really an issue.
Everyone shows sadness/deals with a sad situation in their own way
You can care without feeling sad,
you may be grateful its not you or one of your loved ones,
you can be so choked up with grief by feeling "what would i do in her situation, knowing I was dying" that you actually cry, and it affects your own daily life
you can be glad its her cos u really dont like her and think shes got what she deserved
you can really not give a flying shit either way as you have had more than enough suffering in your life already
you can just block all your negative feelings and feel there but for the grace of god go I
we are all in relatively good health (hopefully), have a roof over our heads and food and drink on the table, im sur people who are starving in africa, couldt give two hoots about Jade Goody shuffling off this mortal coil....doesnt make them cruel and heartless, just means their own troubles are worse.
Yes Im sad shes so young and will leave kids behind, my own mum nearly did the same thing as her and not go back for a third call for an abnormal smear, but my dad persuaded her to go, to discover that she had advanced CIN 3 cervical cancer, and the GP told her to go to the hospital there and then, and going to that appointment is what saved her life.
I do feel sad that there are two kids who will grow up without a mum, but at the same time glad its not me knowing I wont see my kids grow up.
Minxy, good for you being able to go and congratulate a friend when losing your baby, all powere to you....Im afraid that I am not so magnanimous and indeed did shy away from pregnant friends cos I couldnt bear to see them with their growing bumps after I lost my baby....does it make me cruel and uncaring.....no....just means I deal with things in a different way.
Im sure that Hitlers mother loved him a lot, even tho to the rest of the world he was an evil so and so who people wanted dead, Im sure someone shed a tear when ted Bundy was put to death.......feelings are all relative and subjective, along with opinions and morals.....doesnt make us any less or more of a person.
Everyone shows sadness/deals with a sad situation in their own way
You can care without feeling sad,
you may be grateful its not you or one of your loved ones,
you can be so choked up with grief by feeling "what would i do in her situation, knowing I was dying" that you actually cry, and it affects your own daily life
you can be glad its her cos u really dont like her and think shes got what she deserved
you can really not give a flying shit either way as you have had more than enough suffering in your life already
you can just block all your negative feelings and feel there but for the grace of god go I
we are all in relatively good health (hopefully), have a roof over our heads and food and drink on the table, im sur people who are starving in africa, couldt give two hoots about Jade Goody shuffling off this mortal coil....doesnt make them cruel and heartless, just means their own troubles are worse.
Yes Im sad shes so young and will leave kids behind, my own mum nearly did the same thing as her and not go back for a third call for an abnormal smear, but my dad persuaded her to go, to discover that she had advanced CIN 3 cervical cancer, and the GP told her to go to the hospital there and then, and going to that appointment is what saved her life.
I do feel sad that there are two kids who will grow up without a mum, but at the same time glad its not me knowing I wont see my kids grow up.
Minxy, good for you being able to go and congratulate a friend when losing your baby, all powere to you....Im afraid that I am not so magnanimous and indeed did shy away from pregnant friends cos I couldnt bear to see them with their growing bumps after I lost my baby....does it make me cruel and uncaring.....no....just means I deal with things in a different way.
Im sure that Hitlers mother loved him a lot, even tho to the rest of the world he was an evil so and so who people wanted dead, Im sure someone shed a tear when ted Bundy was put to death.......feelings are all relative and subjective, along with opinions and morals.....doesnt make us any less or more of a person.
Sex God
Quote by Ms_Whips
What makes me laugh is how a year ago no a single person had a good word to say about her, the papers hated her and took every chance they could get to pull her down pysically and mentally, the public didnt like her, noone i knew ever said oh i saw that jade in the papers today nice woman lol.....she was loud mouthed, arrogant and self opinionated to the point of being offensive, now all of a sudden its poor jade, brave jade.....and this is from the people who only months ago wouldnt have stamped on her if she was on fire, she still the same person why does having cancer all of a sudden make you likable? if i had to be dying before anyone had a good word to say about me i'd sooner them keep their pity thanx
The lone voice of reason once again naughtynymphos1. I've kept out of this because I agree totally with what you've just said, but didn't want to say anything because I didn't want to be treated like the spawn of the devil as I have been in the past.
So thank you naughtynymphos1 for making an extremely valid point.
i already said i feel sorry for what she is going through......but....
what they said up there ^^^^^^^^^ pretty much sums it up for me too i think.
whips
Good to see you on the good ship maverick.
:kiss: :kiss: 
Sex God
Quote by Mr-Powers
I'd just like to thank some people on here for respecting my feelings on this matter...they still haven't changed by the way!
I appreciate your honesty Mr P. That counts for alot for me even though my opinion may be differnt from yours.
We are all different & have different views. Thats society that we all share.
I value everyones opinion so well done you for staying by your views
Here's to still happy swinging
Quote by Mr-Powers
I'd just like to thank some people on here for respecting my feelings on this matter...they still haven't changed by the way!
Good for you powers, for whilst we do not agree, I would defend your right for you to have your opinion.........even though you are wrong.
:wink: Quote by kentswingers777
I'd just like to thank some people on here for respecting my feelings on this matter...they still haven't changed by the way!
Good for you powers, for whilst we do not agree, I would defend your right for you to have your opinion.........even though you are wrong.
:wink:only in your opinion! :wink:
Quote by Mr-Powers
I'd just like to thank some people on here for respecting my feelings on this matter...they still haven't changed by the way!
Good for you powers, for whilst we do not agree, I would defend your right for you to have your opinion.........even though you are wrong.
:wink:only in your opinion! :wink:
Touche. :wink:
I would like to as my two penn'orth to this thread.
Rightly or wrongly Jade came to the publics attention via Reality has already been said this is irrelevant with regard to her current situation.
All that needs to be said is she is raising money for her childrens future in the only way she knows!
I would say that this shouldn't be berated or criticised as who knows what we all would do in the same situation and should just think "there but for the grace of God". This is only a phrase and not an invitation for everyone to start going to church!!
Live and let live is a much maligned and overused phrase but I think its particularly apt on this occasion,and as others have stated its my opinion and I am entitled to it!!
Rightly or wrongly Jade came to the publics attention via Reality has already been said this is irrelevant with regard to her current situation.
All that needs to be said is she is raising money for her childrens future in the only way she knows!
I would say that this shouldn't be berated or criticised as who knows what we all would do in the same situation and should just think "there but for the grace of God". This is only a phrase and not an invitation for everyone to start going to church!!
Live and let live is a much maligned and overused phrase but I think its particularly apt on this occasion,and as others have stated its my opinion and I am entitled to it!!
Quote by Luckylucky2007
I would like to as my two penn'orth to this thread.
Rightly or wrongly Jade came to the publics attention via Reality has already been said this is irrelevant with regard to her current situation.
All that needs to be said is she is raising money for her childrens future in the only way she knows!
I would say that this shouldn't be berated or criticised as who knows what we all would do in the same situation and should just think "there but for the grace of God". This is only a phrase and not an invitation for everyone to start going to church!!
Live and let live is a much maligned and overused phrase but I think its particularly apt on this occasion,and as others have stated its my opinion and I am entitled to it!!
well i hope she also gives a bit of her cash to the hospice that has been taking good care of her aswell.
No offence Mr P but do all rich people make donations to the hospital or hospice that looks after their loved ones in times of disaster or trouble?
Methinks not so why should Jade. Many many people have earned many a penny off the back of Ms Goody are they all giving money to the hospice?
I don't think so but then again I am no expert on this Or anything else to be honest!!
Methinks not so why should Jade. Many many people have earned many a penny off the back of Ms Goody are they all giving money to the hospice?
I don't think so but then again I am no expert on this
Or anything else to be honest!! Quote by Luckylucky2007
No offence Mr P but do all rich people make donations to the hospital or hospice that looks after their loved ones in times of disaster or trouble?
Methinks not so why should Jade. Many many people have earned many a penny off the back of Ms Goody are they all giving money to the hospice?
I don't think so but then again I am no expert on this
she's making money out of her illness,quite rightly she should make a donation to the very people who are caring for her!
Sex God
I wonder whether all this brow beating is to do with the fact that many who now feel sorry for Jade were the same people who were crucifying her only a year ago?
Guilt feelings perhaps?
Guilt feelings perhaps?
Sex God
Quote by bbw_lover
I wonder whether all this brow beating is to do with the fact that many who now feel sorry for Jade were the same people who were crucifying her only a year ago?
Guilt feelings perhaps?
Are you talking about people on here who were crucifying her or IRL :dunno:
Sex God
Quote by benrums0n
Reminds me of that film One Wedding and a Funeral.
:shock:
Sex God
Quote by Cherrytree
Well I didn't.
I understand your feelings, but dealing with death, illness and other terrible things by humour is a very human behaviour.
Everyone has their limits of course. In my case - I smiled, not because it was funny, funny, but at the neatness of the reference. It is one of the comments I would never repeat it - it's not 'that' funny.
