As I have already said in the " other " thread.
Feel sorry for her and her sons. She is only 27 ffs, with two young kids under 5.
My God....if people cannot show a bit of compassion for somebody in that awful situation, than what a wharped world we live in.
Im sorry but i cant stand the woman. I would never wish this on her or anyone else but i found her attitude at the begining of finding out she had cancer to be one of her usual got to be in the spotlight.
I am at the moment watching my sister die fron cancer watching her struggle every day and not make a big thing of more about others than herself Celebs are not the only people dying in this world just most dont publicise sorry if people think Im harsh and my heart goes out to her kids and family but its just my opinion.
A friend at work lost her father suddenly to cancer of the pancreas recently. I had never met him but I felt for HER pain and shock. I lost my own father when I was 17 so it connected with my own experience.
Jade is dying of something awful, I don't know her or anyone close to her so I'm not 'upset' by her situation.
I think a lot of people's concern is felt because we can imagine how our own families would suffer if one of them had the problem, not because we have any real interest in Jade as an individual. I would be interested what a psychologist would say about it.
I feel sorry for her, but I also feel sorry for the family that lost 6 people to that lorry driver, and for the children orphaned by AIDS in Africa. But only to a certain level. I can sleep at night regardless of this suffering. Not because I am callous, but because it isn't built in to worry about what doesn't affect me directly.
Jade has gone from a horrid up bringing to going onto BB and making something of herself to going on to BB again and it destroying her then all the people torturing her house etc to point she had to move and hide for safety of her tow boys and now this?
Yes she is a celeb to some and not to some BUT I think shes been through enough and this she cant escape :cry:
I do feel very sorry for jade and for anyone who's not a celeb & for people struggling on money and children and of any age tbh with any illness
My nephew was born a normal healthy boy then he got a infection which made him brain damaged and has lots of other problems. He was taken off life support last year and they said he would die with in minutes but he didn't and only come home before xmas he wont live until a teenager but what I am saying it happens to us all or someone we know or love. Im not saying jade is different but she has been through a lot like maybe most of some of us maybe have.
If I ha gone on BB and then got told I got the big C and only had few weeks to live I would do what I could for my children. And tbh her story has sent the message out to woman who has not bothered to have a smear in years like my mum etc so some good would of come out of this for some people.
Celeb or no celeb its a shame and yes I also think celebs shouldn't just help celebs maybe they should think who they were before they become famous. Maybe they have helped other people rather then just famous people and we don't hear of it but hey this is life!! I do my bit to give and help not money wise as I'm not rich but if I was I would try and help people the best I could but then we cant help everyone. Life really is a bitch!!
Marie xxx
Mar........as someone who constantly get bolloxed on here for MY opinions, why should anyone else be different?
If someone makes a statement or an opinion, then why should others not be able to challenge their opinions?
Most things written on here are just opinions.
I will continue to challenge and disagree with others opinions, just as others will do with mine. That is what the forum is all about.
Well... regardless what everyone else's opinions are.. I think by doing what she's doing so publicly, she's probably saved thousands of lives by hi-lighting it this way. Maybe even a member of your family's or a close friend! So she may have helped alot of you personally in the future so you don't lose your loved one's.
And if one of us ladies on here loses our life through this 'devils desease' Im sure we'll find our own personal way to live our last days for our own reasons, just as Jade has.
I admire her.. and have from the very 1st BB. She may not be educated but she stands up for what she believes in & like most decent humans... puts her boys first every time.
She gets married next week as she now only has weeks to live.. And instead of wasting time on how she is going to die, this incredible woman decided instead ,to throw every last ounce of her energy & life into how she was going to live.
Minxie
Whatever happened to compassion fgs?