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Quote by kentswingers777
I don't know her,she's not part of my life...i feel nothing for her!

Such a heartless nasty thought to be honest.
I thought better of you than that if honest.
Blimey I thought I was " hard faced ".
I quite agree, we are talking about someone s life here rolleyes I'm shocked. I'm going before I say anything offensive here.
Obviously you haven't seen anyone go through what she is at present :cry:
Quote by Mr-Powers
I don't know her,she's not part of my life...i feel nothing for her!

Such a heartless nasty thought to be honest.
I thought better of you than that if honest.
Blimey I thought I was " hard faced ".
what...so i feel nothing for her...why so wrong with that...she don't know me,i don't know her...
Powers if you really cannot see how offensive that reply was, then I feel sorry for you.
Quote by kentswingers777
I don't know her,she's not part of my life...i feel nothing for her!

Such a heartless nasty thought to be honest.
I thought better of you than that if honest.
Blimey I thought I was " hard faced ".
what...so i feel nothing for her...why so wrong with that...she don't know me,i don't know her...
Powers if you really cannot see how offensive that reply was, then I feel sorry for you.
in what way..
i feel nothing for her...its nothing personal wether it was goody or any one else that i didn't know...it won't effect my life personally,thats just me!
Quote by kentswingers777

But I was just horrified to see some comments that people have said about jade its just not on.
Marie xxx

As has been said by others, both here and on Minx' thread, if it saves one person the publicity is worthwhile. Jade is proof that early detection is vital.
But people are still entitled to alternative opinions, whether you think it's 'on' or not.
Actually...........it was my thread. wink
Ah sorry, easy to confuse you with her though! lol
Quote by Freckledbird

But I was just horrified to see some comments that people have said about jade its just not on.
Marie xxx

As has been said by others, both here and on Minx' thread, if it saves one person the publicity is worthwhile. Jade is proof that early detection is vital.
But people are still entitled to alternative opinions, whether you think it's 'on' or not.
Actually...........it was my thread. wink
Ah sorry, easy to confuse you with her though! lol
FB...........I take great offence to that. :wink:
Minxy will be horrified. :lol:
Quote by hisandhers
I don't know her,she's not part of my life...i feel nothing for her!

Such a heartless nasty thought to be honest.
I thought better of you than that if honest.
Blimey I thought I was " hard faced ".
I quite agree, we are talking about someone s life here rolleyes I'm shocked. I'm going before I say anything offensive here.
Obviously you haven't seen anyone go through what she is at present:cry:
yes your right,i haven't,and till something like that does come close to home,i still can't change the way i feel.
Quote by Mr-Powers
I don't know her,she's not part of my life...i feel nothing for her!

Such a heartless nasty thought to be honest.
I thought better of you than that if honest.
Blimey I thought I was " hard faced ".
I quite agree, we are talking about someone s life here rolleyes I'm shocked. I'm going before I say anything offensive here.
Obviously you haven't seen anyone go through what she is at present:cry:
yes your right,i haven't,and till something like that does come close to home,i still can't change the way i feel.
thats fine however could you not empathize with others who have dunno This is about human beings who are suffering & others who are going to lose loved ones. Have a heart
Quote by Mr-Powers
I don't know her,she's not part of my life...i feel nothing for her!

Such a heartless nasty thought to be honest.
I thought better of you than that if honest.
Blimey I thought I was " hard faced ".
what...so i feel nothing for her...why so wrong with that...she don't know me,i don't know her...
its called empathy for another human being!!!!
As I have already said in the " other " thread.
Feel sorry for her and her sons. She is only 27 ffs, with two young kids under 5.
My God....if people cannot show a bit of compassion for somebody in that awful situation, than what a wharped world we live in.
Quote by whiplash
I don't know her,she's not part of my life...i feel nothing for her!

Such a heartless nasty thought to be honest.
I thought better of you than that if honest.
Blimey I thought I was " hard faced ".
what...so i feel nothing for her...why so wrong with that...she don't know me,i don't know her...
its called empathy for another human being!!!!
well i'm all out of empathy.
Quote by Mr-Powers
I don't know her,she's not part of my life...i feel nothing for her!

Such a heartless nasty thought to be honest.
I thought better of you than that if honest.
Blimey I thought I was " hard faced ".
what...so i feel nothing for her...why so wrong with that...she don't know me,i don't know her...
its called empathy for another human being!!!!
well i'm all out of empathy.
some don't have it to begin with.
Im sorry but i cant stand the woman. I would never wish this on her or anyone else but i found her attitude at the begining of finding out she had cancer to be one of her usual got to be in the spotlight.
I am at the moment watching my sister die fron cancer watching her struggle every day and not make a big thing of more about others than herself Celebs are not the only people dying in this world just most dont publicise sorry if people think Im harsh and my heart goes out to her kids and family but its just my opinion.
Quote by Elaine_female
Im sorry but i cant stand the woman. I would never wish this on her or anyone else but i found her attitude at the begining of finding out she had cancer to be one of her usual got to be in the spotlight.
I am at the moment watching my sister die fron cancer watching her struggle every day and not make a big thing of more about others than herself Celebs are not the only people dying in this world just most dont publicise sorry if people think Im harsh and my heart goes out to her kids and family but its just my opinion.

No need to apologise for your opinion :therethere:
Quote by Mr-Powers
I don't know her,she's not part of my life...i feel nothing for her!

I kinda know what you mean!
I do feel sorry for Jade and I am quite saddened, particularly at the vitriole aimed at her on some websites. I don't particularly like or dislike Jade, but it's not something anyone should be told, regardless of being in the public eye or not.
I feel very much like you do when I hear of children with terminal illnesses, but from a different angle. We have a child in our family who has battled with leukaemia, we nearly lost her and she ended up within months of death, we were lucky and she had a bone marrow that has saved her life and 'cured' her.
There are children from the ward that didn't make it and I can't feel anything for them! If I did then I would be a constant wreck. I'm hardened to children dying and so hearing about such means nothing to me.
I'm not lacking in empathy or feeling, I deal with it my way, some people protect their feelings and therefore don't react with the hysteria, others come into their own during family illness etc.
Quote by Mr-Powers
I don't know her,she's not part of my life...i feel nothing for her!

Such a heartless nasty thought to be honest.
I thought better of you than that if honest.
Blimey I thought I was " hard faced ".
what...so i feel nothing for her...why so wrong with that...she don't know me,i don't know her...
its called empathy for another human being!!!!
well i'm all out of empathy.
so it seems!!!
maybe & going back to my original response only a man would make that comment do you not have a mother, sister daughter neice etc ......
Quote by Calista
I don't know her,she's not part of my life...i feel nothing for her!

I kinda know what you mean!
I do feel sorry for Jade and I am quite saddened, particularly at the vitriole aimed at her on some websites. I don't particularly like or dislike Jade, but it's not something anyone should be told, regardless of being in the public eye or not.
I feel very much like you do when I hear of children with terminal illnesses, but from a different angle. We have a child in our family who has battled with leukaemia, we nearly lost her and she ended up within months of death, we were lucky and she had a bone marrow that has saved her life and 'cured' her.
There are children from the ward that didn't make it and I can't feel anything for them! If I did then I would be a constant wreck. I'm hardened to children dying and so hearing about such means nothing to me.
I'm not lacking in empathy or feeling, I deal with it my way, some people protect their feelings and therefore don't react with the hysteria, others come into their own during family illness etc.
thank you...someone who actually know's where i was coming from on this one!
Quote by whiplash
I don't know her,she's not part of my life...i feel nothing for her!

Such a heartless nasty thought to be honest.
I thought better of you than that if honest.
Blimey I thought I was " hard faced ".
what...so i feel nothing for her...why so wrong with that...she don't know me,i don't know her...
its called empathy for another human being!!!!
well i'm all out of empathy.
so it seems!!!
maybe & going back to my original response only a man would make that comment do you not have a mother, sister daughter neice etc ......
i also have a brother,son and nephew...your point is?
Quote by Mr-Powers
I don't know her,she's not part of my life...i feel nothing for her!

Such a heartless nasty thought to be honest.
I thought better of you than that if honest.
Blimey I thought I was " hard faced ".
what...so i feel nothing for her...why so wrong with that...she don't know me,i don't know her...
its called empathy for another human being!!!!
well i'm all out of empathy.
so it seems!!!
maybe & going back to my original response only a man would make that comment do you not have a mother, sister daughter neice etc ......
i also have a brother,son and nephew...your point is?
i'm not tryin to make a point its jus that i cant understand how another fellow human being can be so callous i myself do not know jade but as a woman i understand maybe as a man u dont thats all..the woman has a terminal illness compassion is a traite us humans have ..well some of us anyway
Quote by whiplash
I don't know her,she's not part of my life...i feel nothing for her!

Such a heartless nasty thought to be honest.
I thought better of you than that if honest.
Blimey I thought I was " hard faced ".
what...so i feel nothing for her...why so wrong with that...she don't know me,i don't know her...
its called empathy for another human being!!!!
well i'm all out of empathy.
so it seems!!!
maybe & going back to my original response only a man would make that comment do you not have a mother, sister daughter neice etc ......
i also have a brother,son and nephew...your point is?
i'm not tryin to make a point its jus that i cant understand how another fellow human being can be so callous i myself do not know jade but as a woman i understand maybe as a man u dont thats all..the woman has a terminal illness compassion is a traite us humans have ..well some of us anyway
oh so because your a woman and she's a woman...you have more of an understanding...yes your right it must be a man thing!
A friend at work lost her father suddenly to cancer of the pancreas recently. I had never met him but I felt for HER pain and shock. I lost my own father when I was 17 so it connected with my own experience.
Jade is dying of something awful, I don't know her or anyone close to her so I'm not 'upset' by her situation.
I think a lot of people's concern is felt because we can imagine how our own families would suffer if one of them had the problem, not because we have any real interest in Jade as an individual. I would be interested what a psychologist would say about it.
I feel sorry for her, but I also feel sorry for the family that lost 6 people to that lorry driver, and for the children orphaned by AIDS in Africa. But only to a certain level. I can sleep at night regardless of this suffering. Not because I am callous, but because it isn't built in to worry about what doesn't affect me directly.
Jade has gone from a horrid up bringing to going onto BB and making something of herself to going on to BB again and it destroying her then all the people torturing her house etc to point she had to move and hide for safety of her tow boys and now this?
Yes she is a celeb to some and not to some BUT I think shes been through enough and this she cant escape :cry:
I do feel very sorry for jade and for anyone who's not a celeb & for people struggling on money and children and of any age tbh with any illness
My nephew was born a normal healthy boy then he got a infection which made him brain damaged and has lots of other problems. He was taken off life support last year and they said he would die with in minutes but he didn't and only come home before xmas he wont live until a teenager but what I am saying it happens to us all or someone we know or love. Im not saying jade is different but she has been through a lot like maybe most of some of us maybe have.
If I ha gone on BB and then got told I got the big C and only had few weeks to live I would do what I could for my children. And tbh her story has sent the message out to woman who has not bothered to have a smear in years like my mum etc so some good would of come out of this for some people.
Celeb or no celeb its a shame and yes I also think celebs shouldn't just help celebs maybe they should think who they were before they become famous. Maybe they have helped other people rather then just famous people and we don't hear of it but hey this is life!! I do my bit to give and help not money wise as I'm not rich but if I was I would try and help people the best I could but then we cant help everyone. Life really is a bitch!!
Marie xxx
Quote by Theladyisaminx
I don't know her,she's not part of my life...i feel nothing for her!

Such a heartless nasty thought to be honest.
I thought better of you than that if honest.
Blimey I thought I was " hard faced ".
what...so i feel nothing for her...why so wrong with that...she don't know me,i don't know her...
its called empathy for another human being!!!!
well i'm all out of empathy.
some don't have it to begin with.
So???
Not that I agree with his statement, but it is Mr Powers' opinion, just like everyone else's.
Please let everyone have their say on this thread whether or not you agree with what they have to say.
Quote by blueocean_04
So would you do the same or do you think she is wrong for doing it for money??. I think she is doing the right thing shes thinking of her sons and that's what any mother would do.

To answer your question:
No, I wouldn't do the same and yes, I think she's wrong doing it for the money. She's not thinking of her sons - she has enough money already to provide them with plenty when she's gone. More than a lot of children have, to be honest.
The filming of her last weeks? Bloody awful, I think. What most mothers would do, given the opportunity, is spend quality time with their family without the need for making money. She could have retreated quietly from the limelight and concentrated on them. She could have made lots of happy memories of their last weeks together. No need to film them, at least not with televison cameras - take some family snaps for the album. That would mean much more to her children, I'm sure.
Mar........as someone who constantly get bolloxed on here for MY opinions, why should anyone else be different?
If someone makes a statement or an opinion, then why should others not be able to challenge their opinions?
Most things written on here are just opinions.
I will continue to challenge and disagree with others opinions, just as others will do with mine. That is what the forum is all about.
Quote by Freckledbird

So would you do the same or do you think she is wrong for doing it for money??. I think she is doing the right thing shes thinking of her sons and that's what any mother would do.

To answer your question:
No, I wouldn't do the same and yes, I think she's wrong doing it for the money. She's not thinking of her sons - she has enough money already to provide them with plenty when she's gone. More than a lot of children have, to be honest.
The filming of her last weeks? Bloody awful, I think. What most mothers would do, given the opportunity, is spend quality time with their family without the need for making money. She could have retreated quietly from the limelight and concentrated on them. She could have made lots of happy memories of their last weeks together. No need to film them, at least not with televison cameras - take some family snaps for the album. That would mean much more to her children, I'm sure.
Couldn't agree more, those poor kids are going to have the Pap's in their faces for years to come as it is without being reminded of their Mum's public last few months.
The end should be dignified with her loved ones only, in my opinion.
Quote by Freckledbird

So would you do the same or do you think she is wrong for doing it for money??. I think she is doing the right thing shes thinking of her sons and that's what any mother would do.

To answer your question:
No, I wouldn't do the same and yes, I think she's wrong doing it for the money. She's not thinking of her sons - she has enough money already to provide them with plenty when she's gone. More than a lot of children have, to be honest.
The filming of her last weeks? Bloody awful, I think. What most mothers would do, given the opportunity, is spend quality time with their family without the need for making money. She could have retreated quietly from the limelight and concentrated on them. She could have made lots of happy memories of their last weeks together. No need to film them, at least not with televison cameras - take some family snaps for the album. That would mean much more to her children, I'm sure.
She is doing this for her children and she knows what is best for them and she will have time with them I'm sure. But hey you have your own opinion!
Quote by kentswingers777
Mar........as someone who constantly get bolloxed on here for MY opinions, why should anyone else be different?
If someone makes a statement or an opinion, then why should others not be able to challenge their opinions?
Most things written on here are just opinions.
I will continue to challenge and disagree with others opinions, just as others will do with mine. That is what the forum is all about.

And don't we know that innocent
The point I'm making is that Mr P is being 'challenged' for his thinking, not by one but by a few people. He's stated his reasons, he's explained his reasons and it should be left at that.
Now Mr Kent.. have you come in to comment on the content of the thread or to cause trouble?? bolt
Well... regardless what everyone else's opinions are.. I think by doing what she's doing so publicly, she's probably saved thousands of lives by hi-lighting it this way. Maybe even a member of your family's or a close friend! So she may have helped alot of you personally in the future so you don't lose your loved one's.
And if one of us ladies on here loses our life through this 'devils desease' Im sure we'll find our own personal way to live our last days for our own reasons, just as Jade has.
I admire her.. and have from the very 1st BB. She may not be educated but she stands up for what she believes in & like most decent humans... puts her boys first every time.
She gets married next week as she now only has weeks to live.. And instead of wasting time on how she is going to die, this incredible woman decided instead ,to throw every last ounce of her energy & life into how she was going to live.
Minxie
Whatever happened to compassion fgs?
Quote by Mr-Powers
I don't know her,she's not part of my life...i feel nothing for her!

I kinda know what you mean!
I do feel sorry for Jade and I am quite saddened, particularly at the vitriole aimed at her on some websites. I don't particularly like or dislike Jade, but it's not something anyone should be told, regardless of being in the public eye or not.
I feel very much like you do when I hear of children with terminal illnesses, but from a different angle. We have a child in our family who has battled with leukaemia, we nearly lost her and she ended up within months of death, we were lucky and she had a bone marrow that has saved her life and 'cured' her.
There are children from the ward that didn't make it and I can't feel anything for them! If I did then I would be a constant wreck. I'm hardened to children dying and so hearing about such means nothing to me.
I'm not lacking in empathy or feeling, I deal with it my way, some people protect their feelings and therefore don't react with the hysteria, others come into their own during family illness etc.
thank you...someone who actually know's where i was coming from on this one!
I have lost three babies, I still have feelings for others.
I have a mother battling cancer and a ternally ill dad but that does not stop me feeling for anyone, of course it isnt the heart wrenching feeling of losing one of your own. But it is still a feeling for someone, I would feel the same for an animal. I wouldnt cry over Jade as I would for someone close, but I do still care.
But the day I had my still born daughter just by fluke a friend had a baby in the same hospital I was in and I went and held her daugter and congratulated her. People at the time could not understand how I could do that.
Maybe it is beacuse I never just feel for myself but for others too.
She was feeling guilty she had her baby the same day I wanted her to know not to.
Just because we suffer doesnt mean everyone has to.