Hi all
just thought i'd let everyone know that after this evening i will not be in SH for a while. I'll be at Marcuso's party but will probably not be at any social after that.
i gota re-evaluate my life and what i really want with myself. over the last couple of days i have realised that maybe i'm not as mature and confiedent enough to "swing". and find myself a person who gets too emotionally attached to esaly, which is not a good thing when swinging
Just thought i say a big thank you to everyone i have meet in the last 6 months and i can say that i dont think there is a single soul i can say i don' like and feel you are all true freinds.
Mark should be proud that he got a sight with so many people that are caring, funny, down to earth and True.
Its gonna be wierd me leaving the site, but i feel while i stay here i'm not gonna get myself sorted.
My MSN is , for anyone who want to keep in touch with me.
i will miss everyone
xxx
JGL
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JGL - is leaving Swinging Heaven for a while
But, but but - I was only just getting to know you!!
Think i understand why though.
Pm me babe - & stay in touch x
Think i understand why though.
Pm me babe - & stay in touch x
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Hi all
just thought i'd let everyone know that after this evening i will not be in SH for a while. I'll be at Marcuso's party but will probably not be at any social after that.
i gota re-evaluate my life and what i really want with myself. over the last couple of days i have realised that maybe i'm not as mature and confiedent enough to "swing". and find myself a person who gets too emotionally attached to esaly, which is not a good thing when swinging
Just thought i say a big thank you to everyone i have meet in the last 6 months and i can say that i dont think there is a single soul i can say i don' like and feel you are all true freinds.
Mark should be proud that he got a sight with so many people that are caring, funny, down to earth and True.
Its gonna be wierd me leaving the site, but i feel while i stay here i'm not gonna get myself sorted.
My MSN is , for anyone who want to keep in touch with me.
i will miss everyone
xxx
JGL
Sex God
Only met you last night and a shame you're now leaving but I hope you get sorted what you need to.
Have fun and pop back in if you need a laugh
Roger the dragon
Have fun and pop back in if you need a laugh
Roger the dragon
JGL
Sorry that you are going but I know too that sometimes it is good to have a break to re assess life. I really missed the site when I left for a couple of months but just remember loads of people on this site DO NOT swing. I found that out after being here a while and am now comfortable in just being here with no pressure to engage or act in any way other than as myself. Take care my friend, you are one of the good guys
Love Corriexxxxxxx
Sorry that you are going but I know too that sometimes it is good to have a break to re assess life. I really missed the site when I left for a couple of months but just remember loads of people on this site DO NOT swing. I found that out after being here a while and am now comfortable in just being here with no pressure to engage or act in any way other than as myself. Take care my friend, you are one of the good guys
Love Corriexxxxxxx
JGL,
I know we've only crossed posts a couple of times but it will be a shame to see you go. I hope you find yourself soon. You never know, what you're looking for might end up being here all the time.
Take care and good luck for the future
Best wishes from Cu3b4ll
(another David Brent mega-fan)
I know we've only crossed posts a couple of times but it will be a shame to see you go. I hope you find yourself soon. You never know, what you're looking for might end up being here all the time.
Take care and good luck for the future
Best wishes from Cu3b4ll
(another David Brent mega-fan)
Orgasminator
You rotten git ! 
Hurry up get your ass sorted and get back here ASAP!
your a decent guy and id have liked to get to know you better.
Matt
Hurry up get your ass sorted and get back here ASAP!
your a decent guy and id have liked to get to know you better.
Matt
Sex God
WTF!!!??? :shock:
JGL, mate, believe me i know where you are. no secret that i binned off the whole idea of swinging for quite a while, mainly for the reasons you mentioned there, and yep i often wonder WTF am i doing here, and is it too important to me? so what if you can't or don't wanna swing for a while, or ever again? you're a nice guy, you give something to the site and the room, and you'll be missed mate ok?
if you need a break, fair enough. i've tried it but can't stay away!
hope to see you back one day tho.
take care fella!
neil x x x ;)
JGL, mate, believe me i know where you are. no secret that i binned off the whole idea of swinging for quite a while, mainly for the reasons you mentioned there, and yep i often wonder WTF am i doing here, and is it too important to me? so what if you can't or don't wanna swing for a while, or ever again? you're a nice guy, you give something to the site and the room, and you'll be missed mate ok?
if you need a break, fair enough. i've tried it but can't stay away!
hope to see you back one day tho.take care fella!
neil x x x ;)
JGL,
We don't know each other, although it's a shame to hear you are leaving.
I have no experience of swinging and I am happy to just chill here and get to know people for the moment. As has already been mentioned in this thread, some people do not swing on this site.
I hope you decide to come back soon.
We don't know each other, although it's a shame to hear you are leaving.
I have no experience of swinging and I am happy to just chill here and get to know people for the moment. As has already been mentioned in this thread, some people do not swing on this site.
I hope you decide to come back soon.
Sex God
awwwwwwww JGL babes sorry you have to leave us, dont leave it too long till your back with us sweetheart
You take care babes and you know where I am if you need to chat babes
Love n kisses
Vicky
You take care babes and you know where I am if you need to chat babes
Love n kisses
Vicky
Sex God
The lst time I saw you Mr..........was when you wondered why my stockings had gone !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
All good intentions for wearing them that night , but too fine and laddered..............and
no back up....
Do you remember !!
Please don't leave us for toooo long ..
All good intentions for wearing them that night , but too fine and laddered..............and
no back up....
Do you remember !!
Please don't leave us for toooo long ..
Sex God
Aaaaaaaw JGL, we will miss you hunni.
Looking forward to meeting you again in the new year.
See you back here soon.
Gill & Del x
Looking forward to meeting you again in the new year.
See you back here soon.
Gill & Del x
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Hi all
just thought i'd let everyone know that after this evening i will not be in SH for a while. I'll be at Marcuso's party but will probably not be at any social after that.
i gota re-evaluate my life and what i really want with myself. over the last couple of days i have realised that maybe i'm not as mature and confiedent enough to "swing". and find myself a person who gets too emotionally attached to esaly, which is not a good thing when swinging
Just thought i say a big thank you to everyone i have meet in the last 6 months and i can say that i dont think there is a single soul i can say i don' like and feel you are all true freinds.
Mark should be proud that he got a sight with so many people that are caring, funny, down to earth and True.
Its gonna be wierd me leaving the site, but i feel while i stay here i'm not gonna get myself sorted.
My MSN is , for anyone who want to keep in touch with me.
i will miss everyone
xxx
JGL
Well, I’m sure I speak for everyone on the site when I say that you will be sorely missed mate.
You are one of the few genuine single males that people feel at ease with in your company. You are one of the most likeable and comical guys I have ever met. You are also one of the most sensitive and understanding people I know.
I know exactly where you are coming from when you say you get too emotionally attached too easily. I think we’ve all been there at some stage in our lives. Yes it can be emotionally upsetting at times to feel more for someone than they are prepared or able to feel in return.
It also knocks our self-confidence and makes us wonder if we are doing something wrong in our approach.
Trust me. There is nothing wrong whatsoever in the way you have handled yourself and your situations whilst ever you have been a member of Swinging Heaven.
I really do hope that you manage to sort yourself out and hope you also realise that you are one of the more valued members of the site and have made many many friends. I for one would do anything to help you with anything you need in respect of sorting yourself out.
I’m REALLY glad you’ve decided to still come to mine and Cherry’s party and if you do ever need anything, help or emotional support etc., then please don’t hesitate to get in touch with me.
Don’t lose touch with us and please keep popping in from time to time.
Now go and re-evaluate things and do some real deep thinking, and come back an even better person than you already are.
ALL the best for whatever you decide to do mate.
Take care
Marcuso
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Hi all
just thought i'd let everyone know that after this evening i will not be in SH for a while. I'll be at Marcuso's party but will probably not be at any social after that.
i gota re-evaluate my life and what i really want with myself. over the last couple of days i have realised that maybe i'm not as mature and confiedent enough to "swing". . . .. . . . . . .
JGL
Hello.
But you have the god given sense and maturity to say so and do something about it.
Like you, I've had to do some fairly deep soul-searching over the recent few months.
As peeople have said - Not everybody here swings, try to remember that.
Above all else. This is a massive community of friends and buddies
Take care of you; and come back when you are ready.
Awwww JGL What am I going to do without me new dancing partner hun
Seriously though will be sorry to see you leave SH..Hope you hurry back!! After you have had time to revaluate ....You are a well respected individual in SH ! A Mature young man indeed with high respect of everyone in here. Take care.
.Hopefully we will see you back soon xx
Hugs & Kisses
Lucy/Ken
What am I going to do without me new dancing partner hun Seriously though will be sorry to see you leave SH..Hope you hurry back!! After you have had time to revaluate ....You are a well respected individual in SH ! A Mature young man indeed with high respect of everyone in here. Take care.
.Hopefully we will see you back soon xx
Hugs & Kisses
Lucy/Ken
Sex God
You cannot go yet I've not meet you.
Best wishes and good luck
Sarah
Best wishes and good luck
Sarah
Sex God
bloody hell another one ....JGL hope things get sorted and that we see you back in here in the future
thank you to everyone who as replyed to this thread
i never realsies there was so many that actually took notice of the threads i posted.
it realy touched a cord.
i'm trying to reply to everyone who as posted, but if i miss u out i'll say sorry now.
thanks once again
xxxxx
Jonathan (JGL)
PS --at least now you can now rest knowing that there will be no stupid polls posted by me!
PSS - IF a mod wants to lock this thread they can, cause i'm now logging out now so i wouldn't want anyone to post a reply to me that i end up missing
i never realsies there was so many that actually took notice of the threads i posted.
it realy touched a cord.
i'm trying to reply to everyone who as posted, but if i miss u out i'll say sorry now.
thanks once again
xxxxx
Jonathan (JGL)
PS --at least now you can now rest knowing that there will be no stupid polls posted by me!
PSS - IF a mod wants to lock this thread they can, cause i'm now logging out now so i wouldn't want anyone to post a reply to me that i end up missing
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PSS - IF a mod wants to lock this thread they can, cause i'm now logging out now so i wouldn't want anyone to post a reply to me that i end up missing
Ok hun but I expect to see you back in here soon cos the clock thread we talked about lastnight? Well, it won't be the same without you
Oh nooooooo!!!!!
I can't say it better than Corrie did ......
You will be missed on here JGL, you're a smashing bloke who I am gutted not to have met.
If you do decide to leave, then I wish you all the very best hunny
I can't say it better than Corrie did ......
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just remember loads of people on this site DO NOT swing. I found that out after being here a while and am now comfortable in just being here with no pressure to engage or act in any way other than as myself. Take care my friend, you are one of the good guys
You will be missed on here JGL, you're a smashing bloke who I am gutted not to have met.
If you do decide to leave, then I wish you all the very best hunny
