what would you do?
i'm stuck in a situation where no matte where i turn i'm gonna lose a friend. ive just found out one of my friends (fem) is seing a nother one of my friends boyfirend.
do i keep quiet and not say anything?. knowing that when it all comes out into the open i will be acused of lying. or do i tell say somethink knowing that i will fall out with my other firend for having a big mouth?
i'm a person who has always beleived in honesty. and just dont know what to do for the best. and at the same point i dont want to go hurting someone. FFS.
JGL
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what would you do?
i'm stuck in a situation where no matte where i turn i'm gonna lose a friend. ive just found out one of my friends (fem) is seing a nother one of my friends boyfirend.
do i keep quiet and not say anything?. knowing that when it all comes out into the open i will be acused of lying. or do i tell say somethink knowing that i will fall out with my other firend for having a big mouth?
i'm a person who has always beleived in honesty. and just dont know what to do for the best. and at the same point i dont want to go hurting someone. FFS.
JGL
Ok , be honest, tell friend whos seeing the others boyfriend that you know, that they have put you in an impossible position and tell them to sort it out., either quit the relationship or tell you other friend.
Trauma sorted, sort now can we go back to disecting the contents of you fridge!!!???
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what would you do?
i'm stuck in a situation where no matte where i turn i'm gonna lose a friend. ive just found out one of my friends (fem) is seing a nother one of my friends boyfirend.
do i keep quiet and not say anything?. knowing that when it all comes out into the open i will be acused of lying. or do i tell say somethink knowing that i will fall out with my other firend for having a big mouth?
i'm a person who has always beleived in honesty. and just dont know what to do for the best. and at the same point i dont want to go hurting someone. FFS.
JGL
Ok , be honest, tell friend whos seeing the others boyfriend that you know, that they have put you in an impossible position and tell them to sort it out., either quit the relationship or tell you other friend.
Trauma sorted, sort now can we go back to disecting the contents of you fridge!!!???
i wonder what you could mean!!
that bottle of bubble is still sitting next to the mayo!
i might do that. at least my concence is clear
Quote by JGL
what would you do?
i'm stuck in a situation where no matte where i turn i'm gonna lose a friend. ive just found out one of my friends (fem) is seing a nother one of my friends boyfirend.
do i keep quiet and not say anything?. knowing that when it all comes out into the open i will be acused of lying. or do i tell say somethink knowing that i will fall out with my other firend for having a big mouth?
i'm a person who has always beleived in honesty. and just dont know what to do for the best. and at the same point i dont want to go hurting someone. FFS.
JGL
Ok , be honest, tell friend whos seeing the others boyfriend that you know, that they have put you in an impossible position and tell them to sort it out., either quit the relationship or tell you other friend.
Trauma sorted, sort now can we go back to disecting the contents of you fridge!!!???
i wonder what you could mean!!
that bottle of bubble is still sitting next to the mayo!
i might do that. at least my concence is clear
How can a man with a jar of ASDA Mayo in his fridge have a conscience??
Quote by JGL
lol! personally i cant stand mayo. but me shares an house so that is my ecuse.. it must of been someone elses!! ;-)
i'm dying to open the botle of bubble but i've seen the price of it (cost me nowt). and i'd be wel annoyed if iy tasted crap!
JGL
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one of my friends (fem) is seing a nother one of my friends boyfirend.
JGL
Sounds like a ready-made foursome to me mate, if the girls are both bi then you're onto a winner.
Seriously you're between a rock and a hard place. To continue to be friends with both of them, it's all gotta come out in the open, so throwing a rant might help. The risk is you damage your relationship with both of them.
Alternatively, you could decide your loyalties lie with one friend or the other, and decide you won't continue to be put in a difficult position, by avoiding it in the first place.
HTH
OOOH - definiatly keep quiet on this one, in my experience YOU will be the loser because all involved will deny it, then you'll look like a liar, your friend will turn against you, and by the time they realise the mistake, the damage has been done. If your friend finds out under her own steam then maybe you could say that you knew, but wanted her to find out herself so as to protect the friendship. just DONT play the alibi if the other 2 ask you to, you owe it to your friend to stay uninvolved.
Hope it all works out hunny
Hope it all works out hunny
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OOOH - definiatly keep quiet on this one, in my experience YOU will be the loser because all involved will deny it, then you'll look like a liar, your friend will turn against you, and by the time they realise the mistake, the damage has been done. If your friend finds out under her own steam then maybe you could say that you knew, but wanted her to find out herself so as to protect the friendship. just DONT play the alibi if the other 2 ask you to, you owe it to your friend to stay uninvolved.
Hope it all works out hunny
cheers xxxx
i refuse to get invloved.. but knowing the soft sap i am i will. not the best as saying "no"
i think the one getting cheated on, whould believe me. she'd know is not somethink i would make up. plus ppl know i'm not one to say something unless i mean it.
thank you everyone for your advise.. think i'm gonna sitt on this for a while then re asses it if it gets sticky
thank you once again
JGL
