I've joined SH because I'd like to sample the varied experiences and situations that swinging has to offer BUT I realise that as single man there are a lot of us about. For that reason I reckon that making friends and arranging meets is going to take a certain amount of patience!
While I'm more than happy to do that I thought in the meantime I might just get myself along to a club as a single chap (Townhouse Wirral perhaps) and see what it's all about. A good idea or jumping the gun?
Apologies if this question is an old chestnut that's been on the board many times before. Humour me!
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Sex God
I'm sure you'd have a good time at the Townhouse. It's a decent club.
Have a look in the Let's Meet Up and Club Meets forums. There are socials and club nights aplenty if you fancy.
Getting yourself 'known' in the forums can be good too - or using a regular chatroom often.
Or, you know, you could always flirt outrageously with your friendly local moderator & she could put in a good word for you... :twisted:
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Have a look in the Let's Meet Up and Club Meets forums. There are socials and club nights aplenty if you fancy.
Getting yourself 'known' in the forums can be good too - or using a regular chatroom often.
Or, you know, you could always flirt outrageously with your friendly local moderator & she could put in a good word for you... :twisted:
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Sex God
Hi Dirty Whooster and welcome to the fourms. I think that going to a club or going to a social is an excellent way to get yourself known, to have a bit of fun along the way.
As you say, there are a lot of single males on any swinging site, but the ones who seem to get the most out of these sites, are the ones who put in some effort, perhaps by joining in the forums, in chatroom etc, having a bit of a giggle, and mostly, showing the personality behind the Profile.
Somehow, I think you will do fine
As you say, there are a lot of single males on any swinging site, but the ones who seem to get the most out of these sites, are the ones who put in some effort, perhaps by joining in the forums, in chatroom etc, having a bit of a giggle, and mostly, showing the personality behind the Profile.
Somehow, I think you will do fine
Thanks guys.
The forums seem to be about my pace, I've been in chat and to be honest I didn't have a clue what was going on
Taking your advice on board I'll keep my eyes peeled for upcoming events...
...and make sure I ingratiate myself with those devilishly attractive moderators :twisted:
The forums seem to be about my pace, I've been in chat and to be honest I didn't have a clue what was going on
Taking your advice on board I'll keep my eyes peeled for upcoming events...
...and make sure I ingratiate myself with those devilishly attractive moderators :twisted:
Sex God
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...and make sure I ingratiate myself with those devilishly attractive moderators :twisted:
Ooooh Mrs NWC, whoever could he mean? :rascal:
Sex God
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...and make sure I ingratiate myself with those devilishly attractive moderators :twisted:
Ooooh Mrs NWC, whoever could he mean? :rascal:
Can I watch :twisted:
Whoops, sorry Nola, that was your other thread
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...and make sure I ingratiate myself with those devilishly attractive moderators :twisted:
Ooooh Mrs NWC, whoever could he mean? :rascal:
;)Methinks you'll do just fine Mr D_W.
Oi, Hands off, Nola got in before you, wait your turn :giggle:
Hi, and welcome to the forum. There are ladies and couples here who are happy to meet single guys, however, it is a sad fact that lots of guys who arrange meets just don't turn up. The choice is always yours, of course, but if you wish to get the most out of swinging heaven then you need to become known, or at least visible. By visible I mean be prepared to show your face on cam in the chatrooms; as far as meets go I've found this surpasses any other method. Making the effort to go to a social near enough to you and meeting other members over a drink is probably the best way to become known and verified on the site.
Wise words Mr Skinny, thanks!
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Hi, and welcome to the forum. There are ladies and couples here who are happy to meet single guys, however, it is a sad fact that lots of guys who arrange meets just don't turn up. The choice is always yours, of course, but if you wish to get the most out of swinging heaven then you need to become known, or at least visible. By visible I mean be prepared to show your face on cam in the chatrooms; as far as meets go I've found this surpasses any other method. Making the effort to go to a social near enough to you and meeting other members over a drink is probably the best way to become known and verified on the site.
