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yeah man you was well close to scoring then, sorry
Nearly spat me tea then! 
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Nearly spat me tea then! Quote by Lilmiss
Phuckers profile.....
Enter your profile text in here...enter your profile where ...enter your profile your profile here and there
I don't see the point of your profile.
Or shall I "judge" you on the fact of that you cannot be bothered to write anything?
Nope..that would be so wrong of me.
you have every right to judge me,i cant be bothered to write my profile,what difference does it matter if you are a single male!
Sex God
Quote by Phuckers
Phuckers profile.....
Enter your profile text in here...enter your profile where ...enter your profile your profile here and there
I don't see the point of your profile.
Or shall I "judge" you on the fact of that you cannot be bothered to write anything?
Nope..that would be so wrong of me.
you have every right to judge me,i cant be bothered to write my profile,what difference does it matter if you are a single male!
So....... You have just "Steriotyped" yourself for being a single male... AND "judged" others in 1 reply?
Maybe you should quote the section my ad is in instead of what is actually on it!!
Sex God
Quote by Phuckers
yeah man you was well close to scoring then, sorry
Nearly spat me tea then!you are just jealous!
I don't know whether to be shocked or just laugh.
Oh, I do :rotflmao: :rotflmao: :rotflmao: :rotflmao:
Sex God
Quote by Jawnathan
yeah man you was well close to scoring then, sorry
Nearly spat me tea then!I thought you swallowed?
Sometimes
I did say 'nearly'.
Quote by winchwench
Phuckers, try this....
I don't fancy hairy guy's, they don't turn me on.
Hairy guys all act like uncultured Neanderthals.
See a difference?
of course their is a difference but for you to reached that point where you fancy something or someone you must have judge it....No. From Cambridge Online:
stereotype
a fixed idea that people have about what someone or something is like, especially an idea that is wrong
judge
to form, give or have as an opinion, or to decide about something or someone, especially after thinking carefully
Quote by Phuckers
Phuckers, try this....
I don't fancy hairy guy's, they don't turn me on.
Hairy guys all act like uncultured Neanderthals.
See a difference?
of course their is a difference but for you to reached that point where you fancy something or someone you must have judge it....No. From Cambridge Online:
stereotype
a fixed idea that people have about what someone or something is like, especially an idea that is wrong
judge
to form, give or have as an opinion, or to decide about something or someone, especially after thinking carefully
Just because judging can be as a result of deciding something does not mean that deciding something is as a result of judging something.
Quote by Freckledbird
yeah man you was well close to scoring then, sorry
Nearly spat me tea then!you are just jealous!
I don't know whether to be shocked or just laugh.
Oh, I do :rotflmao: :rotflmao: :rotflmao: :rotflmao:
That's ma girl!!!
But I do recommend you don;t swallow with a diabetic when on a calorie controlled diet... you may get a sugar rush afterwards :shock:
Quote by Lilmiss
awwwww good response....
Is it me?? am i just thinking people think that way?
Awww i dunno!!
Hi Lilmiss
I don't know if this is what you are feeling to!
I have felt paranoid at times, which leads to the feelings of being judged. I often wondered if people have read me the wrong way and judged me for being something that I am not. I have thought about this as in general life I haven’t felt those feelings before as an adult. I generally get on with all people from all walks of life. I find the problems here are getting you views across in the written form, and trying to work out what is meant in responses received.
After thinking about this I have come to the conclusion that it doesn’t really matter.
The people that matter with their judgements are friends and family that know me for who I am and what I believe in.
I have told a couple of friends what I am doing here, we have spoken in depth and they judge me for who I am, not what I do.
If people don’t want to get to know you for that then in my opinion they are not worth knowing.
Sexlightened
Quote by Lilmiss
Do you ever feel you are judged? Not always in the swinging world, sometimes in "normal" lifestyle?
I do. I feel a lot of people judge me for being BBW. They look at the outside and don't actually get to know the inner person.
What do u think? About you of course and what some may judge you of?
Lil x
people judge me everyday.
on my looks, on my age, on my tattoos, on my dress sense, on my sense of humour....you cant stop others from judging you.
some are stereotypes that will never go away, but humans will always judge. shame really
Sex God
I have recently been "Judged" and "Stereotyped" on something that is not true and i have been thinking about it a lot lately. It's a major thing to me and i don't want to tell the whole of SH what it is, but it hurts.. especially when its my own mother that has done it.
I didn't expect this thread to have to response that it has. It's been great hearing everybody's opinions about "Judging" others and i for one, have learnt a bit from it.
I know its easy for people to say to ignore it, but on some things... its not that easy.
I didn't expect this thread to have to response that it has. It's been great hearing everybody's opinions about "Judging" others and i for one, have learnt a bit from it.
I know its easy for people to say to ignore it, but on some things... its not that easy.
yes, and ive been guilty of thinking the same before i became one!
As a single parent i come accross negativitiy everywhere including in the bank! Peoples whole attitudes change as soon as they realise!
However i was once one of those people, and i now have the good grace to admit i was wrong! I put every single mum in the same box and it was totally unjustified and unfair!
As a single parent i come accross negativitiy everywhere including in the bank! Peoples whole attitudes change as soon as they realise!
However i was once one of those people, and i now have the good grace to admit i was wrong! I put every single mum in the same box and it was totally unjustified and unfair!
Quote by Lilmiss
I have recently been "Judged" and "Stereotyped" on something that is not true and i have been thinking about it a lot lately. It's a major thing to me and i don't want to tell the whole of SH what it is, but it hurts.. especially when its my own mother that has done it.
I didn't expect this thread to have to response that it has. It's been great hearing everybody's opinions about "Judging" others and i for one, have learnt a bit from it.
I know its easy for people to say to ignore it, but on some things... its not that easy.
I judge you AS.............lovely :smitten:
Sex God
Quote by jaymar
Yeah, people probably judge me for something or other that they aren't. But I stopped giving a shit quite some time ago.
Same here!
if people are bored enough to stop by and judge me then I've made their day!I agree its not the end of the world but its so fekin annoying when one person from a group judges you then the rest of that group all take that judgement as gospel....
Makes things very difficult....
Sex God
Quote by Steve
Yeah, people probably judge me for something or other that they aren't. But I stopped giving a shit quite some time ago.
Same here!
if people are bored enough to stop by and judge me then I've made their day!I agree its not the end of the world but its so fekin annoying when one person from a group judges you then the rest of that group all take that judgement as gospel....
Makes things very difficult....
Not everyone listens, or thinks what the group does.
Sex God
Quote by Freckledbird
Yeah, people probably judge me for something or other that they aren't. But I stopped giving a shit quite some time ago.
Same here!
if people are bored enough to stop by and judge me then I've made their day!I agree its not the end of the world but its so fekin annoying when one person from a group judges you then the rest of that group all take that judgement as gospel....
Makes things very difficult....
Not everyone listens, or thinks what the group does.
I realise that and its nice to know people have the brains to form their own opinions but it does create some real problems geographicaly(sp)
Sex God
Quote by Peanut
yeah man you was well close to scoring then, sorry
Nearly spat me tea then!you are just jealous!
I don't know whether to be shocked or just laugh.
Oh, I do :rotflmao: :rotflmao: :rotflmao: :rotflmao:
That's ma girl!!!
But I do recommend you don;t swallow with a diabetic when on a calorie controlled diet... you may get a sugar rush afterwards :shock:
s'ok, I'll make sure I skip the diet the week before she drinks from my honey pot :wink: