It seems to me that a lot of people tag other people immediately without thought,
i.e the married man out as a single is a cheat and unworthy!
Maybe consider their partner has a disability or illness and they are only human afterall!
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To be fair, most married guys playing as a single are probably playing away from home. We have had lots of messages from married 'single' guys and although I respect their honesty, I choose not to play with them as the reason most give is either "the Mrs wont put out" or "I have a higher sex drive than her". Sorry but that don't cut the mustard for me. I have never been a marriage wrecker and dont intend to start now. If your relationship isnt working then maybe you need to work at it more or walk away.
If a married guy has a genuine reason for being on here as a single guy, for example a wife's illness/disability, then he should be honest and write it on his profile. I would possibly consider this but only with the full consent of his wife!
If a married guy has a genuine reason for being on here as a single guy, for example a wife's illness/disability, then he should be honest and write it on his profile. I would possibly consider this but only with the full consent of his wife!
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It seems to me that a lot of people tag other people immediately without thought,
i.e the married man out as a single is a cheat and unworthy!
Maybe consider their partner has a disability or illness and they are only human afterall!
I admit that without much thought, I don't want to play with married males but then its my personal choice not to. As it is for others not to play with a short or fat person
Having a reason isn't something I am interested in, sorry if that seems harsh. You're married which means you aren't going to be free as and when I want or can't accomodate which are MY choices
However, the term cheat, yeah maybe but maybe not. I'm married but can play alone so I am sure there are people put off by that. Just the way it is.
From what i can see and have experienced, there isn't that much 'cheating' going on if you look at the bigger picture.
you are cheating if you are in the throws of loving relationship and carrying on with someone else.
but in many cases the search for extra sex is usually after the passion has died. and its often acknowledged that the one with the desire for sex is discreetly allowed to have their way.
most couples worth their salt can live with some form of infidelity, along with many other disappointing human failings in each other.
so the idea that there is an untold quantity of the population being cheated on in some despicable way is slightly exaggerated.
what does come across is that people are quite decided about this and they seem more confident to state their opinion and values on this matter.
however they don't always find that so easy with other 'choices', or 'preferences' and whatever else they wish to call it.
you are cheating if you are in the throws of loving relationship and carrying on with someone else.
but in many cases the search for extra sex is usually after the passion has died. and its often acknowledged that the one with the desire for sex is discreetly allowed to have their way.
most couples worth their salt can live with some form of infidelity, along with many other disappointing human failings in each other.
so the idea that there is an untold quantity of the population being cheated on in some despicable way is slightly exaggerated.
what does come across is that people are quite decided about this and they seem more confident to state their opinion and values on this matter.
however they don't always find that so easy with other 'choices', or 'preferences' and whatever else they wish to call it.
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It seems to me that a lot of people tag other people immediately without thought,
i.e the married man out as a single is a cheat and unworthy!
Maybe consider their partner has a disability or illness and they are only human afterall!
:sad: sure we all label or get tagged in every day life, the youth with a skin head or hoodie,, tattoos ,, posh suit with clipboard bmw or mini drivers
so if self protection is key, we label peeps as they us
now im a married guy, and dont mind being labeled , my wife likes reading these and the stories , and plays now and again,
ps how does this sound. granny and a grand dad tag 50s or late 70s bbw is a good tag?
as i say im not bothered about being tagged its great in kiss chase
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It seems to me that a lot of people tag other people immediately without thought,
i.e the married man out as a single is a cheat and unworthy!
Maybe consider their partner has a disability or illness and they are only human afterall!
Madame Smooth was diagnosed with breast cancer in 2007 whilst we were trying to keep the marriage (perhaps for the final time) together. The chemo and radio treatments all but killed her remaining sex drive. She has made little progress since despite all the attention and love that I and the family can give her. In late 2009 she encouraged me to find someone else for the sex that she was unable to give me. I never hid the fact that I was married or my circumstances. I had an affair for just over a year and have to say that this rescued me from the depths of depression or worse. To do this at this time may sound conceited, self-centred, whatever but until you find yourself in a situation where you become 'strangers' after 30 years you CANNOT understand the emotional need. For me it was not cheating. Condemn me if you will but there must be many people in relationships in a similar position of 'lonliness' and frustration.
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