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What do you do when you have replied to someones advert with a mail message (i.e. a complete answer to there advert parameters!!) and they reply with a wink??? dunno
That could be because they are not a full memember so are not able to mail back... In that case you have to give them some other means to contact them.
I hope this is of some help
Can you place an ad if you're not a full member?
H.x
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Can you place an ad if you're not a full member?
H.x

Yes!!
But you cannot reply!
Quote by H-x
Can you place an ad if you're not a full member?
H.x

Yep....I think you can put an add up and send winks but not send PMs, so I guess this is why someone would reply to a response to an add with a wink. Or they might just be lazy dunno
We think that they are full members, but it just seemed strange to us to send us a wink asking us to check their profile when we had already done so before we replied to their ad??
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Can you place an ad if you're not a full member?

Yes!!
But you cannot reply!
Scuse my ignorance but what the hell's the point?
I understand it's to entice people to become members but what's the point of actually going to the trouble of placing an ad if you can't read the replies?
H.x
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Maybe do a search restricting it to full members only using their user name?
H
In order for them to join the site, they MUST place an advert, before they can carry on with the rest of the registration.
Hence the reason for some c**p adverts!
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H
In order for them to join the site, they MUST place an advert, before they can carry on with the rest of the registration.
Hence the reason for some c**p adverts!

Good God, no wonder there's so many stupid ads!!!!
Sorry but to me that sounds a bit silly (just my opinion)
H.x
Quote by H-x
Can you place an ad if you're not a full member?

Yes!!
But you cannot reply!
Scuse my ignorance but what the hell's the point?
I understand it's to entice people to become members but what's the point of actually going to the trouble of placing an ad if you can't read the replies?
H.x
I think they can read the replys......just they can't then reply to the replys......if that makes sense dunno
Now I'm even more confused!!! They have been members for some time and it wasn't a new ad (We just hadn't scanned the ads for a while)
If its because that the system won't allow them to respond to their own ads, then that seems a little errr... dare we say... pointless!!
We don't know if they are interested in us or not! If we send another message, they may feel that we are bugging them and get pi**ed off!! Not the effect we were actually after....Help!!
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H
In order for them to join the site, they MUST place an advert, before they can carry on with the rest of the registration.
Hence the reason for some c**p adverts!

Good God, no wonder there's so many stupid ads!!!!
Sorry but to me that sounds a bit silly (just my opinion)
H.x
I agree! It probably explains why there are so many bogus ads as well. It really doesn't make any sense cos people are writing any old crap just to join the site.
Dumb! (?)
I know this is a strange question, but what is the point of making them write an ad to become a member of this site?
Because surely they could just do an ad, become a member and then delete the ad ??
Andy
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Now I'm even more confused!!! They have been members for some time and it wasn't a new ad (We just hadn't scanned the ads for a while)
If its because that the system won't allow them to respond to their own ads, then that seems a little errr... dare we say... pointless!!
We don't know if they are interested in us or not! If we send another message, they may feel that we are bugging them and get pi**ed off!! Not the effect we were actually after....Help!!

Well they've winked back at you so there must be some interest there, if they can read their mail maybe tell them a time you're going to be in a specific chat room?
I'm not sure you can send other contact info, ie e-mail addys or mobile numbers to folks who aren't full members. I'm sure someone will come along who does though biggrin
H.x
it wasn't me............ rolleyes
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it wasn't me............ rolleyes

for a change rolleyes
sounds like they aint free members or maybe tis an automated wink, ie they have certain account types that backfires to the wsender? if that makes sence
tis pointless free members not being able to send mail but imo a money making scheme, if free/non full members could send mail there would be alot less people paying to use the site dunno
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In order for them to join the site, they MUST place an advert, before they can carry on with the rest of the registration.
Hence the reason for some c**p adverts!

Good God, no wonder there's so many stupid ads!!!!
Sorry but to me that sounds a bit silly (just my opinion)
H.x
I agree! It probably explains why there are so many bogus ads as well. It really doesn't make any sense cos people are writing any old crap just to join the site.
Dumb! (?)
Totally agree with both comments above.
Don't want to sound like a subversive but I think this policy should be changed or we should get a good explanation from 'the site' as to why not. It doesn't seem fair to the paying members that they have to trawl through ads where people haven't logged in for weeks or are completely bogus. If they could join free but couldn't place a full ad until they paid, the genuine ones could still be found in the 'My search' section anyway? And with a good profile could still get replies without the need for an ad? I'm sure if the paying members were asked to vote on this the result would be overwhelming in favour to change this?
well the system as it is now, worked ok for me..... wen i was still actively swinging ..... i had a wink from someone, i looked at their profile and they seemed ok plus they had a pic on and i recognised them as someone id had a threesome with ages ago with another contact from here .... so i replied .... they sent me another wink ... this went on for a while and i was bit confused by it but then went to look at their profile and advert again and there was a messege for me written into their advert .... biggrin .....so altho they werent a paying member and couldnt reply we still managed to meet up ok
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