I went on holiday with a lady from here, just 4 days with I lady I first meet 20 mins before we checked into our hotel. It is true that we chatted on here for a few weeks, but I still wonder just how wise it was.
It was a very good few days, so much so that we met again. I am planning another holiday and looking for another lady. You see I rather enjoyed a micro affair.
Would you do what I have done?
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Just a short sex holiday
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Oh sorry....I thought a "sex holiday" was when I abstained for a week or so!
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No I would not consider having an affair be it long or short term, I would rather spend my time and money with my wife.
We went Dutch, and yes would not have spent money.
ok so your saying you got your part of the travel, food, drinks, hotel side of it free, highly plausible you may have been on expenses and your employers paid, that is cool, lucky you, but I still wouldn't do it because I am a swinger not a cheat, my partner comes first, last and in the middle, but that is me, I personally don't think there is anywhere for cheating in the swinging scene, what I and my partner do we do with each others consent, some do, some don't that is personal preference and provided people are upfront and honest (at least with us if not with thier partners) about being in a relationship and swinging without consent then that is thier choice, others can make thier personal choice to take part in the deception or not, it is only when they lie to others saying they are single that they affect them and that is not fair.
Well it doesn't seem clear what you could be concerned about.
Some will focus on the mention of 'affair', and subsequently launch into the customary set of debates.
Some will think 'excellent stuff'.
But getting it altogether and making it work, given the set of circumstances under which it happened; is a reasonable accomplishment. A lot would say its a good example of what swinging should be. There's many who wouldn't have dared.
So I am not sure if you think it was a risk to do it, whether you knew it was a fling until you got there. that you did it but regretted it. that you knew but feel like a beast. or that you think doing something like this is unusually dodgy anyway.
Also it demonstrates that extraordinary quality of women to do something like this.
But perhaps there might have been a cancellation with another partner, and you were drafted in as a replacement?
Anyway if you had some fun and enjoyed your short holiday only you would know if you regretted it.
Some will focus on the mention of 'affair', and subsequently launch into the customary set of debates.
Some will think 'excellent stuff'.
But getting it altogether and making it work, given the set of circumstances under which it happened; is a reasonable accomplishment. A lot would say its a good example of what swinging should be. There's many who wouldn't have dared.
So I am not sure if you think it was a risk to do it, whether you knew it was a fling until you got there. that you did it but regretted it. that you knew but feel like a beast. or that you think doing something like this is unusually dodgy anyway.
Also it demonstrates that extraordinary quality of women to do something like this.
But perhaps there might have been a cancellation with another partner, and you were drafted in as a replacement?
Anyway if you had some fun and enjoyed your short holiday only you would know if you regretted it.
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No I would not consider having an affair be it long or short term, I would rather spend my time and money with my wife.
We went Dutch, and yes would not have spent money.
ok so your saying you got your part of the travel, food, drinks, hotel side of it free, highly plausible you may have been on expenses and your employers paid, that is cool, lucky you, but I still wouldn't do it because I am a swinger not a cheat, my partner comes first, last and in the middle, but that is me, I personally don't think there is anywhere for cheating in the swinging scene, what I and my partner do we do with each others consent, some do, some don't that is personal preference and provided people are upfront and honest (at least with us if not with thier partners) about being in a relationship and swinging without consent then that is thier choice, others can make thier personal choice to take part in the deception or not, it is only when they lie to others saying they are single that they affect them and that is not fair.
My wife knew. So it was not cheating. She is single, so she not cheating, and yes I know she is single...but I do take your point. Since I have visited her home since then, where she lives with her 20 something daughter.
...and Duncun no regrets and enjoyed it ta.
