We generally assume that most blokes will shag anything given half a chance, if they know they will get away with it, whereas women are much more discerning. Well, here's a thought experiment for you. Go on the video chat room, and look at each of the women on cam (whether single or part of a couple). Imagine you start a thread with them, and find out they will be in your town, tomorrow with free time and a hotel room. It turns out you can get away tomorrow as well. When she asks 'are you up for it?' and its clear she means a leg-over situation will ensue........will you agree? You should do this strictly on the taxi rank principle, and dont pre-select the women to look at. How many of the first 10 would you succumb to? I will try this myself, but i rather feel I will disappoint myself by my lack of discernment! On the other hand, perhaps people on SH are just so lovely and photogenic that they are all difficult to resist. Obviously women can do this as well...and gay/bi people.
I have had guys ask to meet me just going by the pic on my profile :shock: always makes me laugh that how some men really do want to meet with without seeing a proper pic, i've never agree to meet a guy based purely on a cock shot but seems men arn't that fussy lol
Quote by naughtynymphos1 I have had guys ask to meet me just going by the pic on my profile :shock: always makes me laugh that how some men really do want to meet with without seeing a proper pic, i've never agree to meet a guy based purely on a cock shot but seems men arn't that fussy lol
I can't deny that there seem to be some men aren't at all fussy, but there are also some women who are the same. You can't tar everyone with the same brush. Call me old fashioned though, yes I may enjoy nsa sex but I still want to be desired for me - not because I may be willing or available.
Mr W is pretty fussy. In his single days he turned down NSA sex on a couple of occasions from women he says were physicaly attractive but in his words "full of themselves". S'pose it's a good job I'm full of shit then!
Quote by Kiss I can't deny that there seem to be some men aren't at all fussy, but there are also some women who are the same. You can't tar everyone with the same brush. Call me old fashioned though, yes I may enjoy nsa sex but I still want to be desired for me - not because I may be willing or available.
Quote by meat2pleaseu You don't find this sort of quality just anywhere you know, thats why i have to ration myself to the most deserving ladies
Yeah but can I get a better part of you than a foot next time Fee XX Isn't more than 12" just greedy? :wink: :giggle: I'd love 12" but I find a 6" ruler stays in my pocket better :giggle:
Good topic :thumbup: Based on our experience in chat we've been STUNNED by the amount of guys that start to chat to us just based on the blue and pink 'couple' icon only to find that we are in fact a male couple...usually at the point when they have their car keys in hand! :shock: One guy yesterday even lied and said that he hadread our profile when I asked him (as I always do to save any confusion and I'd read his and everything about it was 'straight'). He quickly disappeared when I asked him exactly what he was looking for as I think by that time, the penny had dropped :!: I also think that the single female (pink) icon gives SOME men the impression that the female in question is there because she wants shagging there and then... on the spot, at that very moment I also find it rude when they only address the female/one half of the couple in chat - how stupid is that? Mannners cost nothing We LOVE chat and have used it successfully now for about 9 months for both social (chat) and sexual (shag) purposes However, I can honestlysay that SOME single men come out with some of the the biggest lot of cliched, over-used, playground style drivvle I've ever seen, to get a quick flash on cam (or not as is usually the case :wink: ). So yes, I do think that SOME men (and women!) in chat are easy... not even fussy to be honest It did get to the point where I thought that 'fussy' was almost being viewed as a negative (i.e. snobby, aloof) word in Chat but we now know, having met some lovely people that isn't the case at all :P As for us, no, we ain't easy and yes we are fussy - very! Why? Because I think we're worth it :wink:
I have to say your maybe off track here too! Its strange as we have just been through all this but its a long old story... We can honestly say we don't play behind each others backs.. we have both been tested lol... both passed the test fully. No its as a couple or nothing with us. As for would I just for the sake of NO lol... Really NO.. can understand those who do but feel they sell themselves short. Just a personal opinion... Mike
Quote by naughtynymphos1 I have had guys ask to meet me just going by the pic on my profile :shock: always makes me laugh that how some men really do want to meet with without seeing a proper pic, i've never agree to meet a guy based purely on a cock shot but seems men arn't that fussy lol
I've had them without any pics. They will readily give out their mobile numbers too. Strange.
Quote by Marya_Northeast They will readily give out their mobile numbers too. Strange.
Yep, the number of guys who have given me their mobile numbers (without being asked for it or encouraged in any way whatsoever) is staggering! :shock: Fee XX
interesting topic. I have to admit as a man that it is hard to resist most offers. Although having a girlfriend myself i am fairly choosy and only go with anyone i do find attractive rather than just shagging for the sake of shagging. Although I have to say many people on here are very nice :P
Quote by Marya_Northeast I have had guys ask to meet me just going by the pic on my profile :shock: always makes me laugh that how some men really do want to meet with without seeing a proper pic, i've never agree to meet a guy based purely on a cock shot but seems men arn't that fussy lol
I've had them without any pics. They will readily give out their mobile numbers too. Strange. it is odd isnt it? ive had blokes asking me to meet them and sending mobile numbers about 10 seconds after entering the chatroom, they cant possibly of even seen my profile never mind any pics! seems the little pink symbol is enough of a come on :grin:
Speaking as a dogger (nipped-over for a bit of light relief) I can state that most men will shag anything female, the others are shagging anything male. Even the lamposts with holes have problems in this town.
Quote by JTS Speaking as a dogger (nipped-over for a bit of light relief) I can state that most men will shag anything female, the others are shagging anything male. Even the lamposts with holes have problems in this town.
Quote by Kiss I can't deny that there seem to be some men aren't at all fussy, but there are also some women who are the same. You can't tar everyone with the same brush. Call me old fashioned though, yes I may enjoy nsa sex but I still want to be desired for me - not because I may be willing or available.
Pleased you said 'some men'. I can not deny it is the eye that normally first draws me to a lady, but there must be something else there also. I would not dream of fucking a lady I did not like.
This is getting a bit of a "slam the single male" thread, but judging by so many of their actions particularly in chat and ad replies I can see why. However to offer the other side. A single male we met from SH was very choosy, he mainly went on personality rather than looks (although they did have to appeal) but he turned down many many offers particularly of gang bangs and groups which he was just not into. He really was not interested in a shag for a shag's sake it was about mutual pleasure and fun. When he started going to a club regularly and socialising word got around he was respectful, choosy and fun to be with - he had quite a queue before long but still turned down many offers. Single males take note. pink x
Quote by blueandpink This is getting a bit of a "slam the single male" thread, but judging by so many of their actions particularly in chat and ad replies I can see why. However to offer the other side. A single male we met from SH was very choosy, he mainly went on personality rather than looks (although they did have to appeal) but he turned down many many offers particularly of gang bangs and groups which he was just not into. He really was not interested in a shag for a shag's sake it was about mutual pleasure and fun. When he started going to a club regularly and socialising word got around he was respectful, choosy and fun to be with - he had quite a queue before long but still turned down many offers. Single males take note. pink x
This is getting a bit of a "slam the single male" thread, but judging by so many of their actions particularly in chat and ad replies I can see why. However to offer the other side. A single male we met from SH was very choosy, he mainly went on personality rather than looks (although they did have to appeal) but he turned down many many offers particularly of gang bangs and groups which he was just not into. He really was not interested in a shag for a shag's sake it was about mutual pleasure and fun. When he started going to a club regularly and socialising word got around he was respectful, choosy and fun to be with - he had quite a queue before long but still turned down many offers. Single males take note. pink x
But, but . . . . . we've never met :shock: Ah there's TWO of you out there then :wink: pink x
Two of me ????? Jeez - I don't know who should be more sacred. The masses, or me :shock: But you're right pink - there are many good and decent single blokes out there/here. And I can say that openly now that I'm not :thumbup:
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It did get to the point where I thought that 'fussy' was almost being viewed as a negative (i.e. snobby, aloof) word in Chat but we now know, having met some lovely people that isn't the case at all :P 
