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Hello everyone. I'm recently divorced and low in confidence so I looked for a way to meet people of a similar outlook on life. I could do with some advice and help as nobody seems to want to get in touch. Am I doing something wrong confused:
Hi Redal and :welcome:
You aren't doing anything 'wrong' it's just that different people look for different things. The only bit of constructive advice I can offer is to suggest that you fill in your profile text with a little info about yourself and what you are seeking etc.
I am sure there will be others along who can give you some good advice.
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Hi Redal,
You've made a start and looked for help in the forum, the people in here are generally friendly and full of advice, but Kiss is right, you need to put more info on your profile. We have found the chatrooms a great help too and it gives us the chance to check out others profiles and make contact if we like the look of it.
Well hope things get better from here for you.
Mrs Grif x
Hi Redal wave
Just relax and have fun. All good things come to those who wait wink
ditto the replies above - especially yr profile - get it filled in! no need for an essay but a little more about yrself - for ideas look at what the others have written and see wat u find interesting and then do summat siilar about yaself - but above all be 100% truthful
get yaself into the chatrooms as often as u r able and actually try chatting in them rather than being a bystander - join in - it doesnt matter wether or not yr funny or bright just so long as yr joining in the banter - ppl will notice and b4 u know it u'll feel right at home and others will feel right at home with u - then yr on a roll
most of all have fun
if ya see us 2 in a room say hello - we'd love sumone else to bore senseless
:welcome:
hi mate im in same boat as you just spend time in chat and forums, i have not had a meet yet but i know when i do it will be what i want. no need to rush into things break ups are hard mine is after 18yrs but you will get there. :cheers:
Hello,
welcome to the mad house - don't let that put you off, it's a lovely mad house lol
Like Laff&Chilli said - come into the chat rooms and say hi.
It may seem to move a bit quick at first but you soon get into the swing of it - it's like jumping onto a roundabout - scary at first but once you are on you're fine biggrin
Hello Redal, I`ve not been around here long but everybody has been very friendly, I`ve had a great time already and one person has become a very special friend.
Hope you have a great time on here.
xxx
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Thanks to you all. I've tried to update my profile a bit and will look around. Hope to keep up with you in the rooms. That's really taken me by surprise how helpful you all are. Cheers
Hello and welcome. Don't be anxious this lot don't bite.........much kiss well only if you want them to rotflmao