Just Plain Rude!

9 Feb 2006

I am amazed and disapointed to see how many people do not reply to messages. I think this is really rude & ignorant.
I always answer my messages even if just to say 'no thanks' because someone has taken the time to read the adverts, probably the profile and then sent a message! It doesn't take more than a minute to write a quick message - so why don't people bother??
I don't know if it a reflection on how society is today or whether it is just the majority of people on these sites. Either way, for those concerned.... you should be ashamed!

9 Feb 2006

Is it not possible they may have hundreds of e-mails and it might not be possible to answer every single one. rolleyes

don't always blame others....do you make the effort to send a decent message to them rather than a one liner.....do you bother reading their profile to see if you are what they are looking for.....its not always possible to reply to all PM's

9 Feb 2006

Could be worse, you could use a cock shot in your avatar :scared:

9 Feb 2006

Quote by meat2pleaseu
Could be worse, you could use a cock shot in your avatar :scared:

:lol2:
You mean similar to the one I have just removed from mag1c1an's post because it broke the AUP's dunno

9 Feb 2006

Another caught by the AUP's :eeek:

9 Feb 2006

Quote by mag1c1an
.... you should be ashamed!

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9 Feb 2006

Quote by Sgt Bilko
.... you should be ashamed!

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We should all hang our heads in shame......we are nothing but rotten swingres!! :oops:

9 Feb 2006

Quote by da69ve
.... you should be ashamed!

ops: :oops: :oops: :oops: :oops: :oops: :oops: :oops: :oops:
we are nothing but rotten swingres!! :oops:
Think that was Binxy and her egg thingy's, just open a window and waft it round a little :twisted:

9 Feb 2006

Quote by Dawn_Mids
Could be worse, you could use a cock shot in your avatar :scared:

:lol2:
You mean similar to the one I have just removed from mag1c1an's post because it broke the AUP's dunno

And similar to the email address he had tried to hide in his advert confused

9 Feb 2006

Quote by Naughty Wigan Couple
Could be worse, you could use a cock shot in your avatar :scared:

:lol2:
You mean similar to the one I have just removed from mag1c1an's post because it broke the AUP's dunno

And similar to the email address he had tried to hide in his advert confused

you enjoying your shiny new buttons already :giggle:

9 Feb 2006

Quote by meat2pleaseu
Could be worse, you could use a cock shot in your avatar :scared:

:lol2:
You mean similar to the one I have just removed from mag1c1an's post because it broke the AUP's dunno

And similar to the email address he had tried to hide in his advert confused

you enjoying your shiny new buttons already :giggle:
Enjoying them, I am terrified of them, keep thinking they are going to jump of the page and bite me. Terrified every time I post something incase I press the wrong thing and the whole place goes bang!!!!!! redface

9 Feb 2006

Guess he didn't read my earlier post either then. rolleyes

I'll give you an example of the reasons people don't respond.
Being a female I get unwanted spam mail daily.
I am part of a couple,
I have no advert
I have no information in my profile to suggest I am looking for anyone to contact me
I have 3 No spam pictures in my profile like this:
http://photos.swingingheaven.co.uk/photo-adverts/photos/small/1493025858.jpg http://photos.swingingheaven.co.uk/photo-adverts/photos/small/1493025858.jpg http://photos.swingingheaven.co.uk/photo-adverts/photos/small/1493025858.jpg
Now I think thatâ€™s pretty clear, but apparenty not.
Tuesday 13:39

Cut & paste pm from random single bloke.
OK fair enough, nothing new there so I ignore it.
Wednesday 19:49
Exact same cut & paste from exact same random bloke.
Response from me

Hi
Not sure if youâ€™re aware but thatâ€™s the exact same cut & paste you sent me yesterday :roll:

10 minutes later

Yeah sorry about that just thought i'd give it another go.
How you doing?

So I just ignore it
Today 13:30
Yep youâ€™ve guessed it.
Yet another cut & paste pm from the same person

:banghead: :banghead: :banghead:
My response
Well at least I responded :smug:

9 Feb 2006

all that and you still haven't replied to offer me a shag
(or do i have to pay my Â£50 membership to guarentee one?)

9 Feb 2006

Quote by meat2pleaseu
all that and you still haven't replied to offer me a shag
(or do i have to pay my Â£50 membership to guarentee one?)

Yep I'm sure once you've paid up in full the admin will pm me to tell me I'm now obliged to shag you lol

9 Feb 2006

Quote by HornyLittleBlonde
all that and you still haven't replied to offer me a shag
(or do i have to pay my Â£50 membership to guarentee one?)

Yep I'm sure once you've paid up in full the admin will pm me to tell me I'm now obliged to shag you lol

With over 400,000 members, i now know why you were walking funny on saturday :grin:

9 Feb 2006

I always walk like that redface

9 Feb 2006

when I recieve emails I do try to respond to them but sometimes it does take a while especially when you have a constant full inbox lke mine lol

:lol: :lol:
no only kidding about the inbox thing, but seriously I do reply and although at first its hard what to say if you are saying no thanks then put just that" no thanks"
I have found that most people do appreciate this and so do i when I recieve a no thanks then at least you can clear your inbox and know whos who
OMG dont i just ramble on
anyway what was i saying.....

9 Feb 2006

Quote by JudyTV
I am amazed and disapointed to see how many people do not reply to messages. I think this is really rude & ignorant.
I always answer my messages even if just to say 'no thanks' because someone has taken the time to read the adverts, probably the profile and then sent a message! It doesn't take more than a minute to write a quick message - so why don't people bother??
I don't know if it a reflection on how society is today or whether it is just the majority of people on these sites. Either way, for those concerned.... you should be ashamed!

I will answer the question in red above.
If you got between 5 and twenty some of them one line replies of 5 words or less with cock shots would you reply to them all?
If you got 200 replies, as some of the females do then would you rely to them all ? of course not. Just remember every time you reply to a response from your ad you give away your actual email address....yea right ....as if
If you got only two a day and one was abusive and one was very rude or crude would you reply to those as well? ... I don't think so... because if you did they would just send you more crap to your email account or spam it completely. Think about it.
Your statement of "
I don't know if it a reflection on how society is today or whether it is just the majority of people on these sites. Either way, for those concerned.... you should be ashamed! "
Your post is typical of someone who has just arrived and wants to moan because he isn't getting a instant shag. From what we have read about you up to now it sounds like you should be ashamed of yourself, not us. Glass houses and stones and all that comes to mind.
Would you like to start again or carry on with the JCB.
Jude.
I couldn't have said that better......no really i couldn't have! :thumbup:

9 Feb 2006

Quote by tina1
when I recieve emails I do try to respond to them but sometimes it does take a while especially when you have a constant full inbox lke mine :lol: :lol:
no only kidding about the inbox thing, but seriously I do reply and although at first its hard what to say if you are saying no thanks then put just that" no thanks"
I have found that most people do appreciate this and so do i when I recieve a no thanks then at least you can clear your inbox and know whos who
OMG dont i just ramble on
anyway what was i saying.....

OMG

hwoar: :phwoar:
We just checked out your profile ..................... oh to be 20 years younger (and 164 miles further north rolleyes

:twisted:
anyone seen me chipmunk?

9 Feb 2006

I know I've never posted on here before, but I've been around other forums for quite a few years so I've had some exsperiance. I always initialy reply to PM' s even if it's a bit of a lame message as it is courteous but I do understand the frustration of receiving repetitive short "fancy a fuck" style messages. Having said that I PMed a well known couple on this site, asking for help and advice on clubs and locations in their area, for me and my partner and I still haven't received a reply after nearly a week. I guess that mine just got lost in the post.
I'll go and introduce my self in a "Hello" post now...................