Hello,
I am so new I don't even have a picture yet. I really hope to get to know you all. Already know a few breasts hopefully I will meet the person behind them too.
I need all the help I can get. I want to know how best to introduce the other half to this. I guess it is best to go along and stay with your partner first and then maybe later join in (if you want us!). My wife loves giving me BJs in pubs etc, risk of being caught.
Any useful tips gratefully received, PM me please.
I live in the Bedford area and would love to meet (I believe you call it munching!) some of you for some drinks.
Take care all
Luv
NewSwing69
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Hi Newswing69 
Keep things open and honest between you. Talk about swinging, set your boundaries, then talk some more.
Introduce her to SH, that way she can have a look round the site, you can both meet everyone at one of the munches (purely social events, usually in a pub or somewhere) eventually you can both decide what aspects of swinging you like, dislike etc.
I keep saying this to people, but it's so true, just enjoy now, the excitement and the fantasy - take your time, making the most of everything. Never do anything that either of you are unsure of or are even a little bit uncomfortable with.
Have fun, oh and welcome
Keep things open and honest between you. Talk about swinging, set your boundaries, then talk some more.
Introduce her to SH, that way she can have a look round the site, you can both meet everyone at one of the munches (purely social events, usually in a pub or somewhere) eventually you can both decide what aspects of swinging you like, dislike etc.
I keep saying this to people, but it's so true, just enjoy now, the excitement and the fantasy - take your time, making the most of everything. Never do anything that either of you are unsure of or are even a little bit uncomfortable with.
Have fun, oh and welcome
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Hello,
I am so new I don't even have a picture yet. I really hope to get to know you all. Already know a few breasts hopefully I will meet the person behind them too.
I need all the help I can get. I want to know how best to introduce the other half to this. I guess it is best to go along and stay with your partner first and then maybe later join in (if you want us!). My wife loves giving me BJs in pubs etc, risk of being caught.
Any useful tips gratefully received, PM me please.
I live in the Bedford area and would love to meet (I believe you call it munching!) some of you for some drinks.
Take care all
Luv
NewSwing69
Hi to you both, and welcome.
I hope you find fulfilment of your dreams, and enjoy the friendship of those you find on this site.
However, I can't help noticing that you keep refering to yourself, and that you are asking for ideas on how to introduce your wife/girlfriend?
The most important and critical first step is to talk the whole thing/idea through with your partner, and only when you are both certain that you would like to try this lifestyle, should you consider taking the next step.
As JudyTV has said, the best way of gently introducing yourselves to Swinging Heaven members is through the forums. There are three sections to choice from, but as newbies personally I would suggest this section (the Cafe) for a while, while you both get used to the idea of openness, frankness, honesty, and down-right sillyness.
I would also suggest you both save and read carefully some of the relevant threads that have been placed on here dealing with couples who are interested in swinging, or 'dipping their toes in the water' as it is often thought of.
There is an extreemly good piece in the advice link on the left of the home page also.
I appreciate that suggesting so much reading matter might seem quite boring, when all you want to do is get to bed with other people, but if you two, and the others concerned are to enjoy this lifestyle, the least you can do is understand the few ground rules that are expected from you.
But first of all, Please discuss the whole thing first with your partner, because if you try to set her up, it will 99.9% of the time end in tragedy.
Remember, you are not only asking to enter into other peoples relationships, you are bringing other people into yours, so make sure you both agree, and know what to expect.
Hope I don't sound like the voice of doom, but all aspects of your life together have to be looked at before you decide to go further.
If you do want to take the next step, there's plenty of free advice on here, to guide you in the right direction, so just ask, or even send me a PM (at the bottom of the page), and we can speak confidentially, I don't mind.
All the best, and make your choice wisely.
Keith3006
Sex God
ooooo newswing . . .
more play areas . . . . :swingingchair:
:welcome: to the best bit of the site. whether by accident or design, the cafe's where people learn about swinging, and more importantly, swingers. chill for a bit. no rush. we'll all be here tomorrow, and the day after that, and the week after that etc it can be quite addictive, and i'm still a newbie after <<<<<<<<<<<<< all that time!!!! but don't tell anyone i warned you. that's the point! ;-)
neil x x x ;-)
more play areas . . . . :swingingchair:
:welcome: to the best bit of the site. whether by accident or design, the cafe's where people learn about swinging, and more importantly, swingers. chill for a bit. no rush. we'll all be here tomorrow, and the day after that, and the week after that etc it can be quite addictive, and i'm still a newbie after <<<<<<<<<<<<< all that time!!!! but don't tell anyone i warned you. that's the point! ;-)
neil x x x ;-)
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ooooo newswing . . .
more play areas . . . . :swingingchair:
:welcome: to the best bit of the site. whether by accident or design, the cafe's where people learn about swinging, and more importantly, swingers. chill for a bit. no rush. we'll all be here tomorrow, and the day after that, and the week after that etc it can be quite addictive, and i'm still a newbie after <<<<<<<<<<<<< all that time!!!! but don't tell anyone i warned you. that's the point! ;-)
neil x x x ;-)
Ask about club membership, Neil? Go on ask? There might be one, or even two. Go on, ask them
: :twisted: Sex God
newswing . . .
keith wants to know FFS ((( that's For Fucks Sake just in case ))) whether you might belong in Chipolatas United, or Box of Frogs, and whether Mrs Newswing might belong to Not So Busty Babes or Well Busty Babes. i am a member of all three ((( clearly unable to gain entry to Well Busty Babes
that's not what i meant! ))) some doing rather better than others., and seem to be doing all the donkey work ((( well not donkeys obviously . . . Chipolatas and that! )))
ok now Keith!
<<< tuts >>>
neil ;-)
keith wants to know FFS ((( that's For Fucks Sake just in case ))) whether you might belong in Chipolatas United, or Box of Frogs, and whether Mrs Newswing might belong to Not So Busty Babes or Well Busty Babes. i am a member of all three ((( clearly unable to gain entry to Well Busty Babes
that's not what i meant! ))) some doing rather better than others., and seem to be doing all the donkey work ((( well not donkeys obviously . . . Chipolatas and that! )))ok now Keith!
<<< tuts >>>
neil ;-)
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newswing . . .
keith wants to know FFS ((( that's For Fucks Sake just in case ))) whether you might belong in Chipolatas United, or Box of Frogs, and whether Mrs Newswing might belong to Not So Busty Babes or Well Busty Babes. i am a member of all three ((( clearly unable to gain entry to Well Busty Babes
ok now Keith!
<<< tuts >>>
neil ;-)
Hi Newswing,
What my friend is asking in his usual mouthful of marbles way, is:
would you two like to be tested for membership of the Not So Busty Babes Club
: The criterior is simple. You must have a bust, either or both of you, no larger than a D cup. The rest of the joining proceedure will be explained if you feel you qualify, and would like to join our not completly exclusive membership.
Keith
Official Feeler-Upper (but don't let that worry you)
PS. We now how Royal patronage, so how tempting is that :?:
Errm,
I will hopefully be putting some pictures up soon.
I am slim, OK skinny ! My knob is about 6", depends how excited I get ! Looks a bit likes Steve_Lincs (sorry Steve for using you) - by the way, love C&S's website.
My wife is about a 34B, she keeps changing as she is on and off diets like no tomorrow. She is also classed as slim.
I was thinking of taking her to the Sex-Croft hotel. Does anyone know if you can have (for example) oral sex in the bar or do you have to go to the play room ?
Is there a hotel like this one nearer me ? I live in Bedfordshire (St Neots/Sandy area)
Let me know what else I need to do to join these clubs. Do we get a badge to wear. When can I start meeting you all. You all seem to know each other very well.
Great forum, keep it going.
Cheers all,
Newswing69
I will hopefully be putting some pictures up soon.
I am slim, OK skinny ! My knob is about 6", depends how excited I get ! Looks a bit likes Steve_Lincs (sorry Steve for using you) - by the way, love C&S's website.
My wife is about a 34B, she keeps changing as she is on and off diets like no tomorrow. She is also classed as slim.
I was thinking of taking her to the Sex-Croft hotel. Does anyone know if you can have (for example) oral sex in the bar or do you have to go to the play room ?
Is there a hotel like this one nearer me ? I live in Bedfordshire (St Neots/Sandy area)
Let me know what else I need to do to join these clubs. Do we get a badge to wear. When can I start meeting you all. You all seem to know each other very well.
Great forum, keep it going.
Cheers all,
Newswing69
