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Just saying Hi
Thanks to all for the welcome :-) Sorry I left so soon but like I said, I had to go and pick the wife up and it wouldn't have been a good idea to come back on when I got back as I'm on here trying to find someone to have some fun and games with, without her knowledge ;-) Aren't I naughty he he he he I'm sure it'll take a while for me to find my feet here so I ask everyone to be gentle with me (did I really say that?) Posts might be at odd times of the day too with me working shifts and keeping this away from the missus. So if anyone contacts me or whatever.... then please be patient. I promise I will reply. Thanks again for the welcome, hope to see you all around xxxx
Quote by soupdragon69
The reception you get from this forum might not be quite what you expect.
*takes cover*
Don't know what you mean Mike. Or were you just making a funny? I've just finished a night shift so I'm not quite with it at the mo
I think what Mike meant was that not everyone (including me) on SH thinks its a good thing for someone to be playing behind their partners back.
Each to their own of course, but given that the majority of single males find it difficult to find partners on here you may find it even more difficult. Although you have been 'honest' about what you intend doing unlike some that pretend to be single and are quite clearly not.
But hello anyway.
hi.. another newbie here and this is my first post but i was drawn to post as im quite heartened by what alleyson has said..
I thought swinging was supposed to be a mutually consensual (look at me with the long words!
) activity.. or am i wrong?
i know there's single people here too but thought that those part of a couple would at least be aware of the others activity.. even if they were not always doing it together.
or should i just lighten up???
I thought swinging was supposed to be a mutually consensual (look at me with the long words!
) activity.. or am i wrong?i know there's single people here too but thought that those part of a couple would at least be aware of the others activity.. even if they were not always doing it together.
or should i just lighten up???
Quote by fluffer
hi.. another newbie here and this is my first post but i was drawn to post as im quite heartened by what alleyson has said..
I thought swinging was supposed to be a mutually consensual (look at me with the long words!
i know there's single people here too but thought that those part of a couple would at least be aware of the others activity.. even if they were not always doing it together.
or should i just lighten up???
Hi Fluffer and welcome to SH
I think you've got the idea just right btw and no need to lighten up at all, enjoy your stay.
Quote by Alleyson
The reception you get from this forum might not be quite what you expect.
*takes cover*
Don't know what you mean Mike. Or were you just making a funny? I've just finished a night shift so I'm not quite with it at the mo
I think what Mike meant was that not everyone (including me) on SH thinks its a good thing for someone to be playing behind their partners back.
Each to their own of course, but given that the majority of single males find it difficult to find partners on here you may find it even more difficult. Although you have been 'honest' about what you intend doing unlike some that pretend to be single and are quite clearly not.
But hello anyway.
Ah now I understand. I can't see the point of being dishonest though but I take your point and realise that it will put some people off. I'd much rather be honest with people on here though :-) Thanks for clearing that up for me though.......Ah well, into the firing line ;-)
Quote by soupdragon69
The reception you get from this forum might not be quite what you expect.
*takes cover*
Don't know what you mean Mike. Or were you just making a funny? I've just finished a night shift so I'm not quite with it at the mo
I think what Mike meant was that not everyone (including me) on SH thinks its a good thing for someone to be playing behind their partners back.
Each to their own of course, but given that the majority of single males find it difficult to find partners on here you may find it even more difficult. Although you have been 'honest' about what you intend doing unlike some that pretend to be single and are quite clearly not.
But hello anyway.
Ah now I understand. I can't see the point of being dishonest though but I take your point and realise that it will put some people off. I'd much rather be honest with people on here though :-) Thanks for clearing that up for me though.......Ah well, into the firing line ;-)
Errrrrrrrr......... so you don't think that playing without your wife's knowledge is being dishonest?
Obviously I don't know you and your circumstances at all but it shouldn't make any difference, if you're still living together as man and wife then it's cheating in my book.
Quote by Alleyson
The reception you get from this forum might not be quite what you expect.
*takes cover*
Don't know what you mean Mike. Or were you just making a funny? I've just finished a night shift so I'm not quite with it at the mo
I think what Mike meant was that not everyone (including me) on SH thinks its a good thing for someone to be playing behind their partners back.
Each to their own of course, but given that the majority of single males find it difficult to find partners on here you may find it even more difficult. Although you have been 'honest' about what you intend doing unlike some that pretend to be single and are quite clearly not.
But hello anyway.
Ah now I understand. I can't see the point of being dishonest though but I take your point and realise that it will put some people off. I'd much rather be honest with people on here though :-) Thanks for clearing that up for me though.......Ah well, into the firing line ;-)
Errrrrrrrr......... so you don't think that playing without your wife's knowledge is being dishonest?
Obviously I don't know you and your circumstances at all but it shouldn't make any difference, if you're still living together as man and wife then it's cheating in my book.
Yes I agree but it's a decision that I have to live with if I ever do get to meet up with anyone. As you say my "honesty" might well put quite a few people off :-( Apart from the obvious "cheating" bit I am a very honest person.
what nice guys you all seem.. i think i will enjoy posting on here for a while getting to know people til i / if i feel like taking the next step. i think its really interesting and quite supportive of you guys to do things like mentoring and munches etc to help people feel at ease and enjoy the soicial side of things.
Hey and SoupDragon.. i appreciate your honesty about being dishonest, and yes i accept you will just have to live with it.. but its such a shame you maybe couldnt take some really slow and gentle steps to introduce your wife to the idea. You never know what it may do for you.
but as a female... i couldn't be with a married guy if his wife had no knowledge as i would feel like i was betraying the wife somehow.. it would make me feel involved in the whole cheating thing.. maybe a bit of food for thought for you.. hopefully talking about it here with other people may help.
Hey and SoupDragon.. i appreciate your honesty about being dishonest, and yes i accept you will just have to live with it.. but its such a shame you maybe couldnt take some really slow and gentle steps to introduce your wife to the idea. You never know what it may do for you.
but as a female... i couldn't be with a married guy if his wife had no knowledge as i would feel like i was betraying the wife somehow.. it would make me feel involved in the whole cheating thing.. maybe a bit of food for thought for you.. hopefully talking about it here with other people may help.
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Quote by fluffer
what nice guys you all seem.. i think i will enjoy posting on here for a while getting to know people til i / if i feel like taking the next step. i think its really interesting and quite supportive of you guys to do things like mentoring and munches etc to help people feel at ease and enjoy the soicial side of things.
Hey and SoupDragon.. i appreciate your honesty about being dishonest, and yes i accept you will just have to live with it.. but its such a shame you maybe couldnt take some really slow and gentle steps to introduce your wife to the idea. You never know what it may do for you.
but as a female... i couldn't be with a married guy if his wife had no knowledge as i would feel like i was betraying the wife somehow.. it would make me feel involved in the whole cheating thing.. maybe a bit of food for thought for you.. hopefully talking about it here with other people may help.
If I could get her into it I honestly don't think that I would feel the need to be on here in the first place :cry: I did mention it ages ago and she just called me a pervert
I might be a bit of one and I'm sure if people were honest with themselves there's a bit in everyone I could try again I suppose. Nothing ventured and all that 
Thanks for the welcome anyway even if I am to be treated like the plague by people with morals. I must say though that there are quite a few women advertising on the main site for men and not caring if they are married or not. You pays your money and you takes your chance
Just finished another night shift so I'm off to bed now. Bye to all xxxx 