a couple of years ago we decided to use a cleaner. It's simply that we're both out at work and hate clogging up the weekends. It's just two hours twice a week and it's bliss (and all the ironing is done too!). We therefore have more time to ourselves to do the things we enjoy most.
Now I'd love to use a gardener. Just to cut the grass, do a bit of weeding and odds and sods. Neither of these are expensive. Labour saving devices in the coldest sense.
Years ago we'd have a day washing clothes (according to my nan, it'd take all day too) and now we have auto's. A hoover (dyson, panasonic or whatever) was once considered a luxury. We have 'ping' meals instead of cooking for hours all to save the odd hour or two. We use a garage for sorting out our car instead of doing it ourselves, and who cleans their own windows these days?
My point is that a cleaner isn't a luxury, and I'm not sure if a gardner is too. So what labour saving devices do others have, and what would they want?
When we were both earning, I had a cleaner, once a week.
She had a key, and every Sunday afternoon we left the house in a week's worth of "lived-in-ness" and came back to a spotless, lovely smelling, immaculate house.
It was the best tenner a week I ever spent. And if I start earning proper money again, I wouldn't hesitate to get another cleaning lady.
Ex and me were in Currys checking out replacement fridges. I dragged him over to the dishwashers.
"We don't need a dishwasher" says him.
"WE don't" says me "But I DO!". Nuff said. Full time work is one thing, full time work PLUS every scrap of housework that needs doing - meaning I'm washing up at at night is BAD.
I got custody of the dishwasher, he got the bread-maker - damn him.
I can't afford to run the microwave, but I use the dishwasher - full and shortest run - but I do use it.
Personally I would LOVE a cleaner - just do run the hoover through and wash down the wet areas. It would be heaven - but I really can't justify the cost. I am the gardener and Vills is a demon with a digging fork.
I certainly don't begrudge anyone having a cleaner - it employs and pays someone after all - and it's always good to keep money moving in the economy.