hey readers, i have posted this because of there is a lack of active users in cheshire,
i have been a member off this site for 2 weeks now and have shown intrest into many people but they either dont come online or simple cannot be bothered to reply back,
Whats going on????? i have spoken to many people who live many miles away who have no problem.
or is it me ?
what does a single woman (or woman in a couple ) look for when choosing who she wants next ?????
im sure ul get some replys soon and i hope to hear form you all
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Orgasminator
ooooo a whole 2 weeks and decide that there are no couples or single fems to play with. try using a local room and give it time and patience
Orgasminator
A couple of thoughts from me..... your age may possibly be against you. We're only 30 and wouldn't consider playing with anyone under a couple of years younger and I know we would be considered too young by many on here.
Add into the mix that you're a single male (i.e small fish in a very big, very full pond lol) and the odds are already stacking against you.
You can't accommodate, only meet in a hotel - theres a recession on at the moment and a lot of us are feeling the pinch. I know for us, a hotel would be a luxury we can't afford right now - even going halves.
I'm not saying it won't happen, but for most who don't have the odds against them, it can take months and you've only given it 2 weeks - at least one of those weeks were over Christmas as well, where most folks minds were on family time, not swinging.
Swinging is not a quick fix, it's a lifestyle, not a dating site.
Sorry if that's not what you wanted to hear, but you really need to give it a bit longer and.
*Her*
Add into the mix that you're a single male (i.e small fish in a very big, very full pond lol) and the odds are already stacking against you.
You can't accommodate, only meet in a hotel - theres a recession on at the moment and a lot of us are feeling the pinch. I know for us, a hotel would be a luxury we can't afford right now - even going halves.
I'm not saying it won't happen, but for most who don't have the odds against them, it can take months and you've only given it 2 weeks - at least one of those weeks were over Christmas as well, where most folks minds were on family time, not swinging.
Swinging is not a quick fix, it's a lifestyle, not a dating site.
Sorry if that's not what you wanted to hear, but you really need to give it a bit longer and.
*Her*
Quote by sprucy
hey readers, i have posted this because of there is a lack of active users in cheshire
Oh no, there isn't
I even come all the way from Newcastle as they are that good!Shag blokes too and you'll be fine ('shag' = broad scouse term for any sexual contact and doesn't necessarily mean bum fun), some of my best shags have been from Cheshire. My last one being in Northwich, but not you, I don't think anyway, it was dark in the layby :thumbup: There's been that many in Cheshire in fact that I sometimes have to get a sexy girl from Cheshire (almost) to help me cope.
Do you like 'older' women? If so,I may be able to point you in the right direction... :rascal:
BIoke x
PS: Lose the shades in the pic mate, you look like Victoria Beckham and that ain't good :)
Sex God
21 and can't accomodate - the first think I think is "he lives with his parents". That thought alone is enough for me to move on to the next profile.
Not that I'm in Cheshire so the point is moot.
:D:D:D:D:D
Not that I'm in Cheshire so the point is moot.
:D:D:D:D:D thanks for the replys every one,
i am currenly finishing university in 4 months time and yes living with the rents is how it stands,
young i may be but trying to get my head around this swinging business,
i know it is a "quick fix" but how would u go about all of it, any one fancy showing me the lines ???
also how do most swinging night happen , turn up and thats it or is it drinks and chatting then let it go form there.
i find the chatting good as its all good going for a quickie but theres no getting to know who you are swinging with.
thanks again
Sprucy
i am currenly finishing university in 4 months time and yes living with the rents is how it stands,
young i may be but trying to get my head around this swinging business,
i know it is a "quick fix" but how would u go about all of it, any one fancy showing me the lines ???
also how do most swinging night happen , turn up and thats it or is it drinks and chatting then let it go form there.
i find the chatting good as its all good going for a quickie but theres no getting to know who you are swinging with.
thanks again
Sprucy
Orgasminator
for getting your head around this swinging i would suggest that you first visit the advice pages located <<<<<<< over there.
there is no 'quick fix' if thats what you want then perhaps the local wetherspoons or similar may be a better bet for you.
different parties have different 'rules' each 1 that is advertised on here generally the host mails out the general rules along with the address and contact details or they may be in the post.
the chat rooms are good for getting to know who you are swinging with as well as for a quick fix as you put it, swinging is different for different people.
find out what it is you want to get from swinging and persevere, i believe there is no quick fix solutions, it all takes some effort (some need to make more effort than others)
there is no 'quick fix' if thats what you want then perhaps the local wetherspoons or similar may be a better bet for you.
different parties have different 'rules' each 1 that is advertised on here generally the host mails out the general rules along with the address and contact details or they may be in the post.
the chat rooms are good for getting to know who you are swinging with as well as for a quick fix as you put it, swinging is different for different people.
find out what it is you want to get from swinging and persevere, i believe there is no quick fix solutions, it all takes some effort (some need to make more effort than others)
Sex God
Swinging in Cheshire! Loads of it g'vnor they dont stop shagging them lot cor blimey. Lumme you'd be hard put to find a more numerous mass of swingier swinging swingers anywhere else than in Cheshire.
(Where the hell is Cheshire is it near Luton?)
(Where the hell is Cheshire is it near Luton?)
