O.K, after having had a debate on the subject I'd like to throw it open to you guys.
Obviously there is a demand for female escorts- but is there really a demand for straight male escorts?
The likelyhood is that being members of SH means we're not likely to need to, but in the scenario where you were "gagging" for your legover, and had no time to go out and pull, would you consider paying?
Would you ever pay to be accompanied to a function? Is the idea of paying for sex a turn on or a turn off?
Just curious to get some wide ranging opinions on this one, rest assured I have no intention of turning into a male escort! :giggle:
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Ladies- would you pay?
Good question... well I know I perhaps I wouldn't need to pay but I will be honest and admit that there is something exciting about the prospect! 
I like the idea of having a handsome hunky man turn up at my door and knowing that he is there to please me - nothing more nothing less. None of that girly "Did he enjoy it?" or other insecurities ruining the 'whole' experience!
In Edit: If I was ever in the position where I HAD to pay for sex to get it I wouldn't enjoy that at all!
I like the idea of having a handsome hunky man turn up at my door and knowing that he is there to please me - nothing more nothing less. None of that girly "Did he enjoy it?" or other insecurities ruining the 'whole' experience!
In Edit: If I was ever in the position where I HAD to pay for sex to get it I wouldn't enjoy that at all!
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Good question... well I know I perhaps I wouldn't need to pay but I will be honest and admit that there is something exciting about the prospect!
I like the idea of having a handsome hunky man turn up at my door and knowing that he is there to please me - nothing more nothing less. None of that girly "Did he enjoy it?" or other insecurities ruining the 'whole' experience!
In Edit: If I was ever in the position where I HAD to pay for sex to get it I wouldn't enjoy that at all!
ok I`m not hunky and not particularily handsome but if your willing to pay,I`ll do just about anything..........so time and place and ..........am yer man 
Sex God
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I like the idea of having a handsome hunky man turn up at my door and knowing that he is there to please me
Quote by meat2"]does exactly what i says on the tin:giggle:
I have a friend who has been a straight male escort now for the last 5 years or so. He is a busy chap, 40 years old and considered attractive by most fems we know. He is always in demand..
He mosty does escort duties by taking a wife to the theatre or to the races or just a meal, no sex is involved usually, though at times its on the menu he says... but not the norm! He is well paid and has fun.
Mike x
He mosty does escort duties by taking a wife to the theatre or to the races or just a meal, no sex is involved usually, though at times its on the menu he says... but not the norm! He is well paid and has fun.
Mike x
To put a bit of a twist on the subject, I had a girlfriend a few years ago who was turned on by the idea of watching ME have fun with an escort. We never actually got round to it as her life got very complicated and we split up, but we there was an active plan to do the deed ... and she said she'd pay too (as a birthday treat)! Pity.
In the past I've paid a couple of times and there was a certain thrill involved, but nowadays I don't think that's enough of a draw as it is a bit impersonal, and sex is about the mind as well as the body, and that, for me, means I prefer a mental connection with whoever I'm having sex with, which extends beyond the act itself.
I mentioned this to a friend of mine recently and she said she'd paid a few times when she'd been on business trips abroad. For her it is all about lust and whether she pays or not is dictated by the circumstances of the day and if anyone else is available. Her view is that if you're open-minded and can see sex as a commercial commodity, then it's just as valid as buying Wagon Wheels in Tesco. And I suppose if you're on a good salary, why not!
In the past I've paid a couple of times and there was a certain thrill involved, but nowadays I don't think that's enough of a draw as it is a bit impersonal, and sex is about the mind as well as the body, and that, for me, means I prefer a mental connection with whoever I'm having sex with, which extends beyond the act itself.
I mentioned this to a friend of mine recently and she said she'd paid a few times when she'd been on business trips abroad. For her it is all about lust and whether she pays or not is dictated by the circumstances of the day and if anyone else is available. Her view is that if you're open-minded and can see sex as a commercial commodity, then it's just as valid as buying Wagon Wheels in Tesco. And I suppose if you're on a good salary, why not!
Sex God
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I like the idea of having a handsome hunky man turn up at my door and knowing that he is there to please me
Quote by meat2"]does exactly what i says on the tin
Good point although you seem to have missed this bit......
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I like the idea of having a handsome hunky man turn up at my door and knowing that he is there to please me
Quote by meat2"]does exactly what i says on the tin :whistling: :giggle: :bolt:
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Why pay for sex when you can get if for free? However, if I had a function to go to and did not wish to go alone and all my buddies were tied up, I might consider paying for a well presented, well spoken man to escort me, but I wouldn't get the buzz I would get from having everyone admire one of my friends because it would not be real. Am I making any sense here? Still dazed by the overnight flight and the lack of sleep...
Warming the Bed
We have been toying with the idea of a bi female escort for Jenna's birthday. Rocko gets to watch, but not join in. We are weighing up the pros and cons of this, and have been in contact with a couple of potential girls, who all seem very keen on the idea of being the first to help Jenna explore-to the extent that at least 2 of them have offered discounted rates! Has anybody else got experience of girls escorting couples? Were there any problems or regrets?
Jenna & Rocko
Jenna & Rocko
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Why pay for sex when you can get if for free? However, if I had a function to go to and did not wish to go alone and all my buddies were tied up, I might consider paying for a well presented, well spoken man to escort me, but I wouldn't get the buzz I would get from having everyone admire one of my friends because it would not be real. Am I making any sense here? Still dazed by the overnight flight and the lack of sleep...
I guess by paying for an escort, you at least know( or should ) that he/she will be clean, respectful and you can determine the outcome of the evening. By picking someone up at a bar or club, you could leave yourself open to abuse, disease or at the very least a disappointing evening. I'm not sure if you get my meaning, I've just woken up
Good point raised by H there. Why can't a female escort be seen in the same light as a male one? It brings us back to the old ' guys are studs, girls are slappers' arguement I guess
Sex God
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I like the idea of having a handsome hunky man turn up at my door and knowing that he is there to please me
Quote by meat2"]does exactly what i says on the tin
Good point although you seem to have missed this bit......
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I like the idea of having a handsome hunky man turn up at my door and knowing that he is there to please me
Quote by meat2"]does exactly what i says on the tin :whistling: :giggle: :bolt:
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Git!
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As a slight aside here - it's interesting the gender difference in perception between a male escort and a female escort. A male escort is considered cool, almost revered, but a female escort - call girl, is thought of generally in quite a derogatory manner.
H.x
Not from me hun.......a female escort in this house is seen as a savvy woman who sells the only commodity that she can re-sell over and over again! :thumbup:
I know that in general guys have no problem with seeing working girls- but after having a chat about it I realised that I probarbly wouldn't pay for it, as H and Baby brenda said the turn on for me is knowing my partner is turned on by me.
Jenna-Rokko: I know people who have, but it's essential to make sure the chemistry is right. I find with girl-girl if you don't fancy each other, theres no point at all. Whereas if you do :twisted:
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Not from me hun.......a female escort in this house is seen as a savvy woman who sells the only commodity that she can re-sell over and over again! :thumbup:
Wasn't directed at you hun, merely an observasion - the names themselves cunjure up completely different images.
Gigalo
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H.x
I know, thanks- just wanted to make sure my views were really clear on the matter as Its something I feel strongly about 
Mind you.......half an hour ago I wasnt complaining at being calld a whore by rpm as he shagged me in the woods. I have the pics too (thanks to Mr W!!)
Unfortunately....someone needs to use the computer- so I'll come back to you all on that one!
Mind you.......half an hour ago I wasnt complaining at being calld a whore by rpm as he shagged me in the woods. I have the pics too (thanks to Mr W!!)
Unfortunately....someone needs to use the computer- so I'll come back to you all on that one!
If I had that kind of money to spare (I don't want one of the bargain basement ones for £50) - yes, I would pay a male escort. I wouldn't do it because I was gagging - I would do it because I wanted a bloody good night with someone who not only knew what they were doing, but aslo... looked exactly how I wanted, did exaclty what I wanted, when I wanted and for as long as I wanted.
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looked exactly how I wanted, did exaclty what I wanted, when I wanted and for as long as I wanted.
Call me a naive country bumpkin
but I'd have thought that the person in most control would have been the escort as they do it for a living and there for would have their own boundarys as to what they would or wouldn't do. I mean if it was me and I some 23 stone women wanted to stick a pineaplle up me arse it just aint going to happen weather she pays me 50 quid or 1000 quid its as simple as that. Now I'd have thought given the nature of the situation the escort would always have to be the one in control of things not the person who is paying for an hour or 2 of company. It's the same as every job I guess, I get people asking me to clock cars for them and quite frankly offer me good money to so but it just aint my thing and never will be. I know its differant circumstances but at the end of the day to them its just a job. As far as I can see its the same with any trade its the person providing the service that decides what standard of service the customer recieves 
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If I had that kind of money to spare (I don't want one of the bargain basement ones for £50) - yes, I would pay a male escort. I wouldn't do it because I was gagging - I would do it because I wanted a bloody good night with someone who not only knew what they were doing, but aslo... looked exactly how I wanted, did exaclty what I wanted, when I wanted and for as long as I wanted.
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Ok maybe that's what I wanted to say but I don't have the brains to say it!
Yet another 'adside'... I would pay a man for the reasons I stated at the start of the post (although I never have - yet!) and I would feel happier doing this than paying a woman.
My weird reasoning is with a man he can't really fake an erection so the pleasure does feel at least a little bit mutual, even if it is 70/30 in my favour.
But if I was to pay a female escort I would worry that she was really hating it and was acting - that would feel like some sort of abuse! :? Yes there are women who are perfectly happy doing their job and see it as just that, but of course there are girls/women who hate it or are even forced to become escorts.
Re you point H-x about some people viewing female escorts as whores etc, sadly that is true and I don't agree with it. My opinion is that it's a persons choice what they do with their body - who am I to judge?
Right i have to say yes i would pay, but not as i am now lol
BUT
if i was a well off buisness woman who worked away a lot and stayed in hoitels i can well see the attraction of picking a guy you fancy, calling him up after a long hard day at work, having him come out and pamper you without you having to care about his needs (your knackered remember lol) then after paying him and sending him on his way leaving the whole bed to yourself
Of course i wouldn't want sex like that all the time but i can see the attraction and yes i think i would do it
BUT
if i was a well off buisness woman who worked away a lot and stayed in hoitels i can well see the attraction of picking a guy you fancy, calling him up after a long hard day at work, having him come out and pamper you without you having to care about his needs (your knackered remember lol) then after paying him and sending him on his way leaving the whole bed to yourself
Of course i wouldn't want sex like that all the time but i can see the attraction and yes i think i would do it
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My weird reasoning is with a man he can't really fake an erection . . . . . . . .
I haven't really time to explain this at the moment, but "faking" comes up now and then, and my point refers to this, and possibly the fantasy /loss of control thread.
"Men can't really fake a hard on"
Neither can women - imho.
There are many physical changes in women, similar to those in men, when genuinely aroused.
Erect nipples, the change in the hairy hola - shape, size, colour.
The female equivalent of a hard on - the moisture, the full of blood (??) soft, puffy lips - both sets.
Etc etc etc
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My weird reasoning is with a man he can't really fake an erection . . . . . . . .
I haven't really time to explain this at the moment, but "faking" comes up now and then, and my point refers to this, and possibly the fantasy /loss of control thread.
"Men can't really fake a hard on"
Neither can women - imho.
There are many physical changes in women, similar to those in men, when genuinely aroused.
Erect nipples, the change in the hairy hola - shape, size, colour.
The female equivalent of a hard on - the moisture, the full of blood (??) soft, puffy lips - both sets.
Etc etc etc
but the diffarence is if a female escort isn't really turned on and her nipples don't get hard does it really matter? she can still have sex and after all the mans playing for his pleasure not her but if a guys not turned on and don't get a errection yes it does matter, all tho there are such things as viagra to help with such problems, altho saying that some guys can just switch off to what a woman looks like and wether he fancies her or not and just treat it as a job
Sex God
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some guys can just switch off to what a woman looks like and wether he fancies her or not
thats what happens when you live in the midlands, home of the minging huffermoose
(i'll get my suitcase)
but the diffarence is if a female escort isn't really turned on and her nipples don't get hard does it really matter? she can still have sex and after all the mans playing for his pleasure not her but if a guys not turned on and don't get a errection yes it does matter, all tho there are such things as viagra to help with such problems, altho saying that some guys can just switch off to what a woman looks like and wether he fancies her or not and just treat it as a job
I agree, most men wouldn't even notice the same things Dambuster would.
Also, it could be chilly & her panties may have been too tight & made of nylon.
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My weird reasoning is with a man he can't really fake an erection . . . . . . . .
I haven't really time to explain this at the moment, but "faking" comes up now and then, and my point refers to this, and possibly the fantasy /loss of control thread.
"Men can't really fake a hard on"
Neither can women - imho.
There are many physical changes in women, similar to those in men, when genuinely aroused.
Erect nipples, the change in the hairy hola - shape, size, colour.
The female equivalent of a hard on - the moisture, the full of blood (??) soft, puffy lips - both sets.
Etc etc etc
DB! I know all that ffs, after all I am a PTH!
Anyway I was talking on a more base level, where maybe it's rushed or your not exactly exploring the woman - simply having her pleasure you.... and you may only be seeing her eyes and the top of her head!
:giggle:
Sex God
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what the fucks a huffermoose :shock:
coming from tipton, it should be a familar sight as they stampede across the plains in search of fags and giros
