I have been in a moresome and felt a man handle my balls. Yes I felt something, more than the hand, but I still do not know what it was.
Am I bi, not very. Do I want more? I am not looking for it. If I was there again, would I run from the room if he touched me again? No!
Travis
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Levels of blokes being bi..
I thought I was 100% straight till I met with another couple last week. Then, it was all just wild between all of us, on a purely sexual level!
However, when the stunning lady was not in the room me and the guy were talking just like a couple of mates, and I have to say that whilst I was going for it when we were all together, I had no desire to do anything with the guy when we were on our own.
I thought it was all great, the three of us had a great time and would jump to do it again in an instance but have no desire to meet with any guy on his own.
I have no idea whether this means I am straight, bi or what.
Should I change my profile? No idea....
Fun - you are just horny girl ha-ha!!
However, when the stunning lady was not in the room me and the guy were talking just like a couple of mates, and I have to say that whilst I was going for it when we were all together, I had no desire to do anything with the guy when we were on our own.
I thought it was all great, the three of us had a great time and would jump to do it again in an instance but have no desire to meet with any guy on his own.
I have no idea whether this means I am straight, bi or what.
Should I change my profile? No idea....
Fun - you are just horny girl ha-ha!!
Quote by brucie
I have been in a moresome and felt a man handle my balls. Yes I felt something, more than the hand, but I still do not know what it was.
Am I bi, not very. Do I want more? I am not looking for it. If I was there again, would I run from the room if he touched me again? No!
Travis
homo!
Oh come on now brucie - spit it out and tell us how many cocks you've sucked!
Forum Virgin
Felt compelled to add my view to all this.
BIoke has always said the forums are the way ahead.
Bi guys…..
Well for me its about comfort.. If I’m not comfortable then I don’t feel sexy (wrong word but you get the idea) If on the rare occasion I meet a guy 1 on 1 then I got to feel comfortable or its just not fun! And its about Fun, I don’t know but a woman often makes me feel more comfortable and there for… I think you get the idea.
To back this up some of the best Bi fun I’ve had has been with friends.
Maybe that’s where you could say “Bi-curious” , because I have been in a mmf situation with a Bi guy but didn’t want to be involved with him. Odd I know..
Limits should always be discussed and taken as the law as there is nothing worse than being pushed and feeling shite about doing it afterwards.
BIoke has always said the forums are the way ahead.
Bi guys…..
Well for me its about comfort.. If I’m not comfortable then I don’t feel sexy (wrong word but you get the idea) If on the rare occasion I meet a guy 1 on 1 then I got to feel comfortable or its just not fun! And its about Fun, I don’t know but a woman often makes me feel more comfortable and there for… I think you get the idea.
To back this up some of the best Bi fun I’ve had has been with friends.
Maybe that’s where you could say “Bi-curious” , because I have been in a mmf situation with a Bi guy but didn’t want to be involved with him. Odd I know..
Limits should always be discussed and taken as the law as there is nothing worse than being pushed and feeling shite about doing it afterwards.
Sex God
Welcome to the forum!Yep, kind of agree with what you said: I have taken, of late, to adopting the phrase "situationally bi" as that suits me. Sometimes, in the right company, then I'll happily get involved in a bit of girly action. More often than not, I'm much more interested in cock!
So yes, situationally bi suits me!
Forum Virgin
Thanks for the welcome..
Think I’ll be hear more often
MMM yep like it situationally bi!
Why am I never that good with words?
Think I’ll be hear more often
MMM yep like it situationally bi!
Why am I never that good with words?
You make an interesting point that I have thought about but never really considered. When it comes to defining bisexuality I tend to follow Kinsey's definition by looking at it as a spectrum and not by looking for activities done.
My feeling the difference between to the two definitions lies in what definies bisexuality. Is it a checkliist activities done or do you allow some room for exploration before characterizing someone as bisexual?
My feeling the difference between to the two definitions lies in what definies bisexuality. Is it a checkliist activities done or do you allow some room for exploration before characterizing someone as bisexual?
Sex God
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I think I fall into the Would hug another bloke category I am a man hugger and proud of it, it's not bi, its just downright ok to do! I give my uncle a hug all the time and I can tell he is slightly uncomfortable with it if in public haha.
Cool - can we hug naked?
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I think I fall into the Would hug another bloke category I am a man hugger and proud of it, it's not bi, its just downright ok to do! I give my uncle a hug all the time and I can tell he is slightly uncomfortable with it if in public haha.
Cool - can we hug naked?
What - you'd want to hug him too (at the least!) if you saw him - he's like a Greek-Geordie god, except better and with a massive... brain :lol:
Easily the type of guy I could put in leather and chains and have on my tyres next winter in the wilds of the Northumberland snow falls...
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I think I fall into the Would hug another bloke category I am a man hugger and proud of it, it's not bi, its just downright ok to do! I give my uncle a hug all the time and I can tell he is slightly uncomfortable with it if in public haha.
Cool - can we hug naked?
What - you'd want to hug him too (at the least!) if you saw him - he's like a Greek-Geordie god, except better and with a massive... brain :lol:
Easily the type of guy I could put in leather and chains and have on my tyres next winter in the wilds of the Northumberland snow falls...
Hahaha bloke I knew there was a reason I liked you. In answer to your question we cannot hug naked but the back of your bike sounds pretty awesome. I love Northumberland, which reminds me of a thread I was going to start then got side - tracked and never got round to.
Not sure about the Greek God bit maybe a demi - god like Achillies would better suit :lol:
In my case it's not about being attracted to a man, there is no homosexual affinity, just a sexual appetite that doesn't have artificial boundaries.
The same thing stopping men from doing anything with another man is the same thing that stops a woman from say doing a gangbang for example - purely mental.
Enjoy the cock, let yourselves go, it's sex.
To answer the question - everything!
The same thing stopping men from doing anything with another man is the same thing that stops a woman from say doing a gangbang for example - purely mental.
Enjoy the cock, let yourselves go, it's sex.
To answer the question - everything!
In my case it's not about being attracted to a man, there is no homosexual affinity, just a sexual appetite that doesn't have artificial boundaries.
The same thing stopping men from doing anything with another man is the same thing that stops a woman from say doing a gangbang for example - purely mental.
Enjoy the cock, let yourselves go, it's sex.
To answer the question - everything!
The same thing stopping men from doing anything with another man is the same thing that stops a woman from say doing a gangbang for example - purely mental.
Enjoy the cock, let yourselves go, it's sex.
To answer the question - everything!
Sex God
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there are quite a few however who`s only requirement is a pulse :eeek:
Some people are just so fussy .....half an hour in a warm bath and anyone feels alive
Sex God
There's a guy we know who is nearly a level 19 bi. At level 20 he gets an indestructible asshole as a special ability. He is also, at the moment, training his deep throat control. Apparently he can now do 8 inches without gipping, just got to be able to stop it going off and going up and out of his nose.
Sexpert
Quote by Lost
There's a guy we know who is nearly a level 19 bi. At level 20 he gets an indestructible asshole as a special ability. He is also, at the moment, training his deep throat control. Apparently he can now do 8 inches without gipping, just got to be able to stop it going off and going up and out of his nose.
Levelling up never seemed that much fun before!
Very interesting thread! I was out for a night out recently chatting with some friends, including a gay girl couple. One of the girls said she liked the occasional " bit of cock" in a threesome with her partner, but her partner would not touch the man during the threesome, and she would not kiss or cuddle the man herself- she only wanted to do that with her partner. Her partner however got a massive thrill from the man watching both girls have sex, much more, she said, than if another girl was watching them.
I personally think that human sexuality can be extremely complicated, with each individual having their own boundaries on what straight/bi/gay is. Self confidence and past experiences as well as some people's perceived need to belong to a socio sexual group come in to play.
The truly bi person, totally at ease with sex with either gender, is often percieved as a threat by straight and gay people in mainstream society. I have spoken to many people who think that being bi is wrong because they are sitting on the fence! I personally would love to be 100% bi, but just don't find the idea of being 1 to 1 with another guy appealing-will do pretty much anything with guys and girls in a group setting.
We are complicated creatures arn't we, us humans?
I personally think that human sexuality can be extremely complicated, with each individual having their own boundaries on what straight/bi/gay is. Self confidence and past experiences as well as some people's perceived need to belong to a socio sexual group come in to play.
The truly bi person, totally at ease with sex with either gender, is often percieved as a threat by straight and gay people in mainstream society. I have spoken to many people who think that being bi is wrong because they are sitting on the fence! I personally would love to be 100% bi, but just don't find the idea of being 1 to 1 with another guy appealing-will do pretty much anything with guys and girls in a group setting.
We are complicated creatures arn't we, us humans?
Sexpert
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The truly bi person, totally at ease with sex with either gender, is often percieved as a threat by straight and gay people in mainstream society. I have spoken to many people who think that being bi is wrong because they are sitting on the fence!
This is quite true, and one of the reasons I had such a hard time with my sexuality as an identity issue - I came out as gay at about 16, and found acceptance and fellowship, and boyfriends, but then I became increasingly aware that I was denying something - my straight friends and family seemed perfectly happy that my gay 'phase' had ended and I was dating girls again, and I spent a good many years going through 'am i gay, am I straight' - not wanting to be bi because all my gay friends seemed quite clear that bisexuality was a cop out somehow, and lots of my straight friends either considered bisexuality to just be gay, or to be 'greedy' or undecided. It was never as simple, for me, as just a sexual thing, I wanted to be accepted for who I was but I couldn't even accept myself.
When finally I came out to myself, and then to everyone around me, it felt like a massive deal. I was a bit put out when no-one - gay or straight - really batted an eyelid! I suppose the years of, 'This is my girlfriend,' then 'This is my boyfriend' gave them a slight clue maybe.
I'd spent years dwelling over small comments from gay and straight friends and had built the whole thing into this massive issue for myself. The thing I love about this particular community, here, is that I can be completely open about my sexuality whether I'm playing or not, and I can discuss things in my own little rambling way and don't feel judged, on the whole.
I bet none of that makes sense but I know what I mean
You know it does amaze me how many 'str8' men insist they are str8 when they like to either suck or be sucked, does that not make them curious? i mean i hate lables anyway at the best of times but even more so when they are IMO wrong
Why do we need gay str8 or bi anyway cant we just have like minded ppl with diff limits?
Why do we need gay str8 or bi anyway cant we just have like minded ppl with diff limits?
Men like to be sucked? Really? I guess some like it so much they don't care about the sex of the suckee :giggle:
As for guys who like to do the sucking but are "straight", could they be transferring the sucking reflex they usually practise on breasts? Or maybe they just like the feeling of power over a fellow male. Not bi- at all. Honest.
As for guys who like to do the sucking but are "straight", could they be transferring the sucking reflex they usually practise on breasts? Or maybe they just like the feeling of power over a fellow male. Not bi- at all. Honest.
Sex God
Nothing constructive to add... I just wanted to to Bluexxx and Dino! 
to Bluexxx and Dino! Sexpert
Don't wave at them it wll only encourage them.
Sex God
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Don't wave at them it wll only encourage them.
Oooooh ello to you too!
And that's good! We need encouragement! :rascal:
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havent bothered reading the last few pages but just thought id add that a gay mate was talking about this recently and he said that he cruises a lot and he differentiates between the truly gay/bi guys who will kiss and fondle and the straight men just looking for a port in a storm who will not make eye contact, talk or touch. they usually just profer their cock to be sucked or suck without touching or any intimacy and as soon as they come they leave like a thief in the night.
Great summary :thumbup: I've met a few of the latter types he refers to in my time
Which 'camp' do you fall into brucie, my little cup fungus? You have GAY friends?! :scared:
Sex God
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im sure you have. it seems a gay obsession, playing with straight married men...
Is that the gay equivalent of the heterosexuals single bi female then?
Forum Virgin
Personally, I blow (hahaha) hot to cold with the whole bi thing... sometimes I'm really turned on with thought of a big hard cock... wanking one... sucking one even... although I dont find men attractive and the idea of anal or kissing with a guy is repellant, the visual sight of a hard cock shooting spunk is a huge turn on.
I also enjoy discussing it online with guys - it's amazing how many 'curious' guys are out there - many seem to feel similar to me and just enjoy the mutual pleasure of being explicit with another guy.
I also enjoy discussing it online with guys - it's amazing how many 'curious' guys are out there - many seem to feel similar to me and just enjoy the mutual pleasure of being explicit with another guy.
