I find the distance of "e" hinders really understanding people. Is that why there are so many frustrated communications that start (male) "Duh! I have a big cock" and end in silence. or (she) "I love sex and only sex with W/E men": replied (he) "Duh I have a big cock" followed by silence! Is it he mis-read the signs or are we dealing with the seminal fool - you know the one that thinks he can pull with a copy of the train timetable?
anyway, been around for a couple of months. tried to start conversations: messed up I think and trying forums and other tools for the first time. Advice welcome. especially advice that tells me how to avoid putting and keeping my foot in my virtual mouth - or even better advice on how to make real relationships broadly that create a sense of belonging and freedom in a repressed and repressive world.
just a mad drunken fool I guess! off for another glass of wine.
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is there a place for intellectual debate where cocks bigger than my imagination are not present?
Sex God
I'm moving this into the Cafe forum - hopefully people will answer there! :thumbup:
Sex God
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anyway, been around for a couple of months. tried to start conversations: messed up I think and trying forums and other tools for the first time. Advice welcome. especially advice that tells me how to avoid putting and keeping my foot in my virtual mouth - or even better advice on how to make real relationships broadly that create a sense of belonging and freedom in a repressed and repressive world.
just a mad drunken fool I guess! off for another glass of wine.
As it happens foot and mouth are good places to start.
Use your 'mouth' in here a bit - get yourself known and then you'll find you may a few friends - some of whom may want to have sex with you. Quick to say but usually a longish process.
Use your 'feet' to get along to a social or a munch or two - you'll find these in the Let's Meet Up forum.
For the time being I would leave yer cock out of it - I think you've discovered that - usually when I let my cock do the talking the bastard drops me in it!!
.I must say I thought from the title of this thread that it was a philosphical question, which, on here, could have been dynamite - so glad to see it is just that you're interested in trying different things.
The method I described above is, of course, just one way. Answering ads can work but as you've discovered by the sound of it, it is hit and miss.
Good luck.
Sex God
You will see there is a place here for intellectual debate - it's called the Current Affairs forum - check it out.
As for conversation starters... would you go up to a random in the pub, supermarket, street, at work, etc etc etc and tell them how big your cock is? No? Oh, you do suprise me. So then, why do it here?
OK, you may say that such info is more relevant here. Maybe it is, for some people, but why use it to start a conversation and risk losing the attention of people who actually prefer more traditional methods of welcome?
Think about social skills you use in the real world presuming you have them in good quantity, and use those. Sadly, some people don't seem to have any, I wonder how they survive "out there".
As for conversation starters... would you go up to a random in the pub, supermarket, street, at work, etc etc etc and tell them how big your cock is? No? Oh, you do suprise me. So then, why do it here?
OK, you may say that such info is more relevant here. Maybe it is, for some people, but why use it to start a conversation and risk losing the attention of people who actually prefer more traditional methods of welcome?
Think about social skills you use in the real world presuming you have them in good quantity, and use those. Sadly, some people don't seem to have any, I wonder how they survive "out there".
Sex God
As someone has already said, just be yourself. Of course if being yourself includes using the line "I have a big cock" then you should probably think about making some changes!
Listen to Blue... she makes a lot of sense. You wouldn't go up to a girl in a pub and start a conversation with "hey babe, I have an enormous dick" cause most likely she'd just think you were an enormous dick! And to be fair, quite rightly so! :lol:
Welcome to the forums, pop into chat and just be polite and have respect for the people around you and you'll get the same in return. :mrgreen:
