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could anyone give me some advice on attracting people please, i'm genuinely eager. not sure if profile is ok? or if i'm right kind of person people will like, any help would be appreciated. thanks. x
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could anyone give me some advice on attracting people please, i'm genuinely eager. not sure if profile is ok? or if i'm right kind of person people will like, any help would be appreciated. thanks. x

Hi Argt05, Why wouldnt you be the type of person people like? confused Theres someone for everyone out there. Theres two things that i noticed about your profile. You dont really say much about yourself on there. I think that a lot of people do like to read something about you when checking a profile. The second thing is why are you asking for a gay female couple? Friendship maybe? It does take time to find people that you are happy with and they are happy with you, so be patient.
Louise xx
i know the gay female cpl thing i've just un ticked... :idea:
but what would you want to know about me? im quite nervous about what to put, dont want to come across as desperate or sad. i'm good looking and dont have problems getting girls, but i want more from my sex and social life, have had only 1 man before, but i want more.
argt05 X
I think there must be loads of threads with advice to beginners. I'd say that the best thing to do is take a table in THE CAFE, get a coffee, relax and join in the conversation. Don't try too hard and don't worry too much about offending people. Let people get to know you and let yourself get to know everyone who's already here.
Oh yeah, be patient.(think I'll mention that again)
Be patient.
Take some time to read through some of the older posts. There may be one or two that grab your attention and could answer a few of your questions.
Relax and have fun
oh and welcome to the Cafe wave
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thanx guys!!
know i'm not alone with this.
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