Lost for words ....

23 Sep 2007

This morning we were out and about when I bumped into a friend from a few years back (not too many though). Now people who know me know that although i'm shy and retiring and find it hard to utter a few words without feeling self conscious (not!). I'm not really usually stuck for words or feel dumbfounded.
Well today was a rare moment for me. I saw this freind and she had met up and married this quite ostensibly and for all immediate visual purposes normal pleasant guy. Well could I talk to him no. I felt altogether awkward and self comcious and words failed me.
Anyone else ever feel this way with people?
An unusually long post for me I know but I thought i'd try and see if I could do a little more wink

23 Sep 2007

I am always like that Lost, unless I know someone really well, or feel comfortable enough, I get stuck for what to say........its not just you hun.
I am much better in a non face to face situation like the forum lol

Then I can blether on for England lol

I really need bringing out of my shell. rotflmao

23 Sep 2007

It happens to everyone. You get a mental block and become unable to respond or perform as you are expected to.
Also, it can often have nothing to do with the circumstances and previous history. Just a raw difference in people.
So don't beat yourself up.

23 Sep 2007

My tongues always tied.
Its a nuisance at times confused

23 Sep 2007

Im sorry but Lost being lost for words! I find that so hard to believe lol

(Im going to be in so much trouble for that)
:giggle:
But yes I also find that sometimes, it doesn't matter how relaxed I am, how well I know the person, I just can't think of anything worth saying, and sometimes can't even think of anything which isn't worth saying (I know what I mean, even if no one else does) redface

23 Sep 2007

Perhaps the large rusty pointy pins stuck in our Lost Dolls are working at last lol

Lost, I have to say I have those *blonde* moments too....by the way how is your hair lately??? :lol2: :lol2:

23 Sep 2007

Lost for words ?
Now THAT ..... i'd pay to see (roll up roll up a once in a lifetime offer) :giggle:

23 Sep 2007

Quote by anais
by the way how is your hair lately??? :lol2: :lol2:

My hair is now 30" long and errrrrrmmmmm now quite blue Just wondering about the oufit thats going to go with it biggrin

maybe Wellies Desert shorts and a thick roll neck sweater - what d'ys think eh ? wink

23 Sep 2007

Quote by willing2try_4
Lost for words ?
Now THAT ..... i'd pay to see (roll up roll up a once in a lifetime offer) :giggle:

hiya mrs if i shut him up will you pay me and how?
mrs lost xxx

23 Sep 2007

Quote by Lost
by the way how is your hair lately??? :lol2: :lol2:

My hair is now 30" long and errrrrrmmmmm now quite blue Just wondering about the oufit thats going to go with it biggrin

maybe Wellies Desert shorts and a thick roll neck sweater - what d'ys think eh ? wink

What was up with ya *blonde hair do* :lol2: :lol2: Not sure Blue is you :grin:
Errrmmm Lost... you know wellies for me is a huge turn on, especially green waders wink

Not sure about the roll neck sweater an desert shorts tho confused

23 Sep 2007

Quote by Lost
Lost for words ?
Now THAT ..... i'd pay to see (roll up roll up a once in a lifetime offer) :giggle:

hiya mrs if i shut him up will you pay me and how?
mrs lost xxx
mrs L posting in forums? whatever next .....
you shut him up and we'll negotiate, bit like putting a price on his head this is, i'll give ya 50p bolt

23 Sep 2007

Quote by Naughty Wigan Couple
Im sorry but Lost being lost for words! I find that so hard to believe
(Im going to be in so much trouble for that)
:giggle:
But yes I also find that sometimes, it doesn't matter how relaxed I am, how well I know the person, I just can't think of anything worth saying, and sometimes can't even think of anything which isn't worth saying (I know what I mean, even if no one else does)

ermm Mrs Naughty, Id never met u, but we chatted like we'd always known each other on our 1st meet wink

xxj

23 Sep 2007

Tonight I am truly lost for words
sad

23 Sep 2007

Quote by razor_wire
Im sorry but Lost being lost for words! I find that so hard to believe
(Im going to be in so much trouble for that)
:giggle:
But yes I also find that sometimes, it doesn't matter how relaxed I am, how well I know the person, I just can't think of anything worth saying, and sometimes can't even think of anything which isn't worth saying (I know what I mean, even if no one else does)

ermm Mrs Naughty, Id never met u, but we chatted like we'd always known each other on our 1st meet wink

xxj
thats cos you're both salt of the earth.......

23 Sep 2007

sometimes I wish I was lost for words........... rolleyes

23 Sep 2007

Quote by DeeCee
Im sorry but Lost being lost for words! I find that so hard to believe
(Im going to be in so much trouble for that)
:giggle:
But yes I also find that sometimes, it doesn't matter how relaxed I am, how well I know the person, I just can't think of anything worth saying, and sometimes can't even think of anything which isn't worth saying (I know what I mean, even if no one else does)

ermm Mrs Naughty, Id never met u, but we chatted like we'd always known each other on our 1st meet wink

xxj
thats cos you're both salt of the earth.......
oi!!! who asked u!! now get ya nips out whip

xj

23 Sep 2007

Quote by the_Laird
Tonight I am truly lost for words

wonders will never cease in this place lol

23 Sep 2007

Quote by markz
sometimes I wish I was lost for words...........

Sometimes, we all wish you were confused

24 Sep 2007

Quote by Naughty Wigan Couple
Im sorry but Lost being lost for words! I find that so hard to believe
(Im going to be in so much trouble for that)
:giggle:
But yes I also find that sometimes, it doesn't matter how relaxed I am, how well I know the person, I just can't think of anything worth saying, and sometimes can't even think of anything which isn't worth saying (I know what I mean, even if no one else does)

Would you two ever be in trouble with me.........
God darn f*';.,#''[;,#';.!! and when all's said n done NWC ..... fair comment :lol2:
Not gonna stop me you a 1000 word rant of an essay once a week every week for ever and ever and ever infinite no fingers crossed :twisted:

24 Sep 2007

Quote by Naughty Wigan Couple
Im sorry but Lost being lost for words! I find that so hard to believe

Hmmm, I thought that also! :silly:

25 Sep 2007

sorry to drag it back on topic, but i'm all out of Lost references? confused

((( i hate that bloody show! how many weeks on this pigging island? dunno

they must think we're almost as stupid as the people who signed up for Series 3 of Prison Break on Sky? :P ;) )))
lost? was it because you realised that your relationship had fundamentally changed, maybe? confused

you used to have a 1 on 1 thing with her, and now it's a 1 on 2 thing? it's bound to throw you, and there's bound to be a bit of testing the waters as far as establishing a new relationship on a different footing for all three of you? maybe they felt the same, and his'n'her's reaction to you might have fed into your reaction to them? dunno

could have been awkward all round, and all three of you felt it? ;)
the guy's a stranger, and your relationship with her is made strange by his presence? renegotiating relationships is never easy? i'd say your reaction was perfectly natural. don't worry about it. ;)
n x x x ;)