Making an impact

15 Jun 2004

I'm kind of curious about the swinging scene, and I've been browsing swinging sites for a few months.
Trouble is, as a single (seperated guy) I feel kinda unwelcome. Or maybe I'm overwhelmed by the sheer number of blokes who are cruising sites responding to ads.
How can I make an impact among all these horny males? Don't say get a girlfriend who likes the swinging thing too, as that doesn't seem that easy, and besides I'm exiting a tough marriage and I'm in no rush to get back into anything long-term.....
Even considered visiting a club La Chambre, Sheffield is my nearest but I'm way nervous and some reviewers have complained about there being too many single guys!

15 Jun 2004

I'll reply to myself, by telling me to refer to the poll that appears a little down this page redface

15 Jun 2004

Well one piece of advice to you Jonny is to give us a chance to get to know you......we're a friendly bunch of people.....spend some time reading through the threads and post a little here and there and maybe come to a Munch and you'll find some great friends.....sex is a by-product in my opinion...... smile

15 Jun 2004

Welcome to the forum JonnyV lol

yeah, there are tons of single guys on the scene, many of whom whinge about the lack of action they get rolleyes

. However THERE IS action to be had. Clubs are good if you like to watch or get involved in a group-grope wink

. If you're thinking of something more intimate, get yourself known on the forum and maybe get to a munch or two. There are many people on the scene who want guys specifically, so don't give up!

15 Jun 2004

Thanks for the tips.
Don't wanna be naive again, but what's a munch!

15 Jun 2004

A munch is a social gathering, where people can get to know each other in a non sexual and non pressured environment - click here to find out more
http://www.swingingheaven.co.uk/terminology/munch.html

15 Jun 2004