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Quote by Libra-Love
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You could always try some of Blue's vodka jelly for dutch courage first, just mind it doesn't have the opposite effect and you end up shagging everyone but the one you're interested in
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OMG! :shock: Have you been spying on me? That is soooo what happens with me and that vodka jelly!
It is rather good though! 
ops: What is the excuse for going ot a club and ending up with every other male apart from the cute one sat on the edge of the bed that you really wanted?I find that sitting near them and striking up a conversation is the best way. Then disappear and come back, sit a little bit away from them and talk to them, if they move closer you've got them, if they get up and walk away then youre not getting shagged by them! :lol:
In a group situation, a gentle stroke of a neutral area such as a leg or an arm will tell you if the person is receptive to your advances. A gentle whispered purr in their ear of, would you mind if I joined in? usually gets the desired effect or a clear answer.
HTH!
And if all else fails, lie in the middle of the room and play with yourself. Might not be the one you wanted, but you'd get shagged.
:rotflmao: :rotflmao: Sex God
Given away too many secrets already!?
Oh well! ;)Gem. x -outrageous flirt ;)
Sex God
Well im fairly shy so unless i get clear signals that i can respond to, im nervous about actually asking in case i embarass the other person (male or female) or they say no then id be embarrassed!
In once recent case, i was soooo turned on by another fem, we chatted all evening and in the end just blurted out "Well do you wanna play or not" :shock: Luckily she did!! :bounce: 
In once recent case, i was soooo turned on by another fem, we chatted all evening and in the end just blurted out "Well do you wanna play or not" :shock:
Luckily she did!! :bounce: 
Sex God
I haven't been in this situation very often..... actually, not sure I'd ever been in it before
Anyway, at a club I'd got talking to a really nice couple. We'd got on very well socially but I was getting the feeling that nothing was going to happen because I can sometimes come across as a bit standoffish (Me???!!! So I've been told anyway
) In the end I'd got chatting to the male on his own and just told him that if the two of them were ever interested in playing I'd be up for it. I then walked off and left him to think about it..... it didn't take long before the 3 of us were getting to know each other a bit better :rascal:
Standoffish? Lol I don't think so! :lol2:
Anyway, at a club I'd got talking to a really nice couple. We'd got on very well socially but I was getting the feeling that nothing was going to happen because I can sometimes come across as a bit standoffish (Me???!!! So I've been told anyway
) In the end I'd got chatting to the male on his own and just told him that if the two of them were ever interested in playing I'd be up for it. I then walked off and left him to think about it..... it didn't take long before the 3 of us were getting to know each other a bit better :rascal:Standoffish? Lol I don't think so! :lol2:
Sex God
well flirt first, and then just tell them
Sex God
Quote by westerross
I think (and I'm no expert) if you feel like that and let's face it most do, the only thing to do is make absolutely sure that your body language is sending out the right signals - there was a good thread on this recently with some fascinating links (Google does it). The great thing about body language is that you can sort of turbo-charge it by how much you feel in order to get the message across - short of whipping yer knickers off and shoving 'em over his/her head.
The problem is that some blokes are crap at picking up the signals on occasions so it can even help to let the person alongside him know what's up. Women are much better at it - why is that?
I'm not
Sex God
MQ this so happend to me recently
i didnt know what to do or say.......
so ended up not saying anything then told her by PM the next day
Mike
i didnt know what to do or say.......
so ended up not saying anything then told her by PM the next day
Mike
Fuck shit bollocks, how do I just come out and say 'I want to fuck you!'
I had 2 near misses tonight, I can't believe it I was in a club with my sister and a couple of mates, one of whom I have fancied for aaaaaaaages! He started giving me a bit of a come on as we were leaving after many attempts by me at eye contact and crotch watching! Then his sodding mate decided to walk home instead of accepting the lift I was offering and he buggered off out of loyalty to the mate ARGH!
Then, you are really not gonna believe this but I was so bloody horny I went driving off for somewhere quiet Trouble was, I come to a tight bend and found a guy in a crashed bloody car! So there's me with my skirt hitched up wanting soooo badly and what did I do? I pulled the skirt straight and gave him a lift to the nearest phone box! I had him in my car! Alone! In a dark country lane! And he was a perfect gent and I just couldn't tell him why I was down there so late at night! ARGH!!!!!!!
I had 2 near misses tonight, I can't believe it
I was in a club with my sister and a couple of mates, one of whom I have fancied for aaaaaaaages! He started giving me a bit of a come on as we were leaving after many attempts by me at eye contact and crotch watching! Then his sodding mate decided to walk home instead of accepting the lift I was offering and he buggered off out of loyalty to the mate ARGH! Then, you are really not gonna believe this but I was so bloody horny I went driving off for somewhere quiet
Trouble was, I come to a tight bend and found a guy in a crashed bloody car! So there's me with my skirt hitched up wanting soooo badly and what did I do? I pulled the skirt straight and gave him a lift to the nearest phone box! I had him in my car! Alone! In a dark country lane! And he was a perfect gent and I just couldn't tell him why I was down there so late at night! ARGH!!!!!!! 
Sex God
MQ how do u fancy going 50/50 in a fuck at blues party
Oblivious seems to be my middle name. I've missed out on so much due to not seeing signals, or even seeing obvious signals and not acting on them.
The stupid thing is that I've had some of my best times when I've just taken the bull by the horns and gone for it.
You would think that success would breed confidence but then fear raises its ugly head time and time again.
Have found though that I react very well to strong confidant women. Once I realise that I'm getting the green light things just seem to slip in to place. It's just the first few steps I seem to have a problem with.
The stupid thing is that I've had some of my best times when I've just taken the bull by the horns and gone for it.
You would think that success would breed confidence but then fear raises its ugly head time and time again.
Have found though that I react very well to strong confidant women. Once I realise that I'm getting the green light things just seem to slip in to place. It's just the first few steps I seem to have a problem with.
