Are you compiling a Citizen's Advice database or summat?
I wouldn't do that if I was you. Setting yerself up could be a big ptifall.
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I generally let people get on with stuff. 
I would say it would all depend about the person and how well I knew them.
If I knew them pretty well I would assume that they have probably thought very carefully about what they are doing and possible consequences of their actions.
If you are unsure why don't you just ask them instead of assuming?
If I knew them pretty well I would assume that they have probably thought very carefully about what they are doing and possible consequences of their actions.
If you are unsure why don't you just ask them instead of assuming?
Quote by flower411
If somebody tells you that they are going to do or are doing something slightly unusual or just different to the norm do you.......
Assume that they have no idea what they are doing and start warning them of all the pitfalls that they will encounter.....
Assume that they have probably thought very carefully about what they are doing and offer encouragement with a little smattering of advice thrown in....
Or
Something else ...
what i actually tend to do is make judgements and presumptions based on
what's actually said......
who said it...
and what their motivation seems to be...
if it doesnt add up and someone wants my opinion ,I ask questions ( to ensure ive got the facts right)......and give my tuppeneth
If i was to hazard a guess , this thread could relate to your earlier thread today... but then again i might be becoming cynical.
perhaps you could enlighten me?
