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Making the most of what we were born with

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It's struck me in my travels around the country and the............er............research that I've carried out in certain laybys innocent how some peeps present themselves well and others are just, well frankly, slobs. :shock: :shock: :shock:
None of us have any say in what we were given when we were born and, as yet, it's not possible to trade your body in for a new model. However, there is a certain amount we can do to enhance our good bits and draw attention away from our less attractive areas.
I think the elements that are important here are personality, body presentation, and clothes (not necessarily in that order).
I'm no spring chicken any longer sad and I've certainly abused my body heartily during my lifetime through overindulgence in tobacco, alcohol, sleep deprivation, poor diet etc., etc,.) but on the whole I'm not in bad shape and certainly I'm frequently taken for being younger than in fact I really am biggrin :D
I have to make the most of what I've got which I try to do in the way I present myself to others both in vanilla RL and in Eagerworld.
In vanilla RL I'm sometimes a slob, especially when I've been on the road for a few days. For obvious reasons I tend to avoid the showers in MSAs and Truck Stops in this country because there is no privacy (unlike many of their continental equivalents) and I don't think my Eager Birthdaysuit would go down too well with some str8 peeps who might be a bit shocked or try to give me a hard time because of their prejudices and insecurities. For this reason I strip wash in my truck so I still manage to keep myself relatively clean and fresh.
Some of the peeps I meet in my laybys are, frankly, mingers, so they get very little (if anything) from me. I'm only a minger by the end of a good evening/nights fun! redface surprisedops: :oops: :oops:
Some peeps by contrast are well-dressed, clean, smell fresh and generally take the trouble to appear attractive and nice to go with :censored:
What are your observations and experiences in this respect? dunno
Am I being too discerning for a slut? Should I .......um........just accept whatever turns up, and ......er........think of England? :shock: :shock: :shock: :undecided:
UES :rascal:
i couldn't agree with you more....
even if someone has been in work all day, it doesn't take much effort to use a wet wipe or 2...
Personally i wouldn't dream of going into a situation where there is the remotest chance of some fun without having a proper shower / bath first.
Not only for the other persons sake.. I wouldn't be able to relax and enjoy myself if i was worrying over how i look / smell.
Fortunately i've not had any encounters where people havn't been clean and fresh, but if i did then there is certain places i'm just not going to go. :shock:
Their loss i guess.
im with you on that theres reallyno excuse at all (unless medical) to smell bad in this day in age , I hate smelling , think in fact that i might over bath/shower , although playing rugby i suppose bumps up the daily levels hehe :P
Quote by EagerSlut
It's struck me in my travels around the country and the............er............research that I've carried out in certain laybys innocent how some peeps present themselves well and others are just, well frankly, slobs. :shock: :shock: :shock:
None of us have any say in what we were given when we were born and, as yet, it's not possible to trade your body in for a new model. However, there is a certain amount we can do to enhance our good bits and draw attention away from our less attractive areas.
I think the elements that are important here are personality, body presentation, and clothes (not necessarily in that order).
I'm no spring chicken any longer sad and I've certainly abused my body heartily during my lifetime through overindulgence in tobacco, alcohol, sleep deprivation, poor diet etc., etc,.) but on the whole I'm not in bad shape and certainly I'm frequently taken for being younger than in fact I really am biggrin :D
I have to make the most of what I've got which I try to do in the way I present myself to others both in vanilla RL and in Eagerworld.
In vanilla RL I'm sometimes a slob, especially when I've been on the road for a few days. For obvious reasons I tend to avoid the showers in MSAs and Truck Stops in this country because there is no privacy (unlike many of their continental equivalents) and I don't think my Eager Birthdaysuit would go down too well with some str8 peeps who might be a bit shocked or try to give me a hard time because of their prejudices and insecurities. For this reason I strip wash in my truck so I still manage to keep myself relatively clean and fresh.
Some of the peeps I meet in my laybys are, frankly, mingers, so they get very little (if anything) from me. I'm only a minger by the end of a good evening/nights fun! redface surprisedops: :oops: :oops:
Some peeps by contrast are well-dressed, clean, smell fresh and generally take the trouble to appear attractive and nice to go with :censored:
What are your observations and experiences in this respect? dunno
Am I being too discerning for a slut? Should I .......um........just accept whatever turns up, and ......er........think of England? :shock: :shock: :shock: :undecided:
UES :rascal:

No......... just because your a "slut" doesnt mean you shouldnt expect someone to be clean and presentable if your gona have sex with them. If nothing else its basic manners to be clean in such circumstances.
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Am I being too discerning for a slut? Should I .......um........just accept whatever turns up, and ......er........think of England? :shock: :shock: :shock: :undecided:
UES :rascal:

Dear ES, you can never be too discerning. You stay as you are as you are scrumptious that way. As for accepting whatever turns up, bollocks. A good experience goes a lot further than a smelly one... confused
ES youre absolutly spot on, There is nothing worst than BO and no need for it. Why not have a nice set of clothes for meeting peeps. It dosent cost much and makes so much more of yourself.
I agree with your statement on over indulgence and have recentley bought some facial products to try to revive my aging skin. I thought better start now before it gets any worse lol :lol: :lol:
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Why not have a nice set of clothes for meeting peeps. It dosent cost much and makes so much more of yourself.

If you're referring to others Dune then I agree :thumbup:
If it's me you mean then all I can say is that I always wear one of my best thongs or g strings. Nothing else if I'm in my truck redface surprisedops: :oops: :oops:
Thank you Maia and everyone else kiss
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Quote by EagerSlut

What are your observations and experiences in this respect? dunno
Am I being too discerning for a slut? Should I .......um........just accept whatever turns up, and ......er........think of England? :shock: :shock: :shock: :undecided:
UES :rascal:

No way are you too discerning! In my book a clean plain looking man will always come before a good looking dirty man. If you are going to play intimately with someone, you have to know they are clean (at least to start with :twisted: ) That goes for bad breath too. I always think people should brush their teeth and clean their bits if they want to have fun.....or there will be no blast from me!
Quote by EagerSlut
Why not have a nice set of clothes for meeting peeps. It dosent cost much and makes so much more of yourself.

If you're referring to others Dune then I agree :thumbup:
If it's me you mean then all I can say is that I always wear one of my best thongs or g strings. Nothing else if I'm in my truck redface surprisedops: :oops: :oops:
Thank you Maia and everyone else kiss
bolt

ES, Ive only every seen you wear your best on your avatars :cheers:
I have to make the most that iv been born with :shock: .
some people are naturaly gorgs some arent .
but if you make an effort it pays off lol