Being ever so slightly serious, doesn't it depend on the criteria? I mean, this is a swinging site, so the attraction for the "swing" may not be, in fact almost certainly isn't, the attraction for the life partner. It's something else, the missing bit.
If you're married to a nice guy but you've always fantasised about the boy in the 6th who was VWE and everyone talked about, that would be one of the criteria to swing, but a life partner brings a whole load of other factors, romance, income, trust, a pal.
A lady said to me last week that one of my attractions was that I knew how to talk to women. Actually I was not greatly thrilled by this news, wishing somehow that my attraction was a good deal less cerebral, but with my body that's not likely and so I do need to have some talent. If talking to women is mine - so be it. Writing this, I recall that in my 20's I always used to boast that I talked them into bed, I'd forgotten. Maybe she's right.
Pity though. Useless talent on SH.
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Quote by musketeer
Pity though. Useless talent on SH.
:shock: I disagree - the art of stimulating conversation (and I don't mean smutty talk
before any one even thinks about a smart ass response :roll: 
) always holds an irresistable attraction for me, whether it is connected with swinging, lifelong partnerships or the person in the local corner store! Quote by musketeer:shock: Kit and I are NOT looking for any 'missing bits'. We enjoy swinging BECUASE of what we have, not because of what we lack.
Being ever so slightly serious, doesn't it depend on the criteria? I mean, this is a swinging site, so the attraction for the "swing" may not be, in fact almost certainly isn't, the attraction for the life partner. It's something else, the missing bit.
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lhk
Kat
Sex God
Quote by musketeer
Being ever so slightly serious, doesn't it depend on the criteria? I mean, this is a swinging site, so the attraction for the "swing" may not be, in fact almost certainly isn't, the attraction for the life partner. It's something else, the missing bit.
If you're married to a nice guy but you've always fantasised about the boy in the 6th who was VWE and everyone talked about, that would be one of the criteria to swing, but a life partner brings a whole load of other factors, romance, income, trust, a pal.
A lady said to me last week that one of my attractions was that I knew how to talk to women. Actually I was not greatly thrilled by this news, wishing somehow that my attraction was a good deal less cerebral, but with my body that's not likely and so I do need to have some talent. If talking to women is mine - so be it. Writing this, I recall that in my 20's I always used to boast that I talked them into bed, I'd forgotten. Maybe she's right.
Pity though. Useless talent on SH.
I agree with Kit. The art of good conversation and or some personality has got to be part of it for some people. In fact women who only go for looks are as shallow as blokes who find a woman attractive only because she's got a big pair of tits.
Jeez give us some hope man. Being able to string a couple of words together is all some of us have got left!!
Quote by dambuster
Eyes that twinkle in a blokes eyes does it everytime
Cheeky smile shows if they have a sense of humour cos by god they will need one with me
Well groomed doesnt have to be designer clothes but at least it shows they have pride in themselves and they must be ironed not just picked off the bedroom floor! Must admit designer stubble is a huge turn on and not an over grown bush hanging off their face
I've just poked myself in the eyes - they are now much more than twinkling
uch:Working (constantly) on a cheeky smile
*notes to self - 1. Buy an iron; and a wardrobe.
2. Don't shave for a couple of days before the next munch
well let me know when u buy an iron and wardrobe
and as for working on a cheeky smile.........u already have one.........well u did when u lunged ur head into my cleavage lol
Quote by KitKat:shock: Kit and I are NOT looking for any 'missing bits'. We enjoy swinging BECUASE of what we have, not because of what we lack.
Being ever so slightly serious, doesn't it depend on the criteria? I mean, this is a swinging site, so the attraction for the "swing" may not be, in fact almost certainly isn't, the attraction for the life partner. It's something else, the missing bit.
.
lhk
Kat
Rebuke accepted.
wow what turns me on by a manmmmmmmm
well now lets think.. ..have to be a good snogger ..........nice eyes a sense of humer!........clean polite a gent.............fit so he can keep up with me :twisted:
And good at oral!...upps did i really put that :doh:
age anything from 25 up wourds ...........really depends what they look like!
I have yet to find out more :twisted:
well now lets think.. ..have to be a good snogger ..........nice eyes a sense of humer!........clean polite a gent.............fit so he can keep up with me :twisted:
And good at oral!...upps did i really put that :doh:
age anything from 25 up wourds ...........really depends what they look like!
I have yet to find out more :twisted:
Sex God
damn you SH persons! i'm buggered here . . .
facial symmetry? well i have a roman nose, as in, roman all over my bleedin' face!
sexy hairy chest? i lovingly gather my odd few hairs into a peak, with a touch of thickening hair product kinda stuff, just so ya can see the half dozen or so of 'em? :(
defined, toned shoulders? well . . . erm . . . i HAVE got shoulders honest! :(
arms? erm . . . got them too? :( oh . . . two of 'em!
:bounce:
a 6-pack? erm . . . if i eat waaaaay too much food, then REALLY suck me breath in, you can kinda see half a dozen or so bits and pieces? does that count?
their sense of humour? ha! yay! i piss meself feckin' laffin' at me own jokes! sorted! :D
a nice bum? uummmmm . . . . someone once said it was a ladies bum? does that count? :(
ok, that's enough? think i'm buggered? :( :( :(
facial symmetry? well i have a roman nose, as in, roman all over my bleedin' face!
sexy hairy chest? i lovingly gather my odd few hairs into a peak, with a touch of thickening hair product kinda stuff, just so ya can see the half dozen or so of 'em? :(
defined, toned shoulders? well . . . erm . . . i HAVE got shoulders honest! :(
arms? erm . . . got them too? :( oh . . . two of 'em!
:bounce:a 6-pack? erm . . . if i eat waaaaay too much food, then REALLY suck me breath in, you can kinda see half a dozen or so bits and pieces? does that count?
their sense of humour? ha! yay! i piss meself feckin' laffin' at me own jokes! sorted! :D
a nice bum? uummmmm . . . . someone once said it was a ladies bum? does that count? :(
ok, that's enough? think i'm buggered? :( :( :(
Quote by neilinleeds
damn you SH persons! i'm buggered here . . .
facial symmetry? well i have a roman nose, as in, roman all over my bleedin' face!
sexy hairy chest? i lovingly gather my odd few hairs into a peak, with a touch of thickening hair product kinda stuff, just so ya can see the half dozen or so of 'em? :(
defined, toned shoulders? well . . . erm . . . i HAVE got shoulders honest! :(
arms? erm . . . got them too? :( oh . . . two of 'em!
a 6-pack? erm . . . if i eat waaaaay too much food, then REALLY suck me breath in, you can kinda see half a dozen or so bits and pieces? does that count?
their sense of humour? ha! yay! i piss meself feckin' laffin' at me own jokes! sorted! :D
a nice bum? uummmmm . . . . someone once said it was a ladies bum? does that count? :(
ok, that's enough? think i'm buggered? :( :( :(
you for got sexy and georgest!!
Quote by KitKat:shock: Kit and I are NOT looking for any 'missing bits'. We enjoy swinging BECUASE of what we have, not because of what we lack.
Being ever so slightly serious, doesn't it depend on the criteria? I mean, this is a swinging site, so the attraction for the "swing" may not be, in fact almost certainly isn't, the attraction for the life partner. It's something else, the missing bit.
.
lhk
Kat
Missing bit ??? whats that then ???
