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Unknown User
Yes there are bazillions of single guys but surely a thanks but no thanks is the right thing to do?
The way i was brought up i never ignored anyone and if i didnt want what that offer i decline politely!
noladreams
Sex God
Hi, sorry you've had a bad experience - unfortunately, as in real life, there are rude people on the site.
Keep trying? dunno
Oh and pop back in here for a natter... we're not all horrible! wink
Mal
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'Thanks, but no thanks' might take but a second write to one or two, but many get (and I'll keep it realistic here) hundreds of responses, and to reply to all would take an age.
Accept it as part of the process, don't beat yourself up over it and move on.
Merry Christmas lol
Mal
wink
(Oh and ditch the thong pic!!!!)
Unknown User
thats all well and good but what about the ones that are rude,arrogant,generally obnoxious in their mails or whispers,the ones that obviously cant be arsed reading profiles,if they cant be bothered why should we be?
Unknown User
Quote by leatherednperky
thats all well and good but what about the ones that are rude,arrogant,generally obnoxious in their mails or whispers,the ones that obviously cant be arsed reading profiles,if they cant be bothered why should we be?

Excatly!!!!
Witchy
Sex God
My profile doesn't invite PM's. I have no ad. Reply to such a profile & you must know that your mail is unsolicited & the odds are against you.
One too many "oh, but you'll be interested if you meet me. Go on, meet me. What have you got to lose? My cat just died. Please meet me." Responses to my "thanks but no thanks" pm's means I don't respond to unsolicited PM's.
Am I a harsh, unfeeling ice maiden? Possibly. Am I ill mannered? I don't think so. Do I care what you think if you haven't comprehended my profile? Nah.
tmann
Sex God
Dear Icemaiden
I like cool, restrained women. Let me melt you.
Cold War Warrior.
Dirtygirly
Sex God
Quote by Witchy
My profile doesn't invite PM's. I have no ad. Reply to such a profile & you must know that your mail is unsolicited & the odds are against you.
One too many "oh, but you'll be interested if you meet me. Go on, meet me. What have you got to lose? My cat just died. Please meet me." Responses to my "thanks but no thanks" pm's means I don't respond to unsolicited PM's.
Am I a harsh, unfeeling ice maiden? Possibly. Am I ill mannered? I don't think so. Do I care what you think if you haven't comprehended my profile? Nah.

This! :thumbup:
Unknown User
Quote by Dirtygirly
My profile doesn't invite PM's. I have no ad. Reply to such a profile & you must know that your mail is unsolicited & the odds are against you.
One too many "oh, but you'll be interested if you meet me. Go on, meet me. What have you got to lose? My cat just died. Please meet me." Responses to my "thanks but no thanks" pm's means I don't respond to unsolicited PM's.
Am I a harsh, unfeeling ice maiden? Possibly. Am I ill mannered? I don't think so. Do I care what you think if you haven't comprehended my profile? Nah.

This! :thumbup:
yep this also! along with the added abuse when you continually say no
Unknown User
Unknown User

what ^^^^^^^^ she said lol
Unknown User
the other thing to remember...is when some one joins the site shall we say as a provisional member...they have to fill out an ad....Howver if they do not sign up to become full memebers, they can not reply to your mail. I have mentioned it before...but I will say it again... we know extra's members are identifiable......would be useful to know full members from Provisional members. We would then at least understand if they don't reply !!!
Unknown User
Quote by leatherednperky

what ^^^^^^^^ she said lol
exactly...... wink