Quote by Bonedigger
d'ya know what, I usually take everything I read on this forums with a pinch of salt, much prefering to bumble along in my own little bubble of happiness.
Its very rare I will stick my head above the parapet and rock the boat, by speaking my mijnd or my true I am truly disgusted at the way this thread has progressed. It has turned into a witch hunt against singlies who for whatever reason chose to seek physical love with another person without their partners knowledge.
There have been some very well though out and salient points, on both sides, but also some downright rude and aggressive posts. Its up to PERSONAL choice as to why people decide to seek sex with another person outside their relationship, and PERSONAL choice if you wish to play with people who do so without their partners knowledge or consent.
But to slag other people off for doing so is not on, and to start flinging names and slurs about because you have suffered personally from a cheating partner, and tarring everyone with the same brush, smacks of bullying. The people who do what they do are not freaks or monsters, they are people, with feelings, and as such deserve respect, civility and manners, as a basic human right.
I am appalled that in this day and age, people can be judged so badly by people that they have never even met, and that such negetive feelings can be spewed forth without so much a s a by your leave. A lot of people have been very hurt by comments on this thread, and it seems that the original OP has skipped off after lighting the blue touch paper.
We cannot all be fortunate enough to be in a perfect relationship, and for everything to be hunky dory, i have said it before, and will say it again....there but for the grace of god go any of us.
And I hope that those who have spat bile and venom on this thread, never need any support or sympathy at any time, and be shot down in flames like some people have been on here.
Great post, have a
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