As a fairly new kid on the block spare me any ridicule if it seems a stupid question!
Annette says to me no reason to spoil your fun because the time of the month prevents me from going to any meets. So why don't you go along and maybe arrange a swng for us while your there. I pointed out to her that most of the adds on here ask for single guys! or couples obviously!
My question is do i need to divorce first?

The real question is...... are the ads for single guys because the women fear complications? Must admit our open relationship is probably unusual but thats how lucky I am. Annette loves watching as well as joining in by the way but she is nervous.............her solution send me first let me look the prat when no-one shows up LOL