where is your prefered place to meet someone new ?
i have met in a pub, at a club, at someones house and at a shopping centre. i guess as every meet different the meeting place is not that important but is there a preference ?
Are males, females and couples different in where they like to meet ?
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Orgasminator
I prefer to meet in a public place usually.
I also make sure my friends know where Im going and arrange to message them with a certain symbol.
Having said that I did once arrange for someone to pick me up from home. Luckily he turned out to be quite "normal"
I also make sure my friends know where Im going and arrange to message them with a certain symbol.
Having said that I did once arrange for someone to pick me up from home. Luckily he turned out to be quite "normal"
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Any of the above places can be used for the first meet, but as dee has said,its where both parties feel safe,especially if it's a lone female.
Id also recommend that every single person and couples to, for that matter, let's at least one reliable person,know where they are going,what time and who they are going to meet.
In this day and age no one can be too careful,but then again it's a documented fact that most people are harmed by someone they know well,sometimes even family members.
So, I'd recommend not meeting anyone you know, but rather,make sure its a guy/girl/couple who has a shovel in the boot and an axe in the back seat
Aint statistics, so daft sometimes
Id also recommend that every single person and couples to, for that matter, let's at least one reliable person,know where they are going,what time and who they are going to meet.
In this day and age no one can be too careful,but then again it's a documented fact that most people are harmed by someone they know well,sometimes even family members.
So, I'd recommend not meeting anyone you know, but rather,make sure its a guy/girl/couple who has a shovel in the boot and an axe in the back seat
Aint statistics, so daft sometimes
Orgasminator
Quote by woohoo
Any of the above places can be used for the first meet, but as dee has said,its where both parties feel safe,especially if it's a lone female.
Id also recommend that every single person and couples to, for that matter, let's at least one reliable person,know where they are going,what time and who they are going to meet.
In this day and age no one can be too careful,but then again it's a documented fact that most people are harmed by someone they know well,sometimes even family members.
So, I'd recommend not meeting anyone you know, but rather,make sure its a guy/girl/couple who has a shovel in the boot and an axe in the back seat
Aint statistics, so daft sometimes
Kat is my reliable person :thumbup:
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Quote by dee_licious
Any of the above places can be used for the first meet, but as dee has said,its where both parties feel safe,especially if it's a lone female.
Id also recomend that every single person and couples to, for that matter, let's at least one reliable person,know where they are going,what time and who they are going to meet.
In this day and age no one can be too careful,but then again it's a documented fact that most people are harmed by someone they know well,sometimes even family members.
So, I'd recomend not meeting anyone you know, but rather,make sure its a guy/girl/couple who has a shovel in the boot and an axe in the back seat
Aint statistics, so daft sometimes
Kat is my reliable person :thumbup:
ffs Dee Il look oot for you standing at the side of the road holding your knickers in your hand then :lol:
Orgasminator
Quote by woohoo
Any of the above places can be used for the first meet, but as dee has said,its where both parties feel safe,especially if it's a lone female.
Id also recomend that every single person and couples to, for that matter, let's at least one reliable person,know where they are going,what time and who they are going to meet.
In this day and age no one can be too careful,but then again it's a documented fact that most people are harmed by someone they know well,sometimes even family members.
So, I'd recomend not meeting anyone you know, but rather,make sure its a guy/girl/couple who has a shovel in the boot and an axe in the back seat
Aint statistics, so daft sometimes
Kat is my reliable person :thumbup:
ffs Dee Il look oot for you standing at the side of the road holding your knickers in your hand then :lol:
Whats knickers
:wink: 
Orgasminator
I don't often meet now, but if I do meet, it be at clubs, pubs or hotel near me, if meeting at hotel, I first arrange to meet at a pub near hotel, to suss things out, if we get on then, we move to hotel, but I also let someone know ( parents, my brother) where I am, and also ring them when I get there, I always have a plan or back up, if it don't work out.
Sexpert
We met at a pub for just a "quick drink" 3 years ago
Ever since then she has kept me locked in a box under the stairs!
Ever since then she has kept me locked in a box under the stairs!
pub...for a quick drink can be useful and is good open public place.
Piece of advice I was given once was good....arrange it so all parties know before hand...but say after about 20 mins are whatever time...you will go toilet...and you will be 5 mins !!! If they wish to leave then no hard feeling, and maybe easier than saying no face to face.....equally if you not back in 5 mins...its you that is saying no and you have left out the back door....and no hard feelings again. If you return and they still there, then its game on.
Piece of advice I was given once was good....arrange it so all parties know before hand...but say after about 20 mins are whatever time...you will go toilet...and you will be 5 mins !!! If they wish to leave then no hard feeling, and maybe easier than saying no face to face.....equally if you not back in 5 mins...its you that is saying no and you have left out the back door....and no hard feelings again. If you return and they still there, then its game on.
Orgasminator
Quote by deancannock
pub...for a quick drink can be useful and is good open public place.
Piece of advice I was given once was good....arrange it so all parties know before hand...but say after about 20 mins are whatever time...you will go toilet...and you will be 5 mins !!! If they wish to leave then no hard feeling, and maybe easier than saying no face to face.....equally if you not back in 5 mins...its you that is saying no and you have left out the back door....and no hard feelings again. If you return and they still there, then its game on.
Good advice :thumbup:
Warming the Bed
Definately can't beat a pub halfway home from a social
