I`ve met a lady on two occassions now after a good while chatting on msn,we both wind each other up about what we are going to do to each other when next we meet...but as we meet in a quite discreet area and after lots of small talk we never seem to get anywhere,we just talk .Don`t get me wrong the talk is good everything but sex,although on the last meet we did sort of skirt around this and a lot of inuendo was bandied about..
question is are we both just kidding ourselves on or are we basically the type of people who have to build up a more than passing aquaitance before indulging in anything more?
and if we are ,are we wasting our time or are we building towards something that either one of us or both of us may not have counted on?
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Talking is one thing, doing is another. You both have to feel comfortable for something to happen.
Do you feel like you want to have sex with her? Does she know it? Is there chemistry/sexual tension between you two when you are close to each other? Have you tried running the back of your finger against her cheek, looking her deep in the eyes and saying something like 'you do look so lovely tonight'? Have you held her hands? Did she let you or did she draw back? Have you whispered in her ear? Have you played with her hair?
What I am trying to say here is you have to make your intentions clear. She could be just shy or unsure of how you feel about her. Or she could like you as a friend and nothing more. Whatever you do, do it with gusto so that you have nothing to feel embarrassed about later if it turns out she is not interested in taking things further.
I hope you two soon sort your feelings out. All the best!
Do you feel like you want to have sex with her? Does she know it? Is there chemistry/sexual tension between you two when you are close to each other? Have you tried running the back of your finger against her cheek, looking her deep in the eyes and saying something like 'you do look so lovely tonight'? Have you held her hands? Did she let you or did she draw back? Have you whispered in her ear? Have you played with her hair?
What I am trying to say here is you have to make your intentions clear. She could be just shy or unsure of how you feel about her. Or she could like you as a friend and nothing more. Whatever you do, do it with gusto so that you have nothing to feel embarrassed about later if it turns out she is not interested in taking things further.
I hope you two soon sort your feelings out. All the best!
