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Hi all
Hope this is the right section?
I used to be in a swinging relationship which we both enjoyed but for several reasons (not swinging related)it split up few years back.
So I have dated and had girlfriends but even after 'discussions' in and out of bed I've not had the fortune to meet someone who understands the scene or wishes to participate !
So my question is
How do I go about searching for a single woman who has been/is into the scene ?
Any sites to recommend?etc etc
P x
this could, at a stretch... be an appropriate place. posibly
lp
There was a "spin off"- heaven dating- which I think may have gone the same way as Eldorado.
However, update things accordingly, and you may find that if you stop looking and start socialising you'll find yourself a kindred spirit.
Good luck, and :welcome:

am I a mod yet? Sigh.
Tall - check
Good looking - check
articulate - check
own place - check
sexual organs - check
over 24 - check
perhaps I should just test ride you then I can recommend you to all the single ladies that are on here...... ?
Ummm as long as he doesn't find out before I fuck him that I don't actually tell anyone apart from BIoke who I have sex with... it should be alright.. shouldn't it ?
Quote by Witchy
There was a "spin off"- heaven dating- which I think may have gone the same way as Eldorado.
However, update things accordingly, and you may find that if you stop looking and start socialising you'll find yourself a kindred spirit.
Good luck, and :welcome:

am I a mod yet? Sigh.

no
lp
Thank for the quick and helpful replies x
I will try to 'join in a bit' but its a tough one not to come across as just wanting a shag... I dont have any trouble picking up women lol but I am looking for a bit more and as some will know the fun in the swing is sometimes not with others but discussing what we would like to do and also when we have been out dogging or parties then having the horny sex after x
So do you suggest an ad style of post or just trying to build a rapport with certain singles and hope it goes further than a quickie ha ha
Any munch or socials coming up I should attend ??
Thanks again keep suggestions coming !
P
Quote by splendid_
Tall - check
Good looking - check
articulate - check
own place - check
sexual organs - check
over 24 - check
perhaps I should just test ride you then I can recommend you to all the single ladies that are on here...... ?
You're making me want to check...
Ummm as long as he doesn't find out before I fuck him that I don't actually tell anyone apart from BIoke who I have sex with... it should be alright.. shouldn't it ?
I really screwed up that quoting. But I noticed, which means I need another rum...
apologies wink
In edit, damn you rolo, dashing all my hopes...
changed the pic just for Mrs Whips ha ha !
:welcome: to the forum.
There are lots of munches and socials advertised in the Let's Meet Up and Club Meets forums - you could get your name down for one of them.
Or you could just keep nattering in here and am sure some of the female forumites will make you feel at home :rascal:
Quote by Witchy
In edit, damn you rolo, dashing all my hopes...

It's not really dashing your hopes. It's really INCREASING the likelyhood of your promotion. Think about it... should it appear that they not only have a 'bad-un' onside (you), but that you can be pissed off with individuals (me) youre virtually made for the role.
And we alll know how you like your role-play dont we?
should suit you rather well.... face it, youve been waiting for this moment for years... don't blow it now
lp
Welcome P
There is a social in Nottingham this Friday that is advertised in Lets Meet Up. Contact the organisor and see if there are any spaces left
Dave_Notts
Quote by splendid_
Tall - check
Good looking - check
articulate - check
own place - check
sexual organs - check
over 24 - check
perhaps I should just test ride you then I can recommend you to all the single ladies that are on here...... ?
Ummm as long as he doesn't find out before I fuck him that I don't actually tell anyone apart from BIoke who I have sex with... it should be alright.. shouldn't it ?

Got a pulse- check
bolt
Quote by kentswingers777
Tall - check
Good looking - check
articulate - check
own place - check
sexual organs - check
over 24 - check
perhaps I should just test ride you then I can recommend you to all the single ladies that are on here...... ?
Ummm as long as he doesn't find out before I fuck him that I don't actually tell anyone apart from BIoke who I have sex with... it should be alright.. shouldn't it ?

Got a pulse- check
bolt
So which of the counts rules you out Kent? You do have a pulse, don't you?
Op, ditch the "lonely." You may well be, but here is not the place to express it wink
I think I'd quite like an apathy emote on the 'How I'm Feeling' label.
Could be called 'ugh'. :crazy:
lol
*asks to add own teeth and hair to check list*
That should keep some out, if the pulse thing doesn't! ;) :lol:
On topic, I'd say you had the right idea getting to know people and joining in a bit with forum, chat and munches. Best of luck.
eerrrm this site has single women lol
yeah choochie you sex on legs lol
honestly are some great woman here and ive been very lucky to meet them or take them to in the chatroom and get the banter going you'll so find those who chat to you and say hello when you enter the room.
its not an over night thing, you got to work at it and enjoy it but if you get it right the company and rewards are worth it in the long run.
good luck.
Never knew Vin Diesel was a member ffs there you go eh rolleyes
Get your profile up on internet dating sites and without saying that you want to meet a swinger !!!!!
Just make some veiled and suggestive comments in your profile about your likes and dislikes.
You could refer to "au naturel" beaches and you could refer to being "tolerant and liberal minded." What about alluding to the fact that life is short and wanting to find someone to share adventures, sexy times and loving moments.
There are ways of being suggestive without scaring people away - and like minded people will get the message.
I met BB on here....go in the chatrooms, be yourself, have fun......simples
where's the Orlov icon?