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I think this is happening more and more. Not just in clubs but when meeting up when on a normal night out or a date,. I think its a combo between STD risks at such promiscuous clubs and probably more the fact that it takes more 'effort' to fuck as opposed to being sucked off. Also , some guys are under the illusion you cant catch an STD from oral, silly f**kers!.. (or not as the case may be )
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Orgasminator
Also see the 'Tugging in clubs' forum post - much the same thing....
http://www.swingingheaven.co.uk/swingers-forum/viewtopic/306949.html
http://www.swingingheaven.co.uk/swingers-forum/viewtopic/306949.html
Yes it happens a lot reasons could be they carnt fook with a condom on which in our experance lots go soft as soon as you say condom another is they wanna be swingers but just dont fook they wanna watch and even have a bj thats fine but if they fook you then they have croseed the line but if they just wank and watch they can go home and honestly say ive not been unfaithful to you my dear lol
Just because a guy only wants to watch, don't meen they have a problem!
I'm only a voyeur and often happy to watch a greedy girl having fun at a club but would have no intention of joining in :smile:
Maybe some of them guys are -:- just voyeurs -:- only play 1 on 1 -:- have just had a play -:- shy -:- just don't see nothing that takes there fancy even.. it does happen! but don't meen anything is wrong.
And just to clarify, I only watch, not stand pulling my pudding
Tony ;-)
I'm only a voyeur and often happy to watch a greedy girl having fun at a club but would have no intention of joining in :smile:
Maybe some of them guys are -:- just voyeurs -:- only play 1 on 1 -:- have just had a play -:- shy -:- just don't see nothing that takes there fancy even.. it does happen! but don't meen anything is wrong.
And just to clarify, I only watch, not stand pulling my pudding
Tony ;-)
well id argue that if youre in a relationship and you go to certain "functions" without your other halfs knowlegde and you "just wank off" then id say that was being unfaithful regardless... If i was in a relationship and my gf went and "just fingered herself in front of other guys" then id feel she was being unfaithful (reckon i may like it though but hey 
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on another note, if these guys want to just watch, twitch their towels or actually get a BJ then thats up to them. I dont see a problem, as long as they dont force the issue on someone else who isnt on the same wavelength, If its your bag then its your bag!.
)on another note, if these guys want to just watch, twitch their towels or actually get a BJ then thats up to them. I dont see a problem, as long as they dont force the issue on someone else who isnt on the same wavelength, If its your bag then its your bag!.
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Quote by Ben_welshminx
fair pints well made magik, wavelength is a great word.
Wavelength is a great word. And an even better concept.
I don't really see this as a problem as such. I think sex has infinite variety and if some folk just like watching then what's the issue?
Quote by Kaznkev
I wonder how many married men use the "i dont fuck" a way to excuse infidelity?
Used to work with a guy who tried it on with just about every woman in the office. He wasn't interested in fucking, but was up for everything else. When somebody asked him, it was cos his missus would detach any loosely attached bodily items if he ever shagged anybody else.
That was the only thing he promised not to do, so he felt that all other sexual acts were acceptable.
I've also heard other excuses, like the men are still recharging from earlier, or the best one.... saving himself incase a good looking woman came into the club.
pmsl and he lived to watch another day lol
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Quote by Ian
I wonder how many married men use the "i dont fuck" a way to excuse infidelity?
Used to work with a guy who tried it on with just about every woman in the office. He wasn't interested in fucking, but was up for everything else. When somebody asked him, it was cos his missus would detach any loosely attached bodily items if he ever shagged anybody else.
That was the only thing he promised not to do, so he felt that all other sexual acts were acceptable.
I've also heard other excuses, like the men are still recharging from earlier, or the best one.... saving himself incase a good looking woman came into the club.
pmsl and he lived to watch another day lol
So you've met Brucie, then? :roll:
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So you've met Brucie, then?
Careful ;-)
i think its just lack of experience in greedy girl sessions. i don't feel comfortable enough at them, to know i could guarantee a performance. and i think that's the main reason guys can't perform. but i wouldn't say i wasn't interested in a shag.
they can be a right old scrum at times, with the more accomplished getting most of the action simply because they are better suited to it. usually they know the girls well.
i've done okay with a greedy girl doing a mass wank and suck off.
they can be a right old scrum at times, with the more accomplished getting most of the action simply because they are better suited to it. usually they know the girls well.
i've done okay with a greedy girl doing a mass wank and suck off.
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i think its just lack of experience in greedy girl sessions. i don't feel comfortable enough at them, to know i could guarantee a performance. and i think that's the main reason guys can't perform. but i wouldn't say i wasn't interested in a shag.
they can be a right old scrum at times, with the more accomplished getting most of the action simply because they are better suited to it. usually they know the girls well.
i've done okay with a greedy girl doing a mass wank and suck off.
ha haaaa brilliant post Duncs
Sex God
Maybe some guys dont want sloppy 6th or 16th.
Orgasminator
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Lovely openness and honesty dunc. I am not a penis I am a human being. Like it.
And windows to perv through, was my idea!.
I am a PC !
Watersports was my idea.
I am a WC!
:laughabove::laughabove::laughabove::laughabove::laughabove::laughabove:
Wine meets monitor moment
What a waste!
:lol: *Her*
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Quote by couplefunuk
Lovely openness and honesty dunc. I am not a penis I am a human being. Like it.
And windows to perv through, was my idea!.
I am a PC !
Watersports was my idea.
I am a WC!
:laughabove::laughabove::laughabove::laughabove::laughabove::laughabove:
Wine meets monitor moment
What a waste!
:lol: *Her*
Learn to swallow then!
Quote by BIoke
So is 'cocklength'.... is that a word?
I fuck who and when I want to, simples(and obviously when they want to too!)
Glad you added the last bit!
We've encountered couples before where the woman is happy to play but the man isn't allowed to fuck. Seems a bit unfair but each to there own. Just not our idea of fun.