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On the back of the rant that has been going on in the Steam room, about pm's being sent from someone who left the site and then sent a pm unexpectedly, I would like to nick that idea, officially, and turn it on its head.
So. A few weeks ago I was looking at the list of members during the "who's in your threesome" thread. And I noticed someone on the list who I had not seen posting for ages.... I checked by clicking on their name, found "all post" and sure enough it had been months..
So i clicked on the pm button and typed off a quick ... Hiya, aint seen you in ages, type of 2 line pm.
Bugger me.. got a pm back! This person hadn't been on SH for months, but the "pm notification" popped up in her email tray. So she was nosey and took a look... and replied.
Don't think from what she said though that she'll be back redface.... but it was nice to catch up with her again.
So. Kind of like Dawns "pm a stranger" thread, but not a stranger, an old forum buddy... just someone you remember from a while back and have noticed missing. You never know... they might just reply. If they do, flag it up here with any details you want..
Now all i need is for Happy Cats to piss off for a couple of months (or 6) ....and I'll pm him!
Quote by postie
On the back of the rant that has been going on in the Steam room, about pm's being sent from someone who left the site and then sent a pm unexpectedly, I would like to nick that idea, officially, and turn it on its head.
So. A few weeks ago I was looking at the list of members during the "who's in your threesome" thread. And I noticed someone on the list who I had not seen posting for ages.... I checked by clicking on their name, found "all post" and sure enough it had been months..
So i clicked on the pm button and typed off a quick ... Hiya, aint seen you in ages, type of 2 line pm.
Bugger me.. got a pm back! This person hadn't been on SH for months, but the "pm notification" popped up in her email tray. So she was nosey and took a look... and replied.
Don't think from what she said though that she'll be back redface.... but it was nice to catch up with her again.
So. Kind of like Dawns "pm a stranger" thread, but not a stranger, an old forum buddy... just someone you remember from a while back and have noticed missing. You never know... they might just reply. If they do, flag it up here with any details you want..
Now all i need is for Happy Cats to piss off for a couple of months (or 6) ....and I'll pm him!

Great idea.
Although I do have stuff in my outbox that's been there for ages.
Oy, Wilmaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa!!! lol
Libra-love has been missing for a bit ?
Posting as someone who can disappear from the site for a few days at a time (mainly weekdays), I welcome it. Friendly missing-you/how-are-you PMs are good. Ok, so it's not quite the same as not coming on for weeks/months but it's the same point.
Not seen me old mate X-man for a while, must have been a rush for Ali G-o-grams
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Not seen me old mate X-man for a while, must have been a rush for Ali G-o-grams

:lol2: :lol2: :lol2: :lol2: :lol2: :lol2:
I have no mates :cry:
Quote by markz
I have no mates :cry:

then use Durex instead
Quote by bushwackers
Libra-love has been missing for a bit ?

Libra Love is alive and well and gorgeous as ever. She is busy on another site since being asked to leave this one.
Postie - interesting idea but I think it has been going on for a while anyway - I gather that some people PM others who have not posted much in a while - just to see if they have been banned or not. It's happened to me...and I hear it has happened to others. Let's face it - if you aren't banned you will check your PMs out of sheer curiosity, whether you post a lot or not. It's easy to spot these nosey ones - cos they don't reply to the PM you send them back - seems once they know you are still active they are not as concerned as they appeared in the first PM. rolleyes
Quote by SunBunny
Libra-love has been missing for a bit ?

Libra Love is alive and well and gorgeous as ever. She is busy on another site since being asked to leave this one.
She was BANNED for a reason though ... a valid one at that so I hear.
Quote by Wishmaster
Libra-love has been missing for a bit ?

Libra Love is alive and well and gorgeous as ever. She is busy on another site since being asked to leave this one.
She was BANNED for a reason though ... a valid one at that so I hear.
Did I say there wasnt a valid reason?
I was merely telling Bushwhackers how she was, not arguing her ban.
After all - it's the MODS who decide who stays and who goes, isn't it? It's not really up to us, is it, if we think it is VALID or not.
What a lovely idea... as someone who dissappeared for good reason for about 9 months and has just come back I have been trying to say hello to people who may or may not remember that they ever spoke to me.
I am sure that a few messages got binned on the basis of crazy wierdo PM'ing me out of the blue.. but thats fine, you can't expect to pick something up where you left off after neglecting it for 9 months!
BTW I did have a few people check I was ok... and say hello. But then I also posted on the forum that I had a GF and explained why I would be away. And since I came back I have been explaining the reverse redface :shock: cool
So hello, PM's to people I forgot about, and my how things change yet stay the same.
Quote by SunBunny
Libra-love has been missing for a bit ?

Libra Love is alive and well and gorgeous as ever. She is busy on another site since being asked to leave this one.
Postie - interesting idea but I think it has been going on for a while anyway - I gather that some people PM others who have not posted much in a while - just to see if they have been banned or not. It's happened to me...and I hear it has happened to others. Let's face it - if you aren't banned you will check your PMs out of sheer curiosity, whether you post a lot or not. It's easy to spot these nosey ones - cos they don't reply to the PM you send them back - seems once they know you are still active they are not as concerned as they appeared in the first PM. rolleyes
We'll I for one am not going to lose any sleep whatsoever about Libra being banned, it was long overdue in my opinion.
Whether you siad it was valid or not, I don't rightly care... but if she is "busy" on another site, it wont be long before she starts pissing people off there too with her high and mighty attitude....
And then you said this:
Quote by sunbunny
After all - it's the MODS who decide who stays and who goes, isn't it? It's not really up to us, is it, if we think it is VALID or not.

Well done for stating the flamin' obvious. Am I missing the sly dig at someone here??? Iit feels like you are, and by reading you posts lately, it seems to be your forte, but for the life of me, I am missing it on this one....
Say hi to Libra for me when you see her.. if she aint to busy "working"....
We'll I for one am not going to lose any sleep whatsoever about Libra being banned, it was long overdue in my opinion.
Whether you siad it was valid or not, I don't rightly care... but if she is "busy" on another site, it wont be long before she starts pissing people off there too with her high and mighty attitude....
Oh and you don't have an attitude postie????
After all - it's the MODS who decide who stays and who goes, isn't it? It's not really up to us, is it, if we think it is VALID or not.
Well done for stating the flamin' obvious. Am I missing the sly dig at someone here??? Iit feels like you are, and by reading you posts lately, it seems to be your forte, but for the life of me, I am missing it on this one....
I was replying to wishmasters very rapid response to my post - Libra Love doesnt know herself why she was banned, so I was surprised that he did, and found his post very unecessary and irrelevant to the thread.
Say hi to Libra for me when you see her.. if she aint to busy "working"....
Miaow
Quote by SunBunny
Libra-love has been missing for a bit ?

Libra Love is alive and well and gorgeous as ever. She is busy on another site since being asked to leave this one.
She was BANNED for a reason though ... a valid one at that so I hear.
Did I say there wasnt a valid reason?
I was merely telling Bushwhackers how she was, not arguing her ban.
After all - it's the MODS who decide who stays and who goes, isn't it? It's not really up to us, is it, if we think it is VALID or not.
Whatever she did that's a pity.
Lets get this thread back on track. If you have anything else to say then please take it else where, such as the steam room. biggrin
Quote by postie
On the back of the rant that has been going on in the Steam room, about pm's being sent from someone who left the site and then sent a pm unexpectedly, I would like to nick that idea, officially, and turn it on its head.
So. A few weeks ago I was looking at the list of members during the "who's in your threesome" thread. And I noticed someone on the list who I had not seen posting for ages.... I checked by clicking on their name, found "all post" and sure enough it had been months..
So i clicked on the pm button and typed off a quick ... Hiya, aint seen you in ages, type of 2 line pm.
Bugger me.. got a pm back! This person hadn't been on SH for months, but the "pm notification" popped up in her email tray. So she was nosey and took a look... and replied.
Don't think from what she said though that she'll be back redface.... but it was nice to catch up with her again.
So. Kind of like Dawns "pm a stranger" thread, but not a stranger, an old forum buddy... just someone you remember from a while back and have noticed missing. You never know... they might just reply. If they do, flag it up here with any details you want..
Now all i need is for Happy Cats to piss off for a couple of months (or 6) ....and I'll pm him!
Quote by postie
Now all i need is for Happy Cats to piss off for a couple of months (or 6) ....and I'll pm him!

I pmmed with Happy Cats the other evening and I'm still alive :bounce: :bounce: :bounce:
fair enough.... just deleted a whole rant though!
Quote by postie
fair enough.... just deleted a whole rant though!

I hadn't read it yet.... BUM!
:shock:
Think I'll PM Gilbert, just on the off-chance. rotflmao
Quote by Dawn_Mids
Now all i need is for Happy Cats to piss off for a couple of months (or 6) ....and I'll pm him!

I pmmed with Happy Cats the other evening and I'm still alive :bounce: :bounce: :bounce:
See you tonight!
wink
Quote by Happy Cats
Now all i need is for Happy Cats to piss off for a couple of months (or 6) ....and I'll pm him!

I pmmed with Happy Cats the other evening and I'm still alive :bounce: :bounce: :bounce:
See you tonight!
wink
Isn't that a threat??? lol
I shall look forward to it MCB!
Quote by postie
Now all i need is for Happy Cats to piss off for a couple of months (or 6) ....and I'll pm him!

I pmmed with Happy Cats the other evening and I'm still alive :bounce: :bounce: :bounce:
See you tonight!
wink
Isn't that a threat??? lol
I shall look forward to it MCB!
I wasnt talking to you, fudge!
Quote by Happy Cats
Now all i need is for Happy Cats to piss off for a couple of months (or 6) ....and I'll pm him!

I pmmed with Happy Cats the other evening and I'm still alive :bounce: :bounce: :bounce:
See you tonight!
wink
Isn't that a threat??? lol
I shall look forward to it MCB!
I wasnt talking to you, fudge!
Thank feck for that... thought for a minute i might have to talk to you agian! rolleyes
Quote by postie
Now all i need is for Happy Cats to piss off for a couple of months (or 6) ....and I'll pm him!

I pmmed with Happy Cats the other evening and I'm still alive :bounce: :bounce: :bounce:
See you tonight!
wink
Isn't that a threat??? lol
I shall look forward to it MCB!
I wasnt talking to you, fudge!
Thank feck for that... thought for a minute i might have to talk to you agian! rolleyes
Youre chaperoning me!
Quote by meat2pleaseu
I have no mates :cry:

then use Durex instead
Oi :shock: :shock: I was just about to say that doh cant ever be quick enough to get in with a line hahahahahahaha
Quote by Happy Cats
Now all i need is for Happy Cats to piss off for a couple of months (or 6) ....and I'll pm him!

I pmmed with Happy Cats the other evening and I'm still alive :bounce: :bounce: :bounce:
See you tonight!
wink
Isn't that a threat??? lol
I shall look forward to it MCB!
I wasnt talking to you, fudge!
Thank feck for that... thought for a minute i might have to talk to you agian! rolleyes
Youre chaperoning me!
Postie - I'm scared :eeek:
Can you find me a chaperone please (other than Ian, obviously :rollsmile
Quote by Ice Pie
Think I'll PM Gilbert, just on the off-chance. rotflmao

smackbottom :smackbottom: :smackbottom: Naughty Ice lol
Shireen
xxx
Dawn my hun kiss
How about a sticky with the title of :- Where are they Now
Have not thought it out as I will leave it to the people who have the brains and reside in higher places on SH lol
I am sure there is an Administration Office in the confines of SH :!: :!:
Fred (keeps his vow but adds " I luvs ya hun)
Just out of curiousity, has anyone heard from Bailiffs at all recently? Haven't seen her on here for a while. dunno