So. A few weeks ago I was looking at the list of members during the "who's in your threesome" thread. And I noticed someone on the list who I had not seen posting for ages.... I checked by clicking on their name, found "all post" and sure enough it had been months..
So i clicked on the pm button and typed off a quick ... Hiya, aint seen you in ages, type of 2 line pm.
Bugger me.. got a pm back! This person hadn't been on SH for months, but the "pm notification" popped up in her email tray. So she was nosey and took a look... and replied.
Don't think from what she said though that she'll be back

So. Kind of like Dawns "pm a stranger" thread, but not a stranger, an old forum buddy... just someone you remember from a while back and have noticed missing. You never know... they might just reply. If they do, flag it up here with any details you want..
Now all i need is for Happy Cats to piss off for a couple of months (or 6) ....and I'll pm him!