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O goodie! say`s I - I`ve got a PM!
According to the e-mail received today (Mon 7th), timed at
But, Loh! when I checked my In-Box there was nothing there. Nothing other than the PM I received on the 3rd Nov` welcoming me to the site after I`d registered ... for which I`d already received - and deleted e-mail notification on the 3rd.
Bit of a mystery - bit of diaappointment too - never mind eh! :cry:
If somebody sends you a PM you'll get the email. If they later decide to change their mind and delete the PM from their outbox before you've read it then when you log on to check it won't be there.
Mystery solved.
switch off your email warning in your profile. seems like a great idea at first, then you get into a PM conversation with someone and find 50 new emails waiting for you telling you you've just had a PM conversation with someone :doh:
Quote by Deviated Prevert
If somebody sends you a PM you'll get the email. If they later decide to change their mind and delete the PM from their outbox before you've read it then when you log on to check it won't be there.
Mystery solved.

Bloody annoying when that happens though! It has me thinking for ages why someone would send me something and then decide to unsend it, if you get what I mean.
I still get excited when I get the email to say I have a PM..... how sad am I?! loon biggrin
lol
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Bloody annoying when that happens though! It has me thinking for ages why someone would send me something and then decide to unsend it, if you get what I mean.
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That was the first thing that went through my mind when I heard about this phenomenon (not had it happen to me yet, probably because I don't get many PMs). I imagine that the PMs end up in some well hidden repository accessable only to those with mod keys, or possibly only the BBD himself.
My guess is they send it when under the influence and then when they sober up (remember they have a wife maybe?) they panic and change their minds and rush to their computer to delete it before having a cup of tea to get over the mess they nearly got into!!!!
its like that game we used to play as kids knocking on peps doors and running away. biggrin
Quote by Deviated Prevert
If somebody sends you a PM you'll get the email. If they later decide to change their mind and delete the PM from their outbox before you've read it then when you log on to check it won't be there.
Mystery solved.

Cheers DP, everyone! I moderate on another site and know how it all works. Suffice to say, that the `culprit` in this particular case has confessed all - and has more than made up for for their error - to err is human...
I have been greatly cheered - a very happy North Star... smile
Quote by Deviated Prevert

Bloody annoying when that happens though! It has me thinking for ages why someone would send me something and then decide to unsend it, if you get what I mean.
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That was the first thing that went through my mind when I heard about this phenomenon (not had it happen to me yet, probably because I don't get many PMs). I imagine that the PMs end up in some well hidden repository accessable only to those with mod keys, or possibly only the BBD himself.
Just a quickie for clarification. PM's, Private Messages, cannot be read by the Mods at all.
Mal
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I just deleted a PM I sent.
I was PMming to ask this member for their email address, then Reese told me he already had this persons email address.
I deleted the PM.
Just so you know, sometimes there are non-alcohol related reasons.
You could still have left it.
I'd have answered.
btw - it's
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I think, just for the crack, that all those who post saying they had an email but no PM should by PM'ed by everyone else, and then delete the Pm's :twisted: :twisted: :twisted: :twisted:
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I think, just for the crack, that all those who post saying they had an email but no PM should by PM'ed by everyone else, and then delete the Pm's :twisted: :twisted: :twisted: :twisted:

So what are we supposed to be doing confused :crazy:
I have to email, then pm, then email, then delete ?:crazy:
Sam xxxxxxxxxxxxxxx
Quote by Mal

Bloody annoying when that happens though! It has me thinking for ages why someone would send me something and then decide to unsend it, if you get what I mean.
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That was the first thing that went through my mind when I heard about this phenomenon (not had it happen to me yet, probably because I don't get many PMs). I imagine that the PMs end up in some well hidden repository accessable only to those with mod keys, or possibly only the BBD himself.
Just a quickie for clarification. PM's, Private Messages, cannot be read by the Mods at all.
Mal
wink

Sorry Mal, I should have thought for a moment, I know mods don't normally have access to the PM system.
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So what are we supposed to be doing confused :crazy:
I have to email, then pm, then email, then delete ?:crazy:
Sam xxxxxxxxxxxxxxx

Send 'em a PM - the system sends an email to tell them they have a PM - you delete the PM from your out box as soon as it's sent.
They get the email, log in to read PM - ha-hah! --- no PM!
Annoyance factor - Large biggrin :shock: wink
:crazy:
Sam xxxxxxxxxxxxxx
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:crazy:
Sam xxxxxxxxxxxxxx

Are you blonde by any chance - lmao biggrin lol :D :shock: wink
I think I did it ........... but I am not absolutely certain :crazy:
Sam xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx
Quote by blonde
I think I did it ........... but I am not absolutely certain :crazy:
Sam xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx

No, I got the PM before you deleted it wink
Quote by Jon
I think I did it ........... but I am not absolutely certain :crazy:
Sam xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx

No, I got the PM before you deleted it wink
bugger !!! .......... but u didnt get the next 3 did ya ? :giggle:
R u cross yet ?
Sam xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx
Nor the emails 'cause I don't have the email notification enabled :P wink
U mean I did all that for nothing ? :doh:
Sam xxxxxxxxxxxxxx
I am stilll waiting for thrill of getting a pm!
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U mean I did all that for nothing ? :doh:
Sam xxxxxxxxxxxxxx

rotflmao :rotflmao: :rotflmao: :rotflmao: :rotflmao: :rotflmao: :rotflmao: :rotflmao:
there's always one, and their usually blonde :giggle:
I discovered a variation on this theme over the weekend.
Usually when you send a PM it resides in yer Outbox until the recipient opens it and then it transfers to yer Sentbox - right? Simple so far.
Well I sent two over the weekend which disappeared altogther. On enquiring, I was told this could happen if the recipient deleted the PM without reading it :shock: :shock: :shock: To say the bottom fell out of me world was a bit of an understatement - I thought reading me PMs can't be that much of an abhorrent experience!!!
It turned out that they had been transferred to the recipients Saved Box ready for later - what a relief! lol :lol:
I was starting to check me armpits fer foul smells and things!!
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U mean I did all that for nothing ? :doh:
Sam xxxxxxxxxxxxxx

rotflmao :rotflmao: :rotflmao: :rotflmao: :rotflmao: :rotflmao: :rotflmao: :rotflmao:
there's always one, and their usually blonde :giggle:

Oi ............ cheeky ! :giggle:
Sam xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx
Quote by Vix
I just deleted a PM I sent.
I was PMming to ask this member for their email address, then Reese told me he already had this persons email address.
I deleted the PM.
Just so you know, sometimes there are non-alcohol related reasons.

maybe not drink related - but surely halucinagenics are involved somewhere redface
Tell you what! If you`re female, aged 50 ... no let`s change that - aged 40 to 60, feel free to PM me any time you want...
You might even get a reply!
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Damn it, I was so hoping by the title of this thread I'd be reading that Blair had been kidnapped...