MMMmmm... Big girls on TV tonight!

29 Nov 2004

I think that there are plenty of men that prefer larger ladies and they should therefore feel comfortable with themselves in that knowledge.
There are plenty of slim women who are very insecure about their bodies, some may be obsessively vain others may just be naturally lackking in confidence.
I would nt describe liking a larger man or woman as a fetish, just as their personal preference. There isnt a set criteria for attractiveness â€“ larger women (or men) should remember that! wink

30 Nov 2004

Quote by celticq
]I would guess there are lots who are perhaps less happy and more self concious.

That would be me then
CQ~
However can you say that, when you know there are so many here that literally worship you?! :smitten:
~Reese! surprised

30 Nov 2004

You only have to go to a party to see how little size and shape really matters, it's confidence that does the trick, if you have a sexy attitude people will be attracted to you. I've only been to two parties so far but at both there were larger men and ladies (me included) and we all got plenty of very positive attention, nobody was looking in disgust because we may have the odd extra-curvy bit on us! I certainly wasn't thinking 'eww he/she is fat I'm not playing with them!'
It is only natural to be attracted to a certain 'type' but as long as it's not to the exclusion of all others you won't miss out on some fantastic experiences. Some of the best experiences I have had were with people I wasn't immediately attracted to at first, so you never know until you try!

30 Nov 2004

Quote by MQ
You only have to go to a party to see how little size and shape really matters, it's confidence that does the trick, if you have a sexy attitude people will be attracted to you. I've only been to two parties so far but at both there were larger men and ladies (me included) and we all got plenty of very positive attention, nobody was looking in disgust because we may have the odd extra-curvy bit on us! I certainly wasn't thinking 'eww he/she is fat I'm not playing with them!'
It is only natural to be attracted to a certain 'type' but as long as it's not to the exclusion of all others you won't miss out on some fantastic experiences. Some of the best experiences I have had were with people I wasn't immediately attracted to at first, so you never know until you try!

I to am a larger lady and in some ways do lack in confidence. I still find it hard being totally naked on a meet and try as hard as i can to cover myself up...lol But that comes down to me not being happy with myself...but it doesnt stop me arranging fun....or enjoying it when im having it biggrin

Just bring more my way :D