Isn't it odd how the powers that be in all forms of life tell ya not to do something and then be just as bad if not worse themselves?.......Isn't saying'Oooooh,nice pussy',a directive.I'm seems the ladies and gents enjoy 's weirder than weird ya the power to the less angry people is what i say..... war is *not*
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wow good first post!!!!!!! 
welcome to :swingingchair: heaven forum
i think you`ll find the mods do the best they can and are very nice people
welcome to :swingingchair: heaven forum
i think you`ll find the mods do the best they can and are very nice people
Quote by MrMoo
I.......Isn't saying'Oooooh,nice pussy',a directive
Erm, no - it's a compliment
"Get your tit's out" - "show us your flaps" - "shove it up her arse" and other such delightful comments are directing............
• Directing means:
give commands or directions OR
conduct a performance or rehearsal.
compliments surely are not a directive..if someone praises you then they are not telling you to do something.. if someone, god forbid, said i had a nice dick i wouldnt be offended and put it away, but if someone said wave ur dick in the air then i may think get lost..so compliments are ok and everyone enjoys being complimented but being told what to do is different.. i hope that makes sense and im not rambling..
Quote by DeviousLiasons
Its about time we all stood up and thanked the Mods and Ops for the hard work they put in voluntarily. They get heap loads of shit for trying to make the place civilised, feck all time to pursue their own swinging lifestyle, and then someone stands up and has a paddy at them cos he got spanked for breaking the rules.....
Thank you all for the work you put in to make this site so much fun for all the sensible polite couples ladies and guys who come here to enjoy a friendly chat, a laugh and a joke, and a chance to meet some nice people.
i agree totally, we were in a couples and females room and the moderators spent the whole night kicking out single guys. if the guys had read the rules then the moderators could of joined in and relaxed instead of spendind the time kicking ass..
Quote by MrMoo
Isn't it odd how the powers that be in all forms of life tell ya not to do something and then be just as bad if not worse themselves?.......Isn't saying'Oooooh,nice pussy',a directive.I'm seems the ladies and gents enjoy 's weirder than weird ya the power to the less angry people is what i say..... war is *not*
Sad t**t... I'm sorry, I don't often use language like that but he is (I nearly used the 'c' word)
I've only just found may way into chat and absolutely agree that the Ops. have their work cut out without losers like MrUdder making unpunctuated, unintelligent, unsubstantiated, incorrect comments like that... low life, sick eating, cabbages and poo smelling arsehole....
Arrrhhhhh, now I'm chilled
Oh and Jon - get yer t*ts out for the lads :rascal: Quote by MrMoo
Isn't it odd how the powers that be in all forms of life tell ya not to do something and then be just as bad if not worse themselves?.......Isn't saying'Oooooh,nice pussy',a directive.I'm seems the ladies and gents enjoy 's weirder than weird ya the power to the less angry people is what i say..... war is *not*
Aww didums did we frighten you away
: Shame on us Phredd
Orgasminator
Quote by Medic_1
Isn't it odd how the powers that be in all forms of life tell ya not to do something and then be just as bad if not worse themselves?.......Isn't saying'Oooooh,nice pussy',a directive.I'm seems the ladies and gents enjoy 's weirder than weird ya the power to the less angry people is what i say..... war is *not*
Aww didums did we frighten you away
: Shame on us Phredd
:laughabove: :upset:
:laughabove: see, who needs mods when you got nasty baskets like us!!!!
Quote by DeviousLiasons
Its about time we all stood up and thanked the Mods and Ops for the hard work they put in voluntarily. They get heap loads of shit for trying to make the place civilised, feck all time to pursue their own swinging lifestyle, and then someone stands up and has a paddy at them cos he got spanked for breaking the rules.....
Thank you all for the work you put in to make this site so much fun for all the sensible polite couples ladies and guys who come here to enjoy a friendly chat, a laugh and a joke, and a chance to meet some nice people.
Here here thanks guys have a drink on us :cheers:
Hi
I was bollocked by the admins a few times when i first joined for a bit of direction and i learnt a lesson from it ie. ask dont tell, simple.
One gripe is some mod can be a bit sharp and abrupt, such as
this room will be close in x mins please find another room. Why. It wasnt till later i learnet why, no room owner.
Someone was kicked and banned for a day I, and others asked why and had a bit of a discussion with others in room as to why we didnt get an answer. The mod said give it a rest now its done. Then someone kindly told us it was between the mod and the person involved. Why didn't he say that and the questioning would have stopped.
Just basic civilness and manners both ways.
Having said all that they do a good job n i wouldnt do it, tried it once on a site i made it was a nightmare. Like i stated above to much time doing the moding and to little time chating/ swinging. So well done mods and carry on Gripe and praise over
:cheers:
Hey i just found a :borg: emotion cool.
I was bollocked by the admins a few times when i first joined for a bit of direction and i learnt a lesson from it ie. ask dont tell, simple.
One gripe is some mod can be a bit sharp and abrupt, such as
this room will be close in x mins please find another room. Why. It wasnt till later i learnet why, no room owner.
Someone was kicked and banned for a day I, and others asked why and had a bit of a discussion with others in room as to why we didnt get an answer. The mod said give it a rest now its done. Then someone kindly told us it was between the mod and the person involved. Why didn't he say that and the questioning would have stopped.
Just basic civilness and manners both ways.
Having said all that they do a good job n i wouldnt do it, tried it once on a site i made it was a nightmare. Like i stated above to much time doing the moding and to little time chating/ swinging. So well done mods and carry on Gripe and praise over
:cheers:
Hey i just found a :borg: emotion cool.
Am I missing something here?
Last time I checked (that'll be last night then) the mods looked after the forum and the chatroom ops looked after (yes you've guessed it) the chatroom.
Now I understand that people get frustrated and need to let off steam - god knows I do it often enough but I have to ask, If I came into one of the chatrooms while you were watching a couple on cam, and started moaning that a mod had locked my thread in the forum, what would you say to me?
Last time I checked (that'll be last night then) the mods looked after the forum and the chatroom ops looked after (yes you've guessed it) the chatroom.
Now I understand that people get frustrated and need to let off steam - god knows I do it often enough
but I have to ask, If I came into one of the chatrooms while you were watching a couple on cam, and started moaning that a mod had locked my thread in the forum, what would you say to me? 
Sex God
Quote by MrMoo
Isn't it odd how the powers that be in all forms of life tell ya not to do something and then be just as bad if not worse themselves?.......Isn't saying'Oooooh,nice pussy',a directive.I'm seems the ladies and gents enjoy 's weirder than weird ya the power to the less angry people is what i say..... war is *not*
Quote by HornyLittleBlonde
Am I missing something here?
Last time I checked (that'll be last night then) the mods looked after the forum and the chatroom ops looked after (yes you've guessed it) the chatroom.
Now I understand that people get frustrated and need to let off steam - god knows I do it often enough
Perhaps us regular users should all go over the chatrooms and start having a whinge about the forums!! :lol:
Sex God
Quote by HornyLittleBlonde
Am I missing something here?
Last time I checked (that'll be last night then) the mods looked after the forum and the chatroom ops looked after (yes you've guessed it) the chatroom.
Now I understand that people get frustrated and need to let off steam - god knows I do it often enough
based on the original gripe.......show me yer bum
Quote by da69ve
Perhaps us regular users should all go over the chatrooms and start having a whinge about the forums!!
Da69ve
I was sooo tempted to do that once. It was one of those days just after the new chatroom was up and running and there were 6 threads on page 1 of the forum moaning about it.
When a guy went and posted number 7 I started to think about it seriously. I can just imagine a load of people in chat thinking WTF???? :lol:
Quote by goose35
Hi
One gripe is some mod can be a bit sharp and abrupt, such as this room will be close in x mins please find another room. Why. It wasnt till later i learnet why, no room owner.
Well that's hardly the Ops fault is it? If a room owner decides to abandon a room without telling anyone are we meant to sit in there all evening and look after it? Or should we ask another member to open a room and control so we can check other rooms?
Quote by goose35
Someone was kicked and banned for a day I, and others asked why and had a bit of a discussion with others in room as to why we didnt get an answer. The mod said give it a rest now its done. Then someone kindly told us it was between the mod and the person involved. Why didn't he say that and the questioning would have stopped.
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Sorry but I don't think it's any of your business. Constant questioning of Ops' decisions often cause tension and arguements in a room:
Member x says: Why was so and so kicked?
Op says : So and so was kicked for being abusive.
Member x says: I don't think they were abusive.
Member Y says: No nor me..
Op says: They broke the chatroom rules and so were kicked..
Member Z says: Too many people here abusing their power blah blah..
Catch my drift?
Quote by goose35
Just basic civilness and manners both ways.
Well you can expect it from the Ops.....
Quote by goose35
Having said all that they do a good job n i wouldnt do it, tried it once on a site i made it was a nightmare. Like i stated above to much time doing the moding and to little time chating/ swinging. So well done mods and carry on Gripe and praise over
:cheers:
Hey i just found a :borg: emotion cool.
Thanks.
Minx x x
Quote by davej
Am I missing something here?
Last time I checked (that'll be last night then) the mods looked after the forum and the chatroom ops looked after (yes you've guessed it) the chatroom.
Now I understand that people get frustrated and need to let off steam - god knows I do it often enough
based on the original gripe.......show me yer bum
Already have! It's on my avatar
Quote by Medic_1
If i'm not mistaken isn't it the chatroom ops thats run things in the chatroom....so why is he having ago at the Moderators that run the forums?
Dave that is the case normaly but as there are so many rooms and so few Room Ops I am told the Mods are helping out
Phredd
Aaarr bless them!!
I just stating my first thoughts as a new single bloke on here being tarred with the same brush all the nutters who come on here. I know it was none of my bussiness now. I got rolled up in it cos of the fact i was being ignored all night when asking questions and i thought that particulat op was being ignorant at the time and i told him that.
Quote by Medic_1
If i'm not mistaken isn't it the chatroom ops thats run things in the chatroom....so why is he having ago at the Moderators that run the forums?
Dave that is the case normaly but as there are so many rooms and so few Room Ops I am told the Mods are helping out
Phredd
Really Fred??
And how can they help exactly?? They dont have the OP's buttons :roll:
Master of Sex
Quote by goose35
I just stating my first thoughts as a new single bloke on here being tarred with the same brush all the nutters who come on here. I know it was none of my bussiness now. I got rolled up in it cos of the fact i was being ignored all night when asking questions and i thought that particulat op was being ignorant at the time and i told him that.
Goose, I can appreciate your frustration but Ops are entitled to have off-moments just like anyone else. As you're probably starting to gather, they do a lot behind the scenes and have a considerable amount of work to cope with.
In an ideal world I'm sure they would all like the time to be able to deal with member questions and comments in a more thorough way. Fact is they are all worked off their feet and are doing all they can to spread themselves thinly across a large site. Once you get to know the site better you'll appreciate what a busy time they have, mostly with little thanks.
There are a lot of people who use the chatrooms and never venture in here. Ops have to deal with the same basic problems over and over again every time they're online. The fact that you have been into the forums means you'll get a better insight into what makes this site tick and how much work it is for a small number of individuals.
I take my hat off to them (well, I would only I can't find the darned thing!!).
:thumbup:
PS: why does Bloke smell of cabbages? Or don't I really want to know?
Just thought id better clarify that last post
No i just wanted to know why, i was new in chat and still a bit wary of the forums so i asked and was ignored room closed.
maybe i was a bit strong callin it a gripe as ive now become more familiar with this place and my apologies for that. Like i said above
these were my first impressions hence the last statement.
Same as above
I did not say anything like that i said he only had to say none of my bussiness or better it a private matter
Not a gripe (sorry for that bi) just my first thoughts. As im picking up more i do understand. Like i said i've done
it and never again.
Quote by BiWelshMinx
Well that's hardly the Ops fault is it? If a room owner decides to abandon a room without telling anyone are we meant
to sit in there all evening and look after it? Or should we ask another member to open a room and control so we can check
other rooms?
No i just wanted to know why, i was new in chat and still a bit wary of the forums so i asked and was ignored room closed.
maybe i was a bit strong callin it a gripe as ive now become more familiar with this place and my apologies for that. Like i said above
these were my first impressions hence the last statement.
Quote by BiWelshMinx
Sorry but I don't think it's any of your business. Constant questioning of Ops' decisions often cause tension and arguements in a room:
Member x says: Why was so and so kicked?
Op says : So and so was kicked for being abusive.
Member x says: I don't think they were abusive.
Member Y says: No nor me..
Op says: They broke the chatroom rules and so were kicked..
Member Z says: Too many people here abusing their power blah blah..
Catch my drift?
Same as above
Quote by BiWelshMinx
Member Z says: Too many people here abusing their power blah blah..
I did not say anything like that i said he only had to say none of my bussiness or better it a private matter
Not a gripe (sorry for that bi) just my first thoughts. As im picking up more i do understand. Like i said i've done
it and never again.
Quote by Shireen_Mids
If i'm not mistaken isn't it the chatroom ops thats run things in the chatroom....so why is he having ago at the Moderators that run the forums?
Dave that is the case normaly but as there are so many rooms and so few Room Ops I am told the Mods are helping out
Phredd
Really Fred??
And how can they help exactly?? They dont have the OP's buttons :roll:
Shireen hun = I can only say what I have been told. However I did come across Sgt Bilko with a little yellow star by his nic = does that not mean he is a room op. ???
Phredd xx
Quote by goose35
Member Z says: Too many people here abusing their power blah blah..
I did not say anything like that i said he only had to say none of my bussiness or better it a private matter
Not a gripe (sorry for that bi) just my first thoughts. As im picking up more i do understand. Like i said i've done
it and never again.
I didn't say you had said that I was merely pointing out that that is the reason why Op's won't enter into discussions about why member x,y or z was kicked, because they can (and have) degenerated into arguements in a busy room-and lets face it that's not what anyone wants is it?
Bear in mind that an Op can be in more than one room at a time and be dealing with numerous queries. It makes our job easier (and everyone's experience nicer) if we don't enter into debates over our decisions.
As someone who has done the 'job' before I am sure you understand ;)
Minx x x
