Abide by the rules, expect to be asked to do so if you dont, expect to be booted out if you stll dont
No different to real life really.
If a pub is too loud and the language isnt to your liking go to another pub.
I have to say I kind of expected the flak, I made my comment after seeing what i thought was short shrift from a mod to a newbie when I felt the mod was being a little heavy handed.
I respect the opinion of any and all of you, don't agree with all you say but i respect your right to express it.
On a general comment and perhaps this will help to clarify, it is true that it is as likely to be new members as mods and I admit I could have widened by point, i just felt at the time that I should expect more from the mods, I apologies to the mods who clearly don't deserve the criticism. Its important you realise that I don't imply all the mods, but I had a brief exchange with a mod this morning over this subject and the parting line was
'When I'm in Modding Mode, don't worry you'll know'
If my post has only served to make some members and mods think twice before taking a newbie off at the knees then all well and good. I noticed the question was also asked as to why I am a member of a site if I dislike it so much. I never said I disliked the site, I have enjoyed time on the site and have made some good contacts. It can be amusing, touching, interesting and lively, why wouldn't I want to stay a member.
I also said i would accept the views pro and con of people posting, so for all the thoughtful answers thank you whichever way you have expressed your opinion, for all the vitriolic replies, the paucity of your response reflects poorly on you.
And unless I'm booted, i have no intention of leaving so this wasn't a flounce as I depart with my tail between my legs, I hope to bump in to you again around the forums and chat room!
Please also keep in mind that the mods carry the responsibility for what is happening in the forums. If worst comes to the worst the whole site could be shut down just because of some stupid remarks. So it is better to be a bit to much on edge than taking it to lightly.
Point taken G & H, could I now ask the Mods to do me a favour and lock this off, I feel I've had my say and I've enjoyed the discussion and most of the replies have been well made. Thanks all...........XX
I agree naughty. He wants opinions then he wants it locked
What does he want?
ok so rather than take this in a pm to the mod you were pissed with you bought it in to the cafe, then when no one backed you up you want the thread locked??????
please remember the site is free ,the mods work for free they are human and are allowed to play on site aswel.
alot of horney people come on here and jump in with daft posts in the hope it will get them a instant nsa free shag. sometimes in their eagerness they have posted exact doggin locations risking ruining the fun others have had over many a time there. Or they complain about not getting sex after a few hours or days of being on here.
It's gets tiresome. The mods do a great job and deserve thanks.
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Agree with everybody
MODS - you do an awesome job and you do it for free
Many thanks
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I have just read this thread - all I have to add is that, as has been said before in here, the mods (and most of us regulars) can tell when a newbie is being serious and when someone is just taking the piss. It is very rare indeed that the mods get it wrong and come down hard on one of the genuine newbies. There are still a lot of very frivolous new(er) posters here, assorted idiots, TTTTs (TM Jags), and wannabe comedians who are desperately unfunny, and I like the way the mods cut through their crap.
Mike.